01-02-2001, 04:39 PM
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| Registered Member Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: angleton, tx, US
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|  I had a girlfriend who was a ***** too, and I realized that if you put money and time into a relationship that it can still go down hill. If you put your money and time into a car, things only get better. In my case I got a badass car and a several girls. |
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01-02-2001, 05:21 PM
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| Mustang is Parked :(  Join Date: May 2000 Location: Kamloops, BC
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| quick89gt, I too have been in bad situations in the past. I think that everyone has touched on some of these subjects very well, so I won't contribute to some of them. I do want to say something that has helped me in my short marriage so far. Communication. Communication is so important. You mentioned that "...she never wants to talk about it or problems..." this should scare you, my friend! The one thing that I have learned in my year and a half of marriage is that no matter what the problem, communication can either fix it or make it a hell of a lot better to live with. Open communication should be something that you look for in all your relationships. Well, you won't have to look, you just know (I know, it sounds stupid, who "just knows" anything? But trust me you will know) My advice would be to walk away, an use this as a learning experience, always remember to learn from these things. Keeping that in mind has kept me sane through several hard times with girls. Best of Luck. |
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01-03-2001, 08:31 PM
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| Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: O'Fallon, IL
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| see guys, the hardest part is a part that i'm sure you are all familiar with...I DO LOVE her. But, even harder than that...SHE LIVES NEXT DOOR TO ME. How do I deal with that? I'm a college student and don't ahve money to live on my own or to live on campus. Between paying for gas in the stang, loving my stang, and going out and doing stuff...I don't have enough money. How do I deal with her living next door, when I will want to POUND a guy that I see her bringing over, or when her car isn't there, I'll be like "I wonder where she is." Or, if I bring a girl to the house, I'll be scared she would come out or something would happen...ya know?? ------------------ ************************* '89 GT, T-5, Bored .030 Over, GT-40P heads, MAC 1 5/8" headers, MAC Off-Road H-Pipe, 2 1/2" Flowmasters, Edelbrock 65mm T.B., Trick Flow Intakes, Crane 2031 cam, 1.7 Roller Rockers, Keith Black hyp. flat top Pistons, Screamin' Deamon Coil, Champion Plugs, March Underdrive Pulleys, 255lph Fuel Pump, SVO Motorsport Clutch, Adjustable Fuel Pressure Regulator, Formula GP Suspension, MAC Upper & Lower Control Arms, FMS 3.73 Gears. ************************* |
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04-26-2001, 12:42 AM
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| Yay for Chickys Join Date: Feb 2001
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| ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YET ANOTHER post that is incomplete!!!!! Quick and 89, finish yer stories NOW! I'm not reading anymore bc I don't want to be let down YET again  ------------------ Elisha (Mustangbelle) 1994 GT: Cartech intake,4.10s, full exhaust, and pulleys. Sold the 1986 LX sedan  http://www.geocities.com/mustangbelle_306 AOL name: GT306Chick |
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04-26-2001, 01:17 AM
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| Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: O'Fallon, IL
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| well, MUSTANBELLE...she since moved back to california..she moved back on february 26th...i've had little contact with her since then and have realized that i am much, much happier without her. she is not the girl whom i was destined to marry and she is not the girl who can give me what i need. i know that sounds kind of "girlish"...but i'm so much more damn sensitive than she is..hahaha anyways, i've learned that i can be happy by myself, i'm still single...i'm talking to a couple of different girls now and going out and having fun with my friends mostly. i just turned 21, so i am soooo having fun. i don't need a girl to be happy...i can be happy by myself and i will meet the right girl someday....that girl just wasn't her... hope you feel better about this post being finished p.s. thanks to everyone who was giving me advice back then....josh ------------------ ************************* '89 GT, T-5, Vortech S-Trim, GT-40P heads, MAC 1 5/8" headers, MAC Off-Road H-Pipe, 2 1/2" Flowmasters, Edelbrock 65mm T.B., Trick Flow Intakes, Crane 2031 cam, 1.7 Roller Rockers, Screamin' Deamon Coil, 255lph Fuel Pump, T-Rex, SVO Motorsport Clutch, Adjustable Fuel Pressure Regulator, Formula GP Suspension, MAC Upper & Lower Control Arms, FMS 3.73 Gears. ************************* |
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04-26-2001, 01:19 AM
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| Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: O'Fallon, IL
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| In fact...you know what? I have met the girl of my dreams...her name is SALLY....here's a picture of her (she's the one in the middle..hehehehe )http://albums.photopoint.com/j/View?...195&p=47290663 ------------------ ************************* '89 GT, T-5, Vortech S-Trim, GT-40P heads, MAC 1 5/8" headers, MAC Off-Road H-Pipe, 2 1/2" Flowmasters, Edelbrock 65mm T.B., Trick Flow Intakes, Crane 2031 cam, 1.7 Roller Rockers, Screamin' Deamon Coil, 255lph Fuel Pump, T-Rex, SVO Motorsport Clutch, Adjustable Fuel Pressure Regulator, Formula GP Suspension, MAC Upper & Lower Control Arms, FMS 3.73 Gears. ************************* |
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04-26-2001, 01:22 AM
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| Registered Member  Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Detroit, MI
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| 3-Month Relationships...this is the story of my life hehehe. My advice is to let her go. Try and get out and date other girls. There are so many ladies out there, I tell you, letting just one girl frustrate you is almost foolish if you really think about it. Best of Luck to ya ------------------ Jeff Kane 1990 LX Mustang ex-5.0 Coupe No engine. No transmission. Prepping car for a "big" big-block. http://hometown.aol.com/red514lx/ |
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04-26-2001, 06:00 AM
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| Yay for Chickys Join Date: Feb 2001
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|  Well Josh honey I'm really glad to hear that it turned out for the best! Personally, I've made some hasty decisions and backed out of relationships, but I've NEVER intentionally been insensitive or had disregard for someone's feelings, ie cheating etc. However, many chicks nowadays (guys too) just don't seem to care, and the nice guys and girls out there have to deal with people who have had their feelings stepped on by those scumbags. I wish you ALL the best of luck, and stick with that hot chick in the pic  that's what I did hehe------------------ Elisha (Mustangbelle) 1994 GT: Cartech intake,4.10s, full exhaust, and pulleys. Sold the 1986 LX sedan http://www.geocities.com/mustangbelle_306 AOL name: GT306Chick |
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04-28-2001, 10:16 PM
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| Registered Member  Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Rochester
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| Thats the way to do it dude. My gf of 4 YEARS just left me....and to make things worse she did it on our anniversary. I was real upset at first but my other gf in the garage has never been happier now.... Good luck man...we all going through this together.... ------------------ 95 GT convertable, 3.73 gears, bbk off road h-pipe, march underdrive pullies, Saleen wires, custom made cold air induction, Cobra intake w/ 65mm tb GT40 heads, flowtech headers |
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04-29-2001, 01:41 AM
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| Moderator  Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Staging lane
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| Dude this is just like when your dog dies the best way to get over it is to get another one. Get a new girl and you wont care what she is doing cause you will be getting yours. You are too young to get hung up on a three month relationship man. Women are just like a race you choose them carefully you take them all the way through and then you look for the next one. Trust me man this too shall pass. ------------------ 88 mustang gt convertible BBk equal length headers mac cold air intake cowl hood nitto drag radials ford racing clutch flow masters h-pipe 180 degree thermostat 16 degrees of timing |
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04-29-2001, 07:22 PM
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| Yay for Chickys Join Date: Feb 2001
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Granted lots of girls are mind game playing cheating KRAZYS. But, I really don't think its fair to lump us all in one category. I mean, I've been through just about every bad thing that I could with the opposite sex, and I am still mature enough to know that you can't blame a whole gender. Maybe if you kept an open mind, you wouldn't miss the one that you could "take all the way through" and then some... Just a reminder that there are still some girls out there that will be nice to you, just don't let the evil ones scare you away ------------------ Elisha (Mustangbelle) 1994 GT: Cartech intake,4.10s, full exhaust, and pulleys. Sold the 1986 LX sedan http://www.geocities.com/mustangbelle_306 AOL name: GT306Chick | |
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04-29-2001, 07:37 PM
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| Registered Member  Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Hampton, Virginia
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| Everyone here has pretty much said the same thing and I think you should go with what they are saying. There are some good ones out there as I have found. Im 20 years old, shes 19 and in high school and weve been married for 10 months. No we dont have any kids but she was just the right one and we didnt get on each others nerves for many months. Thats how you will know, you will fell it in your heart. I wish you the best of luck and relationships to come. Peace (Y) |
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04-29-2001, 10:36 PM
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| Moderator Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Staging lane
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| [quote]Originally posted by Mustangbelle306: [b] Um...are you for real? With an attitude like that, you wonder why you find crappy chicks that are not worth keeping around... Granted lots of girls are mind game playing cheating KRAZYS. But, I really don't think its fair to lump us all in one category. I mean, I've been through just about every bad thing that I could with the opposite sex, and I am still mature enough to know that you can't blame a whole gender. Maybe if you kept an open mind, you wouldn't miss the one that you could "take all the way through" and then some... Just a reminder that there are still some girls out there that will be nice to you, just don't let the evil ones scare you away __________________________________________________ _________________________________________ Oh please dont be so damn emotional talk about taking things out of context did you notice that i said choose carefully and take it all the way through now tell me how is that bad all the way through could be 6 months or a hundred years. So please IF YOU ARE GONNA ATTACK WHAT I SAID GET IT RIGHT.  ------------------ 88 mustang gt convertible BBk equal length headers mac cold air intake cowl hood nitto drag radials ford racing clutch flow masters h-pipe 180 degree thermostat 16 degrees of timing [This message has been edited by 5.0 HO (edited 04-29-2001).] |
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