Men Suck!

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 09:48 PM

Okay need to vent not all men suck but I want to hear some input on this!!! Men have to be the biggest cowards!!! Why is it when they have a bad day or whatever they can't just say hey I had a bad so I need sometime alone??? Nope instead they would rather treat you like total crap and not let you know what was wrong!!! And why can't guys ever talk to a girl what are they so freakin afraid of??!!?? Men are always b*tchin that girls never say what is on their minds and play little games... I think that is the other way around!!!! I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!???

Sorry had to vent!
Karen

StoplightWarrior · 09-09-2002, 09:52 PM

i dont suck.

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 09:54 PM

I know Jason I said all men dont suck MOST men on this site is pretty cool!

See Ya,
Karen

HotRoddin · 09-09-2002, 09:56 PM

<< I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!??? >>

Yep, but they're gay

J/K ... you sound wayyyy to much like my wife ! Is that you hun ? lol

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 10:01 PM

LOL yup it is probably a girl thing lol or is that the way men try and explain it???!!!!

See Ya,
Karen

Hammer · 09-09-2002, 10:05 PM

In case you haven't already figured it out....

We're men... We DON"T like to talk.... We don't want to COMMUNICATE, we don't get in touch with our emotions, and we sure as heck don't find our "inner child"....

My advice as someone who's been married 12 years:
Give him a beer, the latest copy of Muscle Mustangs and Fast Fords, the remote control and leave him alone for a couple of hours.

By that time I guarantee he will have forgotten about whatever he was pissed about if it didn't have anything to do with you....

Remember ladies, the keys to men:
Food, beer, sex, cars, and a little quiet time....

Remember that and you've got us figured out....

bri32zz · 09-09-2002, 10:05 PM

I always tell my wife the lowdown of my bad days. In return she tells me her days adventures at work and how the kids tortured her. It is not a guy thing, I have met women that act like that too. It is just nature of some folk. I guess I am just in touch with my sensitive side. Don't laugh

RBatson · 09-09-2002, 10:12 PM

Maybe its because women are soo wrapped up in asking you what color they should color thier hair(for instance) that they really either can't relate to your problems or don't really want to hear it, to start with.. err.... I'm sure not ALL women are like that...

Just kidding with you Shelby.. HEEH!

I have to agree with Hammer on the "Food, Beer, Sex and Cars". If I want quiet time I either pull an Al Bundy (mag in the can) or pretend I fell asleep.

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 10:23 PM

Yeah guys but what I am saying is why do they have to treat you like crap because of their day?? I mean I don't really expect men to talk about their problems but they could say Hey had a bad day just let me be ... But they dont they act like a*s holes how come?

HotRoddin · 09-09-2002, 10:25 PM

I go out in the garage and port heads

You know the difference between a crazed Doberman and a woman with PMS ???

Lipstick

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 10:28 PM

LMAO@hotrod ummmmmmmmm no !!

joe4speed · 09-09-2002, 10:47 PM

I don't suck either... I'm the "perfect guy"... Really, I am!

jj_jonathon · 09-09-2002, 10:52 PM

i dont suck....

i talk with my gf all the time...shes knows how i feel and i know how she feels....hell i even used to help out other girls with their problems...but most guys dont talk, youre right....

The Deuce · 09-09-2002, 10:53 PM

I'm sorry you had to take the brunt of that sweetheart.

Men don't care who or what is "in the way" when they are having a bad day. They will beat up on anything around them, cars, walls small woodland creatures. Unfortunatly, most of the time guys have a bad day and come home to a woman.

I have an 80lb heavy bag and a pair of shorts in my garage. There are days I don't go in the house until I've used them both. That way I can leave some of my anger (one of the four emotions men understand) out there and be a little bit nicer.

The other part of the problem is that men are supposed to be strong. When things go wrong for us we have to deal with it. That's our job. More often than not, it makes us seem grumpy to those around us.

The guys that can comminicate, there is usually something wrong with them.

Topless In Texas · 09-09-2002, 10:57 PM

Hey Karen,
One thing to keep in mind, and this is only from my own expierience, is that sometimes it takes a little time for some guys to feel 'comfortable' baring thier souls, or to be open about thier feelings. Especially if it is someone who is not like that and has never been used to someone actually wanting them to open up and caring about what is going on.
This takes time for some, and some more time than others....I myself have no problem expressing myself, but alot of men have like a 'wall' to keep behind. And sometimes it just takes time to break down that barrier. It just kinda happens.. But still at times, there is that moment that they dont say anything for fear that the wrong thing will come out or it will be hurtful because of thier mood. Of corse, it is better in that instance if they dont say anything at all, then to say hurtful things, but everyone deals w/ bad days differently. Usually after the initial crappiness of the day is gone, they will come around...
I know that does not make it any easier, especially if you tend to be an emotional person and open yourself. But, this too, will pass. (hate those cliches'). Hang in there...It just takes a little time!!!!

Best of luck to ya!

Christine

Illini · 09-09-2002, 11:03 PM

Sorry couldn't resist that one Shelby, I think Hammer hit the nail on the head though. There's no reason for him to be an a$shole to you though. Hell just tell him it's better to be pissed off then pissed on.

What works for me when I'm pissed or had a bad is to have a few and watch the fast and the furious( slow and sexually curious would have been a better title). Hell after watching 30 minutes of ricers acting cool I feel way better about my self.

DH

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 11:04 PM

Thanks a lot Christine heehee only a girl could say it that good!!! Guys take notes!! And Deuce I know about mens tempers, most dont hit those objects...just their g/f's around here anyway!!!

See Ya,
Karen

Topless In Texas · 09-09-2002, 11:15 PM

Glad I could be of assistance!!!

Now, I gotta start thinking about bed. I've been getting 'sick' since yesterday, and I feel like hell...

If ya need anything dont hesitate to holler at me!

Have a good evening....

TNT

The Deuce · 09-09-2002, 11:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Shelby428cj
Thanks a lot Christine heehee only a girl could say it that good!!! Guys take notes!! And Deuce I know about mens tempers, most dont hit those objects...just their g/f's around here anyway!!!

See Ya,
Karen

That's unaccpetable. I'm driving out to St. Louis to see some friends next summer. Just make me a list, and I'll take care of anybody you need.

Shelby428cj · 09-09-2002, 11:20 PM

LOL it is a long list deuce!!!

Night Christine thanks everyone for the response!!!!!!!!

See Ya,
Karen

09-09-2002, 09:48 PM	#1
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	Men Suck! Okay need to vent not all men suck but I want to hear some input on this!!! Men have to be the biggest cowards!!! Why is it when they have a bad day or whatever they can't just say hey I had a bad so I need sometime alone??? Nope instead they would rather treat you like total crap and not let you know what was wrong!!! And why can't guys ever talk to a girl what are they so freakin afraid of??!!?? Men are always b*tchin that girls never say what is on their minds and play little games... I think that is the other way around!!!! I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!??? Sorry had to vent! Karen __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 09:52 PM	#2
StoplightWarrior Registered Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Nor-Cal Posts: 1,311	i dont suck. __________________ Black 2000 GT Auto V2-SQ, Full Steeda G-trac Suspension, Baer Brakes, Saleen Body Kit, Corbeau CR1s, Chrome Cobra R's, etc, etc... 341rwhp, 338 torque 1994 Cobra #4343 Bolt on's only... Cofounder of Raccoon Racing

09-09-2002, 09:54 PM	#3
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	I know Jason I said all men dont suck MOST men on this site is pretty cool! See Ya, Karen __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 10:01 PM	#5
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	LOL yup it is probably a girl thing lol or is that the way men try and explain it???!!!! See Ya, Karen __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 10:05 PM	#6
Hammer AKA "Dr. Evil" Join Date: Feb 1999 Location: South Fork Ranch Posts: 1,721	In case you haven't already figured it out.... We're men... We DON"T like to talk.... We don't want to COMMUNICATE, we don't get in touch with our emotions, and we sure as heck don't find our "inner child".... My advice as someone who's been married 12 years: Give him a beer, the latest copy of Muscle Mustangs and Fast Fords, the remote control and leave him alone for a couple of hours. By that time I guarantee he will have forgotten about whatever he was pissed about if it didn't have anything to do with you.... Remember ladies, the keys to men: Food, beer, sex, cars, and a little quiet time.... Remember that and you've got us figured out.... __________________ Uncle Sam "What the hell is up with all the gauges? Calling Captain Kirk, your ride awaits... Phasers on stun...."

09-09-2002, 09:56 PM	#4
HotRoddin cranky old man Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Longview Texas Posts: 683	<< I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!??? >> Yep, but they're gay J/K ... you sound wayyyy to much like my wife ! Is that you hun ? lol

09-09-2002, 10:05 PM	#7
bri32zz Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Canton GA Posts: 216	I always tell my wife the lowdown of my bad days. In return she tells me her days adventures at work and how the kids tortured her. It is not a guy thing, I have met women that act like that too. It is just nature of some folk. I guess I am just in touch with my sensitive side. Don't laugh __________________ My CAR IS GONE R.I.P----I miss YOU 331ci, 69 Windsor heads ported and shaved , Trick Flow-Intake ported,JE blower pistons, Custom cam 542 lift, 1.73 rrs, Equal length headers, BBK Hi-Flow cats, Hurst shifter, 3:73 gears, Tremec 3550 tranny,Lakewood drag suspension-90/10 in front and 50/50 in the back. Lakewood traction bars. Edelbrock 70mm tb, K&N filter, Kirban fuel reguator, Custom sub-Frame connectors,83 lb squirters, powerdyne blower with 12psi pulley, http://www.pumpoperators.com/brian/ Rice Haters Club Member #82 My wife is AWSOME!!!!!!!!

09-09-2002, 10:12 PM	#8
RBatson Registered Member Join Date: May 1997 Posts: 3,028	Maybe its because women are soo wrapped up in asking you what color they should color thier hair(for instance) that they really either can't relate to your problems or don't really want to hear it, to start with.. err.... I'm sure not *ALL* women are like that... Just kidding with you Shelby.. HEEH! I have to agree with Hammer on the "Food, Beer, Sex and Cars". If I want quiet time I either pull an Al Bundy (mag in the can) or pretend I fell asleep.

09-09-2002, 10:23 PM	#9
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	Yeah guys but what I am saying is why do they have to treat you like crap because of their day?? I mean I don't really expect men to talk about their problems but they could say Hey had a bad day just let me be ... But they dont they act like a*s holes how come? __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 10:25 PM	#10
HotRoddin cranky old man Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Longview Texas Posts: 683	I go out in the garage and port heads You know the difference between a crazed Doberman and a woman with PMS ??? Lipstick

09-09-2002, 10:28 PM	#11
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	LMAO@hotrod ummmmmmmmm no !! __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 10:47 PM	#12
joe4speed He said Member...heh, heh Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Jupiter, Florida U.S.A. Posts: 3,718	I don't suck either... I'm the "perfect guy"... Really, I am! __________________ *Joe!* 1988 GT, 13.58@101mph Check out my listing! Click here! Or my website:www.joe4speed.com

09-09-2002, 10:52 PM	#13
jj_jonathon Trisket Join Date: May 2002 Location: University of Florida, FL Posts: ½ Posts: 1,560	i dont suck.... i talk with my gf all the time...shes knows how i feel and i know how she feels....hell i even used to help out other girls with their problems...but most guys dont talk, youre right.... __________________ University of Florida - Physics Major My 02GT vert Media Center Pics BBK Underdrive Pulleys \| K&N FIPK (Gen II) \| Bullet Grille \| Mach 1 Chin Spoiler \| UPR Interior Parts \| XM Radio \| Audiobahn Subs Ricer Hater's Club Member #1/2 (30) http://www.ricehatersclub.com/

09-09-2002, 10:53 PM	#14
The Deuce Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 2,325	I'm sorry you had to take the brunt of that sweetheart. Men don't care who or what is "in the way" when they are having a bad day. They will beat up on anything around them, cars, walls small woodland creatures. Unfortunatly, most of the time guys have a bad day and come home to a woman. I have an 80lb heavy bag and a pair of shorts in my garage. There are days I don't go in the house until I've used them both. That way I can leave some of my anger (one of the four emotions men understand) out there and be a little bit nicer. The other part of the problem is that men are supposed to be strong. When things go wrong for us we have to deal with it. That's our job. More often than not, it makes us seem grumpy to those around us. The guys that can comminicate, there is usually something wrong with them. __________________ 1997 Mustang GT "The Freak" - 13.80 @ 101.70, 2.07 60' 1995 Honda VFR750 - not much @ really fast (actual data pending.) 1964.5 Mustang 289 Rice Haters Club Member #13

09-09-2002, 10:57 PM	#15
Topless In Texas Not broken anymore! Join Date: May 2001 Location: La Porte, TEXASS :) Posts: 1,963	:) Hey Karen, One thing to keep in mind, and this is only from my own expierience, is that sometimes it takes a little time for some guys to feel 'comfortable' baring thier souls, or to be open about thier feelings. Especially if it is someone who is not like that and has never been used to someone actually wanting them to open up and caring about what is going on. This takes time for some, and some more time than others....I myself have no problem expressing myself, but alot of men have like a 'wall' to keep behind. And sometimes it just takes time to break down that barrier. It just kinda happens.. But still at times, there is that moment that they dont say anything for fear that the wrong thing will come out or it will be hurtful because of thier mood. Of corse, it is better in that instance if they dont say anything at all, then to say hurtful things, but everyone deals w/ bad days differently. Usually after the initial crappiness of the day is gone, they will come around... I know that does not make it any easier, especially if you tend to be an emotional person and open yourself. But, this too, will pass. (hate those cliches'). Hang in there...It just takes a little time!!!! Best of luck to ya! Christine __________________ R.I.P. my Kinde..Jan. 19,1992-Aug. 22, 2003. Shes Cruisin' doggie heaven in a Blown Verte or a GTO!!! 2005 ROUSH GT Verte SuperStallions of the Net Feature, May 2002 RICE HATERS CLUB MEMBER #38!! O.B.C #5..thank you!! I feel so priveledged!! BONE STOCK~ Hell, its a ROUSH!

09-09-2002, 11:03 PM	#16
Illini Registered Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Illinois Posts: 44	Men suck, hell I thought that was the chicks job. Sorry couldn't resist that one Shelby, I think Hammer hit the nail on the head though. There's no reason for him to be an a$shole to you though. Hell just tell him it's better to be pissed off then pissed on. What works for me when I'm pissed or had a bad is to have a few and watch the fast and the furious( slow and sexually curious would have been a better title). Hell after watching 30 minutes of ricers acting cool I feel way better about my self. DH __________________ 2002 min gray GT: steeda underdrives, timing adjuster, triax, C&L maf, MM strut tower brace and k-member brace, Steeda subs weld-in, steeda tubular front sway bar, bullitt springs ,struts(tokico's)and shocks, bullitt gas door, alum.pedals, MM panhard Bar, cobra 13" front brake upgrade. ON THE WAY TO BECOMING A TRACK ***** 66' 2 dr malibu; 355 cube 4-bolt main, steel crank, chevy pink rods, KB 10.7 to1 pistons, ported double humps 202&160, torkerII intake, rejetted holley 650 D.P., crane ignition box, comp.cam roller rockers& 280 degree cam, balanced to 8500 rpm, hooker super comps, 3000 rpm stall and built turbo 350 tranny. dynoed at 543hp and 582 tq

09-09-2002, 11:04 PM	#17
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	Thanks a lot Christine heehee only a girl could say it that good!!! Guys take notes!! And Deuce I know about mens tempers, most dont hit those objects...just their g/f's around here anyway!!! See Ya, Karen __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

09-09-2002, 11:15 PM	#18
Topless In Texas Not broken anymore! Join Date: May 2001 Location: La Porte, TEXASS :) Posts: 1,963	Yo Welcome! Glad I could be of assistance!!! Now, I gotta start thinking about bed. I've been getting 'sick' since yesterday, and I feel like hell... If ya need anything dont hesitate to holler at me! Have a good evening.... TNT __________________ R.I.P. my Kinde..Jan. 19,1992-Aug. 22, 2003. Shes Cruisin' doggie heaven in a Blown Verte or a GTO!!! 2005 ROUSH GT Verte SuperStallions of the Net Feature, May 2002 RICE HATERS CLUB MEMBER #38!! O.B.C #5..thank you!! I feel so priveledged!! BONE STOCK~ Hell, its a ROUSH!

09-09-2002, 11:20 PM	#20
Shelby428cj Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 510	LOL it is a long list deuce!!! Night Christine thanks everyone for the response!!!!!!!! See Ya, Karen __________________ Karen Wells, Moderator The Mustang Works Magazine http://www.mustangworks.com 1969 Mustang (Project Rice Eater) 1999 Silver Mustang Saleen S281 (SQ car for stereo contests) SQ Goddess My Stereo Bro "tireburner163"

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