Just talk to her about everything you're feeling towards her, and ask her how's she's feeling too. Then tell her that you're a little unsure about the situation with work and everything but you'd like to try to figure everything out and have a good "relationship" out of it. But tell her it will have to be taken slowly at first. I'm sure if she's trully the person she's making herself out to be, she'll probably feel the same way as you and want to act upon everything the same also. If not....then ouch....but it's not worth it man...