I never ever thought it would happen

Skyman · 11-07-2001, 03:25 AM

I typed it all out and the browser lost it:

ANyways. My girlfriend of almost 2 years dumped me.... I didnt see it coming. My life felt like it was coming around and gettin right. She says she wants to see other guys. She said shes sick of going to clubs and not being able to take good looking guys numbers like her friends. I never saw it coming. I always let her go cuz I trusted her. I loved her so much, and I never ever saw this coming. I feel so betrayed. I dont even feel like it was the same person. I feel so screwed. I can't believe it. She says she wants to goto away to college next year and not be tied down, to be able to get with other guys. I just dont get it. She always said she wanted to be with me forever. She had all the bad boyfriends in the past. etc etc.

Read her profile form AOL.
http://members.aol.com/lskymanl/profile.jpg

I feel so screwed. I thought everything was right.

Skyler

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-1989 Saleen Mustang #406-
TFS TW Heads, E-303, Edelbrock intake, 70mm TB, 73mm MAF, 24lb injectors, 1 5/8 shorties, Off Road H, 3 Chamber flows, Jaz Race seats, Back seat removed, sub-frames, Roll Cage, and a 80 shot of N20.
12.54@107.4 Motor
332RWHP, 350rwtq

[This message has been edited by Mr 5 0 (edited 11-07-2001).]

PKRWUD · 11-07-2001, 05:46 AM

Crap like this isn't supposed to happen to guys like you! Now I'm confused too. I never met her, Sky, but you always put her first, and always spoke highly of her. You're a terrific person. You're in good shape, you maintain a steady income, you are always willing to listen to others, Hell, Sky, you're 5 times the man most guys your age are. It's her loss, but I know that doesn't mean much right now. Reading your post brought back some really deep wounds, and I really can feel for you. There is no simple answer. I, and everyone else can tell you that time really does help heal, but that line is probably pointless right now. It's going to take a while before this even sinks in. You've got a couple years on her, man, and she's probably just feeling antsy. Be glad she told you this way, rather than finding out after she starts seeing someone else. That's what happened to me, and I'll tell you, there's no lower feeling in the world. You guys have some more talking to do, but if you start to feel angry, back off, and get away from her. Anger only makes things worse. I'll tell you what, we already won the championship, but there is still one more race for us this Saturday. Why don't you come down to the track and hang out with us in the pits this Saturday. It might help get your mind off things, and the change of scenery couldn't hurt. Not to mention, I know you're going to dig checking out the 700 horsepower beasts. Last week, there were 33 regular sprints, and 21 seniors! There will probably be at least that many this week. If you can't afford the $20 for the pit pass, I'll cover it for you, but I may put you to work! Let me know before Friday.

Either way, Sky, I'm really sorry you're feeling what you're feeling right now. I know it hurts.

Take care,
-Chris

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Mach 1 · 11-07-2001, 06:08 AM

Sky - There is nothing to "get". Do not, I repeat DO NOT bang your head against the wall over this. It just wasnt meant to be, and thats all there is to it. Its nobody fault, not yours, not hers, just accept it and move on. Trust me, its the best way. If you fight it, it only hurts worse. Dont try to understand it, dont analyze it, that will only drive you nuts with no benefit.

She obviously doesnt know what she wants, so she wants to see whats out there. A little advise - Dont ever believe a woman who says "I want to be with you forever". Anybody who makes that statement is inmature and you have to take it for whats its worth, which is absolutely nothing.

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'93 Mustang GT

joe4speed · 11-07-2001, 11:29 AM

Wow... deja vu....
Man, that sucks, they're right though, it's a good thing you found out this way rather than when she was with someone else. I don't know how women do it. Everything's fine, then BAM! All of a sudden, they're over you for some strange unknown reason. We may never know, it just seems they never want the ones who will take care of them, but they ***** about the ones who don't! Figure it out ladies!!!!

Good luck, Sky, it'll get better, I know how you feel, I'm going through relationship distress as we speak!

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Skyman · 11-07-2001, 12:19 PM

Thanks guys sooo much. Every little bit helps, it really does. Chris- I may take you up on that, but I have to see if I feel like it later this week.

I have so many mixed feelings. I feel betrayed, I feel like I was with a fake person, I feel so miled. And yet I have anger or anxiousness too. I slept 3 hours last night. Im dead tired, but I can't sleep one bit.

Skyler

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-1989 Saleen Mustang #406-
TFS TW Heads, E-303, Edelbrock intake, 70mm TB, 73mm MAF, 24lb injectors, 1 5/8 shorties, Off Road H, 3 Chamber flows, Jaz Race seats, Back seat removed, sub-frames, Roll Cage, and a 80 shot of N20.
12.54@107.4 Motor
332RWHP, 350rwtq

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Mercury · 11-07-2001, 01:36 PM

Skyman.

That had to be a total shock to the system. Its hard for me to give advice when I myself have little that goes right in my love life. I can attract them, but its usually the mentally unstable, or No particualar dierction Women.

There were a few good ones!

Crank that Saleen up and let them ponies fly.

I know this might hurt, and I dont mean to upset you at all. Dont take it the wrong way, but if all she worries about is not being "Able to take Cute guys numbers like her friends." "And being tied down while in college" She doesnt sound like much of a catch, to say the least. That sounds so SHALLOW.

Women like that Really Really Really Piss me off.

Okay sorry man, I didnt mean any harm. You Can do much MUCH better.

I got back at the "Fake" Women I dated a few years back, and in a big way.

Nothing like a little revenge to make the soul feel better.

Anyway man, We at Mustang WOrks are here for ya. Go hang out with the guys, Grab a Six pack (If your 21 or older) put your car in the garage, call some friends over and find something to do to her. Her bieng the car!

Dont go dating right away because that will only make you feel worse, you'll think about her more. Give it a few weeks, and just chill with the friends, they'll help you overcome anything. Especially if you have Good friends and family like me. (I consider you all my friends too.)

[This message has been edited by Mercury (edited 11-07-2001).]

Hethj7 · 11-07-2001, 08:55 PM

Sorry, Sky. This brings back memories for me too. There is no lower feeling than losing the one you love. But, people on the board are right. It only gets worse if you try to fight it. My advice to you now is to just stay away from her. Resist all urges to call her and try to work things out. I have never seen that work. If anything, you may just need time apart and things may work out later, but do not try to force them to work now. It just makes it harder....trust me.

I was crushed when I got out of my last serious relationship, but many positives have come out of it. I finally (after almost two years apart) realized I could have never married that girl. And, I have regained my relationships with some of my best friends and learned a lot about myself and relationships. Sure, I want to be with someone again, but I look quickly for warning signs that I didn't used to see and stear clear. Just try to surround yourself with things to do and friends, and time will eventually heal all woulnds....although letting time pass can really suck.

Also, as an added bonus: I bought a motorcycle with the money I would have spent on her

!

Unit 5302 · 11-07-2001, 09:01 PM

Holy **** , Sky! What the **** is all that about? It sounded to me like everything was going right and coming together for you two. This is suck-*** . I know you've been workin your *** of as of late, did she pull the fuckin "time" card out again?

I'll hit you up later, man.

NoSlow5.0 · 11-07-2001, 09:12 PM

DAMN!!! I am sorry i don't have much to say except that we are here for ya and feel your pain. I will never understand women. All i ever hear from the women i know is bitching about how there are no good men in the world but as soon as they find a good one they go and **** it all up! GET A CLUE LADIES!!! Sooooo sorry man! Jonathan

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69fastback · 11-07-2001, 10:16 PM

I don't know maybe i am just an ****** but in situations like this i always have a back up. If she doesn't want u who cares there is always a girl out there that does. I will usally feel sad for a day or two but that is it. Don't ever let a women break ur spirits. there will always be more. Just be true to urself cuz u are the only person u are ever truly gonna have. Well take care i am sure everything will work out just fine.

silver_pilate · 11-07-2001, 11:52 PM

Sky,

Let me tell you that I'll lift up a prayer for you tonight.

I know a little bit of how you must feel, and I'm sorry you have to go through it.

I've never met you or talked with you on the phone, but I've developed a respect for you over the last three years in the exchange of posts here on MW. You've got a lot of friends out here, and you've always proven yourself to be a mature and considerate person. I don't know what her deal is, but I agree that she has a good bit of maturing to do.

God bless you man, and take care. Don't do anything stupid like getting drunk and driving your car or anything like that. Just sit it out. Sometimes that's all you can do.

--nathan

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Check out my site

Capri306 · 11-08-2001, 12:44 AM

Quote:

I have so many mixed feelings. I feel betrayed, I feel like I was with a fake person.

Goddamn, let me join this club! Looks like we'll be joining the party up at Lonely-Man's Peak together. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 months yesterday. I just asked her to be honest how she feels about 'us', and she tells me she just wants to be alone right now...guess you can tell where it went from there. Then she asks me if I'm going to be mad at her. I wanted to say, "um, are you f*cking stupid? NO $HIT!!!"

I punched a ******' hole in my wall after that, and drank half my bottle of rum. Yeah, yeah, alcohol isn't the answer, but I drink SO INfrequently I don't see anything wrong with it. My best friend came over and we basically drove all over God's creation just to chill out. Thank God I have friends like that.

I feel I was SO led on...dammit. My relationships are either all or nothing, none of this half-assed bull$hit...I should've known.

Sky, I've never been in such a relationship where it was just cut off like that, kinda like a dog getting neutered without painkillers. I can't even imagine how you feel right now. All I can say is we're feeling your pain too (seems at least most of us guys on the 'board here are going through similar relationship break-ups), and just to come here and talk about it, if not with your friends at home. We're here for ya.

The pain & stuff will last for a while. Believe me, I've felt it. Fortunately, time heals all wounds, and this is no exception. Take care.

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Mach 1 · 11-08-2001, 04:57 AM

JL1314 said it very well -

"I don't know how women do it. Everything's fine, then BAM! All of a sudden, they're over you for some strange unknown reason."

I found this to be true in a couple relationships, and its been my experience that the woman who do this already have another man in their sights. Woman arent single very long like men, and they jump from man to man quickly. The amazing part is they can do this without showing any emotion. Its almost like they can just turn it on or off like a switch. They love you one minute, hate you the next.

It all boils down to this - Woman are cold, cruel, evil beings and should never be trusted. They play with our emotions like we play with our cars. Just take up the "I dont give a crap about woman" attitude, and they will come swarming to you. They dont want "nice guys". Be yourself, but treat them like one of the guys sometimes, tell them to go f-off or whatever. They like it, they are sick, strange creatures....ok, i better shut up now before my wife walks into the room....

later days, better lays

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1993 GT/AOD
'93 Mustang GT

PKRWUD · 11-08-2001, 06:17 AM

Extreme II, Pornograffitti, track 11.

That's all I'm gonna say.

Take care,
-Chris

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Mach 1 · 11-08-2001, 09:21 AM

what is the name of track 11? I want to try to download some music with my new "high speed" cable modem. This thing rocks!

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PKRWUD · 11-08-2001, 09:28 AM

He-Man Woman Hater

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smokedchevy · 11-09-2001, 02:58 AM

Damn dude, sorry to hear that. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for two years. I thought everything was great, then one day she just started ignoring me. I finally got hold of her and confronted her and she just said she didn't want to get any more serious right now. WTF! Chicks are weird man. Then she starts going out with this guy who's old enough to be hear father. Oh, well. Anyways, I'm sorry to hear that and I hope you feel better. Keep us posted!

jimmyjr · 11-09-2001, 01:58 PM

Hey Skyler,

Let it go...She definately doesn't deserve someone like you!!!With that cool car of yours, I'm sure you'll have NO PROBLEM, picking up a new main squeeze...Don't worry dude...been there, done that....Just ride it out...and remember hang in ther!!!Jimmy G

Capri306 · 11-09-2001, 02:17 PM

PKRWUD: that is one of the best Extreme songs to d/l, dude. Made me feel a whole lot better, especially that intro guitar solo. Nuno is a god!

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haulin'balz · 11-09-2001, 03:00 PM

Sky, I'm sorry to hear about your girl, but I'm glad that you didn't find out later......it's always better to find out sooner rather than wasting more time than you have to on someone who's not worth it. You seem like a nice guy, you're very helpful, and you sure know your $hit about stangs. You also seem more mature beyond your years. Once you mentioned her going off to school next year, I completely understood. That scenario happens WAY too often......the "I don't want to be tied down, and want to date other guys" routine. Take my word for it.......f&^%k her! Say goodbye and give her a final one finger salute! I know it hurts right now, but like I told Merc........the only thing that'll make you feel better is by going out and dipping it into every little hottie you come across. Take it from someone that's been there before in the not so distant past. Keep your chin up.......you're more than she deserved!

11-07-2001, 03:25 AM	#1
Skyman I need 110mph Trap Speed! Join Date: Feb 1999 Location: So, CA Posts: 4,315	I never ever thought it would happen I typed it all out and the browser lost it: ANyways. My girlfriend of almost 2 years dumped me.... I didnt see it coming. My life felt like it was coming around and gettin right. She says she wants to see other guys. She said shes sick of going to clubs and not being able to take good looking guys numbers like her friends. I never saw it coming. I always let her go cuz I trusted her. I loved her so much, and I never ever saw this coming. I feel so betrayed. I dont even feel like it was the same person. I feel so screwed. I can't believe it. She says she wants to goto away to college next year and not be tied down, to be able to get with other guys. I just dont get it. She always said she wanted to be with me forever. She had all the bad boyfriends in the past. etc etc. Read her profile form AOL. http://members.aol.com/lskymanl/profile.jpg I feel so screwed. I thought everything was right. Skyler ------------------ -1989 Saleen Mustang #406- TFS TW Heads, E-303, Edelbrock intake, 70mm TB, 73mm MAF, 24lb injectors, 1 5/8 shorties, Off Road H, 3 Chamber flows, Jaz Race seats, Back seat removed, sub-frames, Roll Cage, and a 80 shot of N20. 12.54@107.4 Motor *332RWHP, 350rwtq* [This message has been edited by Mr 5 0 (edited 11-07-2001).]

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11-07-2001, 05:46 AM	#2
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Crap like this isn't supposed to happen to guys like you! Now I'm confused too. I never met her, Sky, but you always put her first, and always spoke highly of her. You're a terrific person. You're in good shape, you maintain a steady income, you are always willing to listen to others, Hell, Sky, you're 5 times the man most guys your age are. It's her loss, but I know that doesn't mean much right now. Reading your post brought back some really deep wounds, and I really can feel for you. There is no simple answer. I, and everyone else can tell you that time really does help heal, but that line is probably pointless right now. It's going to take a while before this even sinks in. You've got a couple years on her, man, and she's probably just feeling antsy. Be glad she told you this way, rather than finding out after she starts seeing someone else. That's what happened to me, and I'll tell you, there's no lower feeling in the world. You guys have some more talking to do, but if you start to feel angry, back off, and get away from her. Anger only makes things worse. I'll tell you what, we already won the championship, but there is still one more race for us this Saturday. Why don't you come down to the track and hang out with us in the pits this Saturday. It might help get your mind off things, and the change of scenery couldn't hurt. Not to mention, I know you're going to dig checking out the 700 horsepower beasts. Last week, there were 33 regular sprints, and 21 seniors! There will probably be at least that many this week. If you can't afford the $20 for the pit pass, I'll cover it for you, but I may put you to work! Let me know before Friday. Either way, Sky, I'm really sorry you're feeling what you're feeling right now. I know it hurts. Take care, -Chris ------------------ Retired Moderator MustangNet My site: Peckerwoods Pit Stop My teams site: Jim Porter Racing RACECAR spelled backwards is RACECAR HEY !!! Are you ASE Certified ??? If you are, ask me about iATN.

11-07-2001, 06:08 AM	#3
Mach 1 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Location: Georgia Posts: 3,866	Sky - There is nothing to "get". Do not, I repeat DO NOT bang your head against the wall over this. It just wasnt meant to be, and thats all there is to it. Its nobody fault, not yours, not hers, just accept it and move on. Trust me, its the best way. If you fight it, it only hurts worse. Dont try to understand it, dont analyze it, that will only drive you nuts with no benefit. She obviously doesnt know what she wants, so she wants to see whats out there. A little advise - Dont ever believe a woman who says "I want to be with you forever". Anybody who makes that statement is inmature and you have to take it for whats its worth, which is absolutely nothing. ------------------ 1993 GT/AOD '93 Mustang GT

11-07-2001, 11:29 AM	#4
joe4speed He said Member...heh, heh Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Jupiter, Florida U.S.A. Posts: 3,718	Wow... deja vu.... Man, that sucks, they're right though, it's a good thing you found out this way rather than when she was with someone else. I don't know how women do it. Everything's fine, then BAM! All of a sudden, they're over you for some strange unknown reason. We may never know, it just seems they never want the ones who will take care of them, but they *** about the ones who don't! Figure it out ladies!!!! Good luck, Sky, it'll get better, I know how you feel, I'm going through relationship distress as we speak! ------------------ Joe! 1988 GT, 167,000 miles!!!** 13.58@105mph Check out my listing! Click here! Or my website:www.joe4speed.com 99 Ninja ZX-6R:10.32@135mph! 1993 Olds Eighty Eight LSS 16.40@88.8mph

11-07-2001, 12:19 PM	#5
Skyman I need 110mph Trap Speed! Join Date: Feb 1999 Location: So, CA Posts: 4,315	Thanks guys sooo much. Every little bit helps, it really does. Chris- I may take you up on that, but I have to see if I feel like it later this week. I have so many mixed feelings. I feel betrayed, I feel like I was with a fake person, I feel so miled. And yet I have anger or anxiousness too. I slept 3 hours last night. Im dead tired, but I can't sleep one bit. Skyler ------------------ -1989 Saleen Mustang #406- TFS TW Heads, E-303, Edelbrock intake, 70mm TB, 73mm MAF, 24lb injectors, 1 5/8 shorties, Off Road H, 3 Chamber flows, Jaz Race seats, Back seat removed, sub-frames, Roll Cage, and a 80 shot of N20. 12.54@107.4 Motor *332RWHP, 350rwtq* [This message has been edited by Mr 5 0 (edited 11-07-2001).]

11-07-2001, 01:36 PM	#6
Mercury The Redneck James Bond Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Fayetteville NC Posts: 1,707	Skyman. That had to be a total shock to the system. Its hard for me to give advice when I myself have little that goes right in my love life. I can attract them, but its usually the mentally unstable, or No particualar dierction Women. There were a few good ones! Crank that Saleen up and let them ponies fly. I know this might hurt, and I dont mean to upset you at all. Dont take it the wrong way, but if all she worries about is not being "Able to take Cute guys numbers like her friends." "And being tied down while in college" She doesnt sound like much of a catch, to say the least. That sounds so SHALLOW. Women like that Really Really Really Piss me off. Okay sorry man, I didnt mean any harm. You Can do much MUCH better. I got back at the "Fake" Women I dated a few years back, and in a big way. Nothing like a little revenge to make the soul feel better. Anyway man, We at Mustang WOrks are here for ya. Go hang out with the guys, Grab a Six pack (If your 21 or older) put your car in the garage, call some friends over and find something to do to her. Her bieng the car! Dont go dating right away because that will only make you feel worse, you'll think about her more. Give it a few weeks, and just chill with the friends, they'll help you overcome anything. Especially if you have Good friends and family like me. (I consider you all my friends too.) [This message has been edited by Mercury (edited 11-07-2001).]

11-07-2001, 08:55 PM	#7
Hethj7 Mizzou Tigers Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: weston, MO United States Posts: 1,455	Sorry, Sky. This brings back memories for me too. There is no lower feeling than losing the one you love. But, people on the board are right. It only gets worse if you try to fight it. My advice to you now is to just stay away from her. Resist all urges to call her and try to work things out. I have never seen that work. If anything, you may just need time apart and things may work out later, but do not try to force them to work now. It just makes it harder....trust me. I was crushed when I got out of my last serious relationship, but many positives have come out of it. I finally (after almost two years apart) realized I could have never married that girl. And, I have regained my relationships with some of my best friends and learned a lot about myself and relationships. Sure, I want to be with someone again, but I look quickly for warning signs that I didn't used to see and stear clear. Just try to surround yourself with things to do and friends, and time will eventually heal all woulnds....although letting time pass can really suck. Also, as an added bonus: I bought a motorcycle with the money I would have spent on her !

11-07-2001, 09:01 PM	#8
Unit 5302 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Posts: 5,246	Holy ** , Sky! What the is all that about? It sounded to me like everything was going right and coming together for you two. This is suck-* . I know you've been workin your *** of as of late, did she pull the fuckin "time" card out again? I'll hit you up later, man.

11-07-2001, 09:12 PM	#9
NoSlow5.0 YOU HAVE NO MARBLES!!!!!! Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Jonesboro,Georgia,USA (Providence, Ri) Posts: 868	DAMN!!! I am sorry i don't have much to say except that we are here for ya and feel your pain. I will never understand women. All i ever hear from the women i know is bitching about how there are no good men in the world but as soon as they find a good one they go and **** it all up! GET A CLUE LADIES!!! Sooooo sorry man! Jonathan ------------------ My 87 GT....Marbles AIM: Marbles87Fox Light Em Up!!!

11-07-2001, 10:16 PM	#10
69fastback IRAQ VET Join Date: Feb 2000 Location: high desert California Posts: 1,480	I don't know maybe i am just an ****** but in situations like this i always have a back up. If she doesn't want u who cares there is always a girl out there that does. I will usally feel sad for a day or two but that is it. Don't ever let a women break ur spirits. there will always be more. Just be true to urself cuz u are the only person u are ever truly gonna have. Well take care i am sure everything will work out just fine.

11-07-2001, 11:52 PM	#11
silver_pilate DURKA DURKA!! Join Date: Sep 1997 Location: Lubbock, TX...(TX panhandle) Posts: 1,418	Sky, Let me tell you that I'll lift up a prayer for you tonight. I know a little bit of how you must feel, and I'm sorry you have to go through it. I've never met you or talked with you on the phone, but I've developed a respect for you over the last three years in the exchange of posts here on MW. You've got a lot of friends out here, and you've always proven yourself to be a mature and considerate person. I don't know what her deal is, but I agree that she has a good bit of maturing to do. God bless you man, and take care. Don't do anything stupid like getting drunk and driving your car or anything like that. Just sit it out. Sometimes that's all you can do. --nathan ------------------ '91 GT, 306, 1087 cam, 70mm TB, 76mm MAF, RPM intake, ported Windsor Jr. Irons, headers, Flows, AOD, PI 2800 converter, Transgo kit, and 3.73's. Best ET/MPH: 14.595 @ 94.41 (3400 ft altitude = 13.99 @ 98.54 @ sea level). Check out my site

11-08-2001, 04:57 AM	#13
Mach 1 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Location: Georgia Posts: 3,866	JL1314 said it very well - "I don't know how women do it. Everything's fine, then BAM! All of a sudden, they're over you for some strange unknown reason." I found this to be true in a couple relationships, and its been my experience that the woman who do this already have another man in their sights. Woman arent single very long like men, and they jump from man to man quickly. The amazing part is they can do this without showing any emotion. Its almost like they can just turn it on or off like a switch. They love you one minute, hate you the next. It all boils down to this - Woman are cold, cruel, evil beings and should never be trusted. They play with our emotions like we play with our cars. Just take up the "I dont give a crap about woman" attitude, and they will come swarming to you. They dont want "nice guys". Be yourself, but treat them like one of the guys sometimes, tell them to go f-off or whatever. They like it, they are sick, strange creatures....ok, i better shut up now before my wife walks into the room.... later days, better lays ------------------ 1993 GT/AOD '93 Mustang GT

11-08-2001, 06:17 AM	#14
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Extreme II, Pornograffitti, track 11. That's all I'm gonna say. Take care, -Chris ------------------ Retired Moderator MustangNet My site: Peckerwoods Pit Stop My teams site: Jim Porter Racing RACECAR spelled backwards is RACECAR HEY !!! Are you ASE Certified ??? If you are, ask me about iATN.

11-08-2001, 09:21 AM	#15
Mach 1 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Location: Georgia Posts: 3,866	what is the name of track 11? I want to try to download some music with my new "high speed" cable modem. This thing rocks! ------------------ 1993 GT/AOD '93 Mustang GT

11-08-2001, 09:28 AM	#16
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	He-Man Woman Hater ------------------ Retired Moderator MustangNet My site: Peckerwoods Pit Stop My teams site: Jim Porter Racing RACECAR spelled backwards is RACECAR HEY !!! Are you ASE Certified ??? If you are, ask me about iATN.

11-09-2001, 02:58 AM	#17
smokedchevy Registered Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: ventura,CA Posts: 438	Damn dude, sorry to hear that. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for two years. I thought everything was great, then one day she just started ignoring me. I finally got hold of her and confronted her and she just said she didn't want to get any more serious right now. WTF! Chicks are weird man. Then she starts going out with this guy who's old enough to be hear father. Oh, well. Anyways, I'm sorry to hear that and I hope you feel better. Keep us posted!

11-09-2001, 01:58 PM	#18
jimmyjr Registered Member Join Date: Sep 1998 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 347	Hey Skyler, Let it go...She definately doesn't deserve someone like you!!!With that cool car of yours, I'm sure you'll have NO PROBLEM, picking up a new main squeeze...Don't worry dude...been there, done that....Just ride it out...and remember hang in ther!!!Jimmy G

11-09-2001, 02:17 PM	#19
Capri306 Moderator Join Date: Sep 1998 Location: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA Posts: 1,001	PKRWUD: that is one of the best Extreme songs to d/l, dude. Made me feel a whole lot better, especially that intro guitar solo. Nuno is a god! ------------------ Capri306, Moderator, The Mustang Works Online *"PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN!!!"*

11-09-2001, 03:00 PM	#20
haulin'balz The Notorious One Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: NY Posts: 51	Sky, I'm sorry to hear about your girl, but I'm glad that you didn't find out later......it's always better to find out sooner rather than wasting more time than you have to on someone who's not worth it. You seem like a nice guy, you're very helpful, and you sure know your $hit about stangs. You also seem more mature beyond your years. Once you mentioned her going off to school next year, I completely understood. That scenario happens WAY too often......the "I don't want to be tied down, and want to date other guys" routine. Take my word for it.......f&^%k her! Say goodbye and give her a final one finger salute! I know it hurts right now, but like I told Merc........the only thing that'll make you feel better is by going out and dipping it into every little hottie you come across. Take it from someone that's been there before in the not so distant past. Keep your chin up.......you're more than she deserved!