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Does anyone NOT want kids?
I always hear of people who want kids, but do any of you guys not want children.I dont want to sound like a meanie but they just seem like more trouble then there worth.i.e getting no sleep,having no money cause there just one bill after another,and trying to control there behavior, along with numerous other things. just askin.
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cptn.stangaroo-how old are you?
So granted I'm only 22...I don't want kids-especially right now-and I don't see myself in 20 years wanting kids. I'm not the "motherly" type and I'm so impatient with adults, I'd hate to treat my kids that way. (Plus I'd like to keep my skinniness!) My fiancee (that's a recent change that just sounds weird!) shares my feelings. Everyone I tell says, "Oh you'll change your mind in a few years." That's just fine, but for right now, I'd like to stay child-free thank you very much. Much rather spend all that money on the Mustangs [This message has been edited by Obsessed (edited 06-07-2001).] |
Im 24, i totally agree with what u said
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Even the part about keeping your skinniness?!!
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I currently dont want kids ever. I have a 2 year old nephew that I love to death but there is to much involved in having kids. Not to mention the expense, that I could be spending on my own toys, women please do not take offense to this but you are way to complicated. My older brother is currently going through a divorce because his wife said "I'm bored with this". so she went out and got her a shithead boyfriend and ruined everything for the whole family. Sorry just rantin but i'd rather not have all the headaches. My nephew is a great kid. We have a wonderful relationship, when he get into those terrible two modes I simply hand him back to his dad. And i'm only 22 so this may change but I don't forsee a change any time soon.
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lol, yeah even my skinnyness
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Yeah, if I ever think of wanting children, I'll go babysit. That'll cure that want real quick! I love my sister's kids with all my heart...but my 5yr old niece is just unbelievably out of control - she is damn cute but I'm so happy to give her back to her mother at the end of the day!
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I thought the sameway you guys did until I had a oopsy baby 4 years ago. Now he is the Love of my life..I would sell my stang for him in a minute and not think twice.
Trust me your attitude will change when you finally realize the world doesn't revolve around you and your toyz. ------------------ 1990 GT 5k Original miles!! Ripper,Pullies,73 MM C&l Mass Air,8mm Wires,Piaa Headlights,MAC Cold Air (Fender) |
Well I'm only 25, and have been married for almost 2 years (august 14th). Even 2 years old I didn't really want any kids at all.
I love cars way too much, want a nice house, I want to travel to exotic beaches and spend time there with just the wife, and all that stuff. But since I have been married I have changed my tune a lot. Although I'm still not real big on kids right now, I actually want them in the future and (as the future is always getting closer http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif) as time progresses I want to start a family with my wife more and more. The only thing is, I REFUSE TO GIVE UP THE STANG AND GET A MINIVAN!!!! http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/biggrin.gif You will probably change your mind as time goes on, and I think the biggest changes occur after you a married. Just don't rush to get married! Divorces must really suck (on many levels). I can't imagine how hard it would be. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/frown.gif ------------------ Driving: 1998 F-150 Far way in Edmonton==> :( 1995 Mustang GT |
as far back as i can remember i have always not wanted kids. didn't want the responsibilityof taking care of them. now more than ever i don't want any kids, i have 3 nieces and when they come obve they are a handfull. don't get me wrong i love them very much but as happy as i am to see them arrive i am just as happy when they go. they way things are no-a-days both parents would havwe to work while the child get shuffled of to day care. my oldest niece would only get to see her dad for 1-2 hours a night cause he worked long days and wouldn't get home till it was getting dark out.
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WOW!!!
This is the last place i thought i'd hear people talking about this, let alone people supporting it. I've NEVER wanted to have kids and don't see any need to at least have MY OWN kids. Theres so much commitment, money and time spent worrying about children not to mention that you can easily mess up the children's lives and that you have to deal with the other parent for at least 18 in one form or another whether you eagerly want to or not. I want to retire early as well as travel, have my toys and have good furniture, i also don't want to have to worry about what they're watching on TV, their grades, blah, blah, blah, on and on. I'm planning on getting a vasectomy based loosely on the above, with many, many other reasons (plus i can't be around kids for more than 5 minutes before going crazy), plus there is adoption for kids who NEED parents if i ever decide to become a parent for whatever reason. Ronny50, i can see your point, but i don't want to have a "sudden" child only to realize i have to put alot of stuff off for 20 years (at least) as well as if i'm miserable. Another point is i've never heard of anyone saying they'd trade their kid for a mustang (or anything for that matter) after they've had one mostly because people would think of them as a "bad person" is they said that. I'm just not ready to have kids and don't see wanting them or being prepared in the next 10-15 years. My parents were poor and miserable because i was an "oops" baby. We were poor and broke and my childhood blew until they started making more money, had less stress, and as a result they could pay the bills and occasionally have fun. I never want to sudject a child to that......wow, sorry, just had to vent ------------------ '84 Mustang 5.0 LX My car |
I've been able to dodge marriage/commitment a few time now and I can see the point you guys are making, I've been there. I love kids.. always have. They need dicipline though.. that is the problem in the world today. People don't disipline their children and some are afraid to because the schools(government) are so quick to react to something a child says.
I don't have children, I have been in 2 relationships where there where kids and the kids always love me, think of me as their dad(or better). I would like to have my own kids someday soon. I usted to think "I don't want to bring a kid into this screwed up world!", now I want to look into the eyes of another and know that they are a part of me. I will live on through them and theirs. They will remember my mustangs and the fun we had and will be someone I can talk to when I'm old.. Who else is gonna want to talk to you when you're sitting around and can't go out. Live it up now kids, you will want kids someday.. for the same reasons I do. P.S. Don't get anything done that you will regret later. ------------------ Rick My 89lx(updated 2/21/2001) My 97 Cobra |
Folks who don't want kids should not have them, simple as that.
I think it must be the saddest thing in the world to be a kid and know (or guess) that you are unwanted and an 'inconvenience' to your parents. To create and/or bear a child and then feel it's a big burden that infringes on your time and resources is cruel to the child and so, I totally agree with anyone of any age who says 'no kids'. The caution here is that for those who are single and feel that way, be very, very careful who you go to bed with and take very reliable precautions or don't complain later when the pregnancy occurs. You asked for it. For the married folks, same applies when it comes to taking precautions but I find that most people mature enough to make a marriage committment and stick with it, eventually decide - together - to have at least one child. I did and never regretted it. Yeah, it's work and time and money, but the rewards are so great that all that pales when weighed in the balance. By the way; I once felt exactly like you folks who think having a kid was the worst thing that could happen, but I changed my mind after some years of marriage and never looked back. However, it's not for everyone. Oh, and I've never owned a minivan, either. |
I'm only 17, and i would like kids, i think it'd be neat and fun, but i HATE little kids. What i would like would be to just get some kids that were, say, 7-10yrs. old, pre raised to that point. Sorta like that frozen pizza that you put in the microwave first to defrost it and then put it in the mocrowave so it still tastes good. But then i think that buying kids at that age aren't annoying, but then they are beligerent and still expensive.
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Hey Guys..
I gotta get in on this one! I was married 5 years before I had my daughter. We did the playing, speed boating, snowskiing, patied ALL THE TIME! When I got pregnant, everyone was wondering how I'd make it through pregnancy (Yes, I surprised them!!) NOw that my daughter is 8 1/2 years old, she is a little person now, with her own personality, (for better or worse sometime!) I'm just over a head taller than her, and not only is she my child, but she's my friend too. We have a good time together. Especially the last few months when I only have her 3-4 days a week. We've become closer and do more things together, and I would not trade her for the world..Not even for a Saleen Convertible!! http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/otn/funny/twix.gif I did the Mini Van thing. Didn't last long(baby years), she loves "Topless" likes to hang on to the light bar when the tops down!! This is truly a personal choice and no choice is right or wrong, just whatever is right for you!! When and if you are ready, you will know it!!! I was not ready for a long time, then you start thinking about it. And dont let anyone tell you you cant have your toys and kids too!!! THe best of both worlds!!!! And you do eventually get your pre baby body back!!! http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/otn/funny/gorgeous.gif I dont know what I would do now without her in my life!! She was the best decision I ever made!! But for now....enjoy life, do the things you wanna do, and like I said, if and when its right, you'll know it!! ------------------ 1994 GT.Convertible/Performance Red. Cold Air Ind.,K&N,H.P. Pulleys,OffRoad H-Pipe,Flows,3.55,Light bar,Custom HeadRests.Lotta Chrome |
It's not that I don't want them, I think I'm just not ready for them, and I haven't found the right Mother yet! http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/wink.gif
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i agree....my love for my mustang is to much..im only 19..theres no way im even close to being ready for that..my freind thats 20 has a kid thats a year old and after seeing what he goes through i DEFINITLY
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Ahhh, what a subject. Just in time too!
The Lizard Queen was due last Sunday. We are waiting day to day for this kid to come, every morning I wake up I wonder if today is the day I will meet my son. This was not a planned birth, but it is not a bad shock. All my life, I have not wanted any kids. I have no patience, and I care to much about my toys. I'm selfish, selfish... everything is about me and for me, if not I'm not interested. Well since I met Genn 4 years ago, I have learned to live with someone and started really loving someong, not lusting or entertaining myself with another person, but really enjoying her presence, and share her stories, memories and life. Since then, my opinion about having kids has changed. I don't know if I'm ready for this, I know it is not going to be a problem, and I do know that the Mustang is gonna have to come fourth, after the kid, my wife and my company. I'm 25 and she is 21. We do not have a house, and I can not upgrade the car because of that. But that's ok, we are creating life, and we are going to have our own little selves walking around soon. I can't wait to meet my son, Julien. |
Hi Lizard Family!!!
You still not had your little lizard????? Did Lizard Queen ever figure out how to drive w/ the little lizard in tow?(or in belly?) Be sure to keep us posted when you have him! You're in for a treat!!! (not much sleep for a while, but its worth it!!) http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/otn/angels/littleangel.gif GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!! ------------------ 1994 GT.Convertible/Performance Red. Cold Air Ind.,K&N,H.P. Pulleys,OffRoad H-Pipe,Flows,3.55,Light bar,Custom HeadRests.Lotta Chrome |
I think Demon GT has the same thoughts that I do on this subject. I look at some of my classmates from high school, and some of 'em already have two kids. I'm only 21 (Yaaaay, my B-day's today...er yesterday now. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/rolleyes.gif ), and I graduated back in '98, and these kids are having kids?!? WTF?!? I mean more power to them if it all works out, but jeez so many ppl had 'em "right out of the gates."
Working with a few guys my age and having their GF/fiancee/****buddy bring in their kid is a reality check for me. There's no way on God's green Earth I'd even consider having kids (let alone A kid) without being at least financially stable, and being in love and married. I don't see the marriage part happening for a while (you have to have a significant other for that, right? Hehehe), and kids are prolly out of the question until I'm about 30 or so. It wouldn't be fair to a child to bring them into the world "unwanted" as Mr 5.0 put it (very eloquently might I add http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif ), nor if the parents are not able to care for them without significant burden, whether financial or time-wise. ------------------ Capri306, Moderator, The Mustang Works Online 1979 Mercury Capri, 5.0L -- C4 -- 2.73 1987 Mustang LX Notch |
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My finance and I have been together for 9 years (yes, I'm 22 and yes, that means we went out at 13!) We are best buds and share just about everything in common. I want to spend the rest of my life with HIM...taking long vacations and spur of the moment road trips-you just can't do that kinda of stuff with a kid, of any age, really. I'm having dogs. When my mom-in-law-to-be says, "Oh, how's XXXX for a baby name?" I say, "Do you think a puppy would answer to that?" She gets so mad! Haha!
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It's true this is the perfect post. Well as you all know now, I was suppose to have this baby last weekend. Now everyday is long and hard to bare because I want this little baby sobad. It was wuite a shock to find out that I now had to raise a child to have good moral and etical values, polite and a 1000 more things. I always knew I wanted kids but never thought this early in my life.
I am now happier then ever to know that I will share this precious moment with the lizard King. I want to give him a son that will be his little grease monkey, that will love his toys. I don't think anyone should be pushed into the decision but when you find that one person you love more then anything, sharing a life just seems right. I wouldn't change this baby, even 9 months ago. With anyone else I would have been sad but with Seb I really want this. I think when you met the right person and you've done everything, babies/kids add great things to a relationship. Yes they are hard work but there is nothing like seeing or feeling your own flesh do something incredible. I think it's true, in a couple of years you'll change your mind. Remember the avarage age for babies is now like 30 and over. You still have lots of time to be selfish. ------------------ Genn Borrowing Mustang GT 2000 but still pulled a 14.4 The evil wife of Lizard King |
35 year old here and I have an 8 year old (9 in Oct). NOTHING comes before he does! I have cars, a house (average), and a fairly decent job. Money isn't something that overflows at our house, but he doesn't cost that much. I cannot have any more because of complications. I wish I had 5 more of him. He loves our Mustangs and is already a true car fan. It is so neat to have someone that you can love so much and they love you back the same. There is no true love except that which is shared between a parent and a child. They look up to you and rely on you. I'm not saying that it is not hard, but feel there is nothing better. I think he was more excited about our matching Bullitts than we were. John has two children from his first marriage. His son is 17 and had to have a 1966 Mustang as his first car. He is going to the car show in Indy with us at the end of the month. They can become your best friend.
Don't write kids off yet, but if you don't want them then that is ok. Only people who want them should have them. They are a lifetime commitment. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif ------------------ 2001 Bullitt Mustangs #702 & #1880. Also in the works: 1965 Convertible 289 4-speed, 1965 Coupe, 1966 Coupe, 1988 5.0 Convertible, 1966 Fastback. Other: 1968 Cougar XR7-GT, 1967 Cougar GT (2 of them) Married to 'Bullitt702' |
My girlfriend and I got in this discussion the other day, she takes me too seriously whenever I say I'm never having kids. Truly, what I'm saying is that I'm nowhere near ready. I'm gonna have my fun while I'm young, it's easier to have fun when your young than when you're in your 40's. I've got so many friends that have kids (I'm 24) and talk about how the kids will be out of the house when they're in their 40's-only problem is that they don't have the house yet. I'm gonna have the house, the boat, the sleds, and of course the cars before they even get the house, this is how my parents did it and I don't think they've regretted it for a minute.
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I had my first 4 years ago. My second 10 months later (I'm a machine!!). There is really nothing like watching your 4 year old "wash" his car in the smae loving manner that you do yours. Or the 3 year old "racing his engine" as he flys by on his scooter. I didn't want children neither, I changed my mind 2 seconds after the first born.
My second nearly dies during childbirth, I now realize that my life would be boring without him. Even if he does act like his dad http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif Never say never. At this point I'd burn my cars to the ground and die for their happiness. ------------------ Robert 91GT; 88 ASC McLaren #709 |
I'm thinking really hard here, and i don't know ANYONE who has had children who succeeded in keeping their toys. Snowmobiles, Dirt Bikes, Chopper's, Weekend Dragsters..
I don't want kids, not for a long time. I waxed my stang yesterday for the last time. The neighbor came over and says "You clean your baby, and i clean mine" pointing to his baby girl. He went on to talk to me about a '90 'Notch he once had, but sold it because of other commitments. That made me sad http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/frown.gif I guess i'm just a selfish dork. |
Yes, but a selfish dork in a freshly waxed Stang! http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/wink.gif
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I HAVE A LIITLE GIRL!!! AND LIKE TOPLESS WOULD NOT TRADE HER FOR THE WORLD, SHE LOVES GOING TO THE RACES AND HELPING WITH THE CAR OR MOTORCYCLE. YES IT HAS ITS UP AND DOWNS, BUT IN THE END IT IS ALL WORTH IT.MOTHERHOOD IS GREAT!!! http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/biggrin.gif
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My two year old son has one of those die cast model mustangs. He can already identify 16 different parts on it including the catalytic converters and the fuel cell and battery in the trunk. He can also point out the transmission and the engine. Watching him learn is incredible and I wouldn't give it up for anything. I have plenty of toys, but I think the kids are the best toys of them all.
I also have a one year old daughter. She just started walking. Everytime I have the computer open for something, they're both there watching and handing me tools. I can't wait until they can help me work on the Mustang and best yet, I can't wait to hand over the keys to the Mustang. |
Okay, I'm baaaaack!!!
Try Me: Gotta reply. Not only do I still have my car,but my daughter loves it. It IS possible to have toys and kids. Just things move alittle slower when it comes to dumping money in them. But like I said, it's the best of both worlds..If you go to Female Power Forum, if my original post is there(Topless in Texas)about a month ago, I think there's a picture of Caitlin in all her Ford Racing Garb in front of my car at FFW in Baytown! Cars and Kids are cool.Kids are not for everyone...they weren't for me a long time ago either. Never say Never. You'll know. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/biggrin.gif ------------------ 1994 GT.Convertible/Performance Red. Cold Air Ind.,K&N,H.P. Pulleys,OffRoad H-Pipe,Flows,3.55,Light bar,Custom HeadRests.Lotta Chrome |
I used to want em. . i mean, I really did when they was borned. See.. .there's two of em, one 21 and one 18 and . . .well. . .I don't want em anymore. The preacher told me they would go away when they turned 18 but he lied! One did move away but keeps bringing this broken Mustang home with him on weekends kinda like he does his laundry for Mom. THe youngest one is turning into a career student, all because we held him back a year in kindeygarden. Some folks have a tendency to overeat when they worry about money and things, well. . .I worry, they keep eating.
I love my kids more than any possession I could ever have and wouldn't trade em for any amount of. . .well, maybe that Steeda. . anyway, I agree if you don't want kids then for the love of Pete, make sure you don't procreate. As for me and mine, I'll probably be learning how to fix these things for many years to come and hopefully, they'll still want me to. |
I can't imagine not having mine and
bigwhitecobra's son. yeah, he can be a big pain, but I would never change it. And we still have our car. Our son is 7 and already wants a junior dragster car and a Cobra R. He is the only kid I know who can tell someone the differences between an R and a regular Cobra. And I hope soon we can have another one. (my baby boy is not a baby anymore) Amy |
Intersting topic.
I think the desire is linked to maturity and the position you are currently living. My wife and I are not ready either and enjoying each others company too much. Our stance is No Kids ... will it change over time, perhaps but I guess the whys are the most imporant thing. Why not? For us, we aren't ready nor are we inclined to have them. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif So until then. I work to have my goal met. A GT for her and a Cobra for me. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif |
Crewzin and I still have all of our toys from my show horses to the cars, motorcycles,
4x4 trucks and 4-wheelers, we had to learn how to budget our money. You just cant put all your money in the toys. Kids are GREAT for some of us. Crewzin and I are still kids at heart!! |
Yea I said all that Crap to ..But look at me now I have 4 yea 4 Daughters..And a 1991 Black Notch 5.0 with (justed turned on friday 23,000 mi.I bought it new in 1990 ..And 2 weeks ago I just Bought a 2001 F-150 LIGHTING.. so kids don't stop you from haveing **** DEAL WITH IT ...thats a bunch of Lame excuses and belive it or not the Finest looking women (usally the one you marry ,,almost all of the time (like 99.99%)want to have kids ..so grow the F up dudes I did..And haveing a good education will help you pay for that **** ..
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I totally agree with you moc!!!
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95mustanggt:
It's easy to have a kid and avoid the dreaded minivan. I only have one child; we have a Mazda 626 sedan as our family car. Lots of room. More kids might mean I would need a van, but that won't happen - trust me. I've owned my Mustang for 11 years and had a (ahem) Camaro before that. I can tell you that little kids fit real well in the rear seat of a 'Stang (unlike adults). No minivans in my family, now or ever. |
Well...I used to be unsure as to whether I wanted kids or not. We bought the house, did the traveling thing, drove nice cars.
I have always judged myself on my accomplishments. I came to the realization that acquiring material things does not mean jack when you are six feet under. Life is about what you contribute, both in your work, and more importantly in your private life. The most successful people, IMHO, are those that raise good, honest, happy, and productive children. You don't need to be rich, or well off to attain this level of success. I now have two, yes two, incredible 7 mos. old boys, and I would not trade them for the world. I did however get rid of my Stang for them. I didn't do the minivan thing, I wanted to , but my wife would not be caught dead in one. I got a.. ahem..blown Regal GS instead. I already have a project car to build with them, and after the first is complete, we'll have to buy another Stang. The bottom line, is that having kids is a choice, probably the most important one in your life. Please always go with your heart. If you do not want kids, don't have them. If you do want kids, best of luck. Take Care, Dave |
I thank god for my dad having me and raising me up around cars and bikes. I hope my children will think back when they are my age and say the same. Kids are the coolest thing I have ever done with my life. Now in high school I thought different, but thats because I had'nt had enough fun yet. My little girl has had more fun at the track and ridin round in our car than most her age. She thinks shes been bad or something if we dont go to Houston Raceway Park. That just keeps me going wide open! For me kids rule!
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I can respect people's opinions of having children and i also REALLY respect anyone who puts in the time to raise children right and to make sure they're loved and to spend time with them. I'm not obsessed with material possesions, they're nice but i'm more interested in security. I'd love to travel and to basically "see the world" and i also like having lots of "quiet time", i'm a real private person and always have been. I also understand how people feel that something is "lacking" in their life or decide that life is meaningless unless they have THEIR OWN kid, but i'd rather be financially set and ready to spend lots of time with a child as well as have a concrete relationship with a woman before getting a child, whether it's the fruit of my loins or someone elses. I'm not saying that you can't be a great parent without these things, it's just i'd want to commit fully to a child. Now to the point that at this time in my life i can't see myself having a child because i am VERY far from settling down, i can see a distant "possibility" of me wanting a rugrat in the distant future, but i'd actually rather adopt. Since i live in seattle, just about 50% of women over 20 have kids so finding a kid without a dad is no problem either. I guess i just don't understand people who think I HAVE TO HAVE KIDS, or who are certain i'll change my mind. I may, and i understand that i may, but probably not. I'd much rather regret not being able to produce a child of my own than to bring an unwanted child into this world.
*I just want to point out that i respect all the comments made in this post ------------------ '84 Mustang 5.0 LX My car |
Try this one on. My wife of 6 years and my girlfriend of a little over a year, yep at the same time just a couple months apart. I promise I am not a bad guy just not to bright when it comes to keeping it in my pants.
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Wow, what a very timely subject. After years of infertility stuff, my wife and I are in the process of adopting. Probably around September we will be traveling to Russia to pick up a little boy and girl. Yes, two!!!!
It was a long and hard decision for us both. We decided that we really want to have children. We played for a lot of years, and we are no-way the most financially responsible people. In fact I often wake in the night wondering how we are going to pay all our bills we have now, plus provide for two children. But I know we will make it, and that makes me happy. Yes, we broke down and bought a minivan, but at least it was a Ford!!!! And we have talked about getting rid of the mustang when the kids come (Oh no! Hope Dan still lets me be a moderator!). There are always some give and take when you make a big decision like this. Whether the mustang stays or not, I don't know right now, but it probably will stay. You just have to maintain a balance of responsibility and pleasure throughout your life. So, I guess you can definately count me in as one that wants kids!! Hmmm, with all this talk of minivans, maybe Dan should start a minivan forum? What do you think, Dan? http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/smile.gif ------------------ See my 1985 Mustang GT [This message has been edited by Harry (edited 06-14-2001).] |
When I was young, I didn't like kids, but always thought I'd have them when I got older. After college, 10 years of marriage, house, cars, etc. we finally have two kids. I still don't like other people's kids much, but love my own. I wouldn't have done it any other way.
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My wife had a little boy before we got married. We were both waiting tables at Red Lobster, and I was going to a technical school where I earned an Avionics Diploma. I was 20 when we got married, and she was pregnant w/ OUR first. I adopted the oldest. Now we have three boys, all 19 months apart. 7, 5, and 4. Yes, we have our hands full, but 3 years ago it was much worse. It keeps getting better as they grow more independent.
I'm now 26, a SSgt in the Air Force, live in a nice house, have the Cobra, a Windstar, and a Prelude in the driveway. Inside, we have all the toys(big boy's and little boy's). Believe me, we don't do without anything. If we want something, we get it. My point is...kids(even 3) don't stop me from being successful and having fun. Kids are great sometimes...sometimes not. I always wanted kids. We originally planned on having 5, but quickly changed our minds after the third was born. I had a vasectomy, so there is no chance of having another http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/wink.gif. And they should all be out of the house by the time I'm 41. http://www.mustangworks.com/msgboard/biggrin.gif At about the same time, I'll be able to retire from the AF. Then my wife and I will be able to buy an RV and travel the country, lol, j/k....Yes, I have my life planned out already. ------------------ Travis T-Bones 1997 Cobra#6342 born 6-11-97 http://members.home.net/tbone97cobra/sigpic.jpg Wht/blk, Pro 5.0,FRPP 4.56's, aluminum driveshaft, FRPP throttle body, C&L 80mm MAF, K&N, Steeda U/D pulleys, Steeda timing adjuster, Borla cat-back, BBK cat H-pipe, SFC's, FRPP pro springs, BBK caster/cambers. Best 1/8 E.T.-8.983 on street tires |
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