Well yesterday I got to see her graduate, I'm glad I did to she was so happy. I gave her a big hug to. Now she's going to be moving on to bigger things and I hope this cancer doesn't get the best of her, she's a strong person and I hope that she lives her life to the fullest. I give her my deepest sympathies. I love you as a friend Vanessa and I hope you get well and stay with us for as long as possible.

a friend i worked with died this past week and everyone was so down about it till someone there said that we should all remember the good times and fun we had together. she's not gone yet and hopefully won't be for a long time but right now while she's still here make the most of it.


Marty: i'm going through the same thing. lost my dad and grandfather to the big C and now my mother's fighting and doing a a darn good job of it but like your wife it's uncurable and i know someday that she will run out of fight but right now she is doing great and anything she wants/ask for i try to give or do it for her. she's going to tenn soon to stay with my sister and in sept or oct me and my brother will be driving up there to bring her back and i hope that maybe we can get together and do some bs'ing and i can keep you off mustangworks for a few hours!! :p :D

Re: Death and despair
 

Totally agree... best word of advice is to live every moment to its fullest. When you do that you may realize how material and time driven things get trivial, and how precious this life is for what it is ... life --> not up coming death.

I wish you strenght in the events that await you.