No, I'm not missing half my brain, and no I'm not "Lacking anything"
. But the "Physical Aspect" of a relationship matter little to me.
I dont get in a relationship just to get "Laid". The reasons I persue relationships with certian women vary as much as my field of intrests.
Physical attraction does play a role, but not the prospects of getting physical. I look for some one who has the same/similar basis for there moral beliefs and life style as me. Thats most important to me. Next would be the persons "Depth", I cant stand shallowness. The most vauble virtue is Honesty in my books, if I feel that I cant trust a person, then I wont even bother with them. I've been burned to many times before to take another gamble there.
I know this may sound very unbecoming of the typical mid 20's male, but I dont like being rushed into sex. Very Long personal story.
From my experience I've come to the conclusion that a Relationship based on Sex or a persons physical attributes is a Relationship thats soon not to be.
My Ex-Girl friends best friend ..."Bee" is all I could ask for in a women. But again, its kinda an akward situation. Just like if I were to Date an employee. Never anything Normal with me.