Got a shocking but interesting offer tonight!
 

I had got a very interesting offer - for being nice to a stranger tonight.

I was going to the bank to do the nightly deposit (Usually dont do it on Friday nights, but I thought I'd do it tonight.)

I pulled into the parking lot and looked around to see if anyone was hiding or hanging around. I saw this women (I estimate in her late 20's, early 30's) waving me down. Against all of my better judgement, I coast on over. I thought she might be in trouble.

She was fairly attractive, dressed decent enough. I pull up next to her and roll down my window, leaving the car in gear and ready to haul a$$ if anything happens. She leans foward and looks at me for a good few seconds then stated that she wasn't a robber or mugger or anything strange, but she asked if I could give her a ride to her friends house just a mile down the road.

She didn't have a purse, and didn't have a place to hide a gun so I thought about it for a second and told her to hop in.

"Wow, I just love Mustangs, especially Red ones." Not the first time I heard that one.

I introduce myself and she introduces herself and holds out her hand. I shake it, but her grip lingered for a minute. Right then I thought, Oh God! I just unwittingly picked up a prostitute!

She tells me the neighborhood she needs to go in. Of course it has to be one of the worst neighborhoods in town. Off of Blunt Rd! Bad area. Bad bad bad area! And here I am in a new Shiny Red Car, that's LOUD. Nah it won't draw unwanted attention!

I pull out of the bank (Didn't do the money drop) and go to take another look at my newly acquired passenger. She's somewhat pretty, and staring right at me smiling and playing with her hair. Oh god, I'm going to get busted for having a MADAM in the car. Great! I'm expecting the cops to bust out any minute and for my butt to be on the next episode of either COPS, or 'World's Scariest Police Chases'.

I get on the road and open her up a little (THE CAR). The Girl; Cindy, says she likes the way my car sounds. She looks at me and says "Your a car nut aren't you?" I tell her 'yeah' and then I immediately start talking about cars. I catch myself and realize I might be boring her, so I just make small talk.

I drive her to this BAD area of town, and she points out this house and asks if I could wait outside for a minute. She was going to see if her friend was home. She gets out and runs out of view to the side of the house. Here I am with my LOUD car idling in a BAD part of town at one in the morning.

I was expecting for some drunk Redneck to come meandering out of the house with a shotgun and or Automatic Rifle while wearing one of those Beer dispensing Helmets yelling "You Little D***, You Scre**** my Wife. I'm going to kill you"

But she came running back into view and got back in the car. She said "Okay take me home with you" Then laughed and put kinda carressed my neck with her hand. She asked if I could drive her home. I nod and we drive off. We start talking and she asks what I'm doing out this time of night.

She's smiling at me again and batting eyes at me.

I told her I just got off work. She asks what I plan on doing the rest of the night. I don't know. We talked while I drove. I knew the nieghborhood she lived in, I used to live not to far from it. About 5 minutes into talking, I can't remember exactly how it came out, but it seemed like out of no where she asked me if I wanted to have a beer with her at her house.

I raise my eyebrows with interest and realized I was nodding my head with a smirk. Oops. When we pull into the neighborhood she - OUT OF NOWHERE....PURE STRAIGHT OUT OF THE BLUE.....SHOCKED THE HELL OUT OF ME...ASKS ME IF I WANT A CERTIAN ....ummmmmm...How to put it....Favor :eek: Do you all catch my drift! BJ

In shock, I ask her with disbelief "WHAT???" Her expression kinda changes, and she looked a little embarrassed (I know I was blushing.)

She said we were getting along real well (Hell I was only in the car with her for 10 mintues) and she thought I seemed like a real "Cool Guy".

"I don't do things like this at all, I don't know." She says. I begin to studder and stammer a bit. I told her that I appreciate the offer and would of taken her up on it If I wasn't happily married" I'm not married, I just blurted it out.

When she pointed out her house and I pulled over, she sat in my car for what seemed like 5 minutes looking at me (It was only like 15 seconds) and gave me this puppy dog look.

"Well thanks for the Ride Damien. You have a good night. Dont forget this place." Then she ran off towards the house.

I put the pedal to the metal and drove around for a little while longer thinking about what had just happened.

I mean, I've been offered things like that before, but it still shocks me when someone's so blunt and foward about it.

SEE THE KIND OF PEOPLE I MEET?

I MEET THE STRANGEST PEOPLE.

Man. Dude! GO BACK!!! Are you NUTS!!?? :D :p :D :p

Let me Add..
 

I've had similar offers, but thats after I have at least talked to the girl for 2 hours. TEN MINUTES THOUGH!

I can just picture it now.

I have a little to much to drink, Do....ummmm .....yeah okay. Pass out. Wake up Fuzzy headed, in a strange place NAKED, with some Big Fat guy with french fries from two days ago stuck in his beard wearing a shirt that says "Guns dont Kill, I Kill." and having 3 foot long pipe wrench in his hand, leaning over, peering at me with crazed eyes. THUNK. There goes Mercury.

:cool: good ole mercury, my man:D, now, i know i dont have to lecture you about anything, but a chick willing to do that.....ummmm you know, that quick?? (her mind thinking) your a body building stud she couldnt resist, 2...she really liked your car....3...shes is nAAAAsty!, but hey, What did she do at that house you drove her to? hmm that reminds me of some hood rats around...well not around, but in my city i live, they give you a story like, "i need to pick up my paycheck, or "see if someones home" if you would have went in her home, she would have offered you some of tha crack rock, or heroin you just took her to get....:eek:lol ok, im just looking at it worst case scenario? but partna, i dont trust noooooobody, but that is one hell of an offer;)

Be careful with them broads....

Now that you mention it!
 

During our small talk she lent her friend some money and she was going to see if she had it.

When I glanced at her to see if she could be concealing a weapon before she got in the car, I also looked for the obvious track marks (for those who know what they are. Most should.)

Her posture, and voice didnt give any hint of bieng high, or a junkie. Her voice was steady, and she seemed aware of the enviornment she was in. I've seen junkies, and drug addicts before.

I broke every Rule on that one. At least I know where to go on Saturday Nights Now :D Joke.

Well you seem down to earth man, i would trust your judgment, if your like me, you wouldnt even let no dirty gal in your nice interior...lol like i said, just looking at the worst case scenario, but actually, thats not the worst case, you did that bye scoping her for concealed weapons;)

and yea, i know what tracks are.

btw, your stories are always cool....peace

dude i bet anything she went go pick op some drugs. Maybe not herion but easliy been some crack or weed or something like that. Some people u just can't tell if they are high or not. Hell if she was going to do it right there in the car u wouldn't have had to worry about going in. so girls are just freaks who knows.

U have some crazy stuff happen to u i love the stories u tell.

Oh, and someone that goes in a house, and right back out, in a bad neighborhood, ghetto projects or whatever, then im really scared:eek:, then i start getting ready to get jacked, or rushed by cops, thats just my paranoid mind i guess.

I quit.

Quitter!....lol j/k

I agree..
 

You just took her to get her 'fix'. Would of been bad, getting pulled by the cops.. they may not have believed the "I just picked her up, I never seen her before tonight" story. I wouldn't go back to that house bro.. Any chick that offers 'something' that fast has done that before, the next day you will wake up wondering what neat diseases you have now. Though I realize, a offer like that is hard to resist.. heeh

I agree, I think she proably bought some type of drug. And anyone that offers THAT so soon, she has to have done it a lot before and no one wants to wake up with a nice new STD.

Rookies.

Option #1: You leave her there, then probably feel guilty for not knowing if she was in trouble.

Option #2: You bolt on her at that house, later think, I hope she never sees me again.

Option #3: You nail her. While it's very much possible she just thought you were cute, you helped her out, and she was hmmm horney, it's just as likely that she was 1/2 high filled with STD's and just waiting for guy #463 to do. Let's also consider you... being the nice guy would wind up giving your number to her so

Option #3A: She now calls you every day for a year, latches on and decides you were meant to be together.

Option #3B: She calls you a few days down the road saying you have a baby on the way, even it it's not yours.

Option #3C: She calls you and tells you make sure you get to a clinic and have yourself checked out.

Option #4: You do what you did, laugh about it for a while, and keep movin on to something that might actually be worth your time.

I would be the most fearful of options #3B #3C

I sure wont be knocking on that door!
 

I dont think you all have to worry about me going back and knocking on that door.

Better scrub my car out good today. Let me grab the Lysol.:D

I have to agree with rbatson on this one. That just sounds awful peculiar to me but that's just my opinion. I do have to say though that I believe you made the right decision espcially the last one. LOL. I will tell you this though, when we got to her friends house and she said she would be right back and all that jazz. I would've been burning the tires down getting the hell out of there but like I said thats just what I think especially considering the time of night and all.
James

You guys are terrible. Really. Unit, how do you go through life with such a narrow field of vision? I am really surprised by you guys on this one. I'm not saying she was a saint, but you never met her, either, and you know what, guys aren't the only ones who get horny, or that get turned on by someone quickly. I'm not joining NOW tomorrow, but you guys need to work on your double standard. Especially those who are so quick to condemn her to being a "junkie"! What a joke. Don't choke on your beer while you're laughing so hard.

Merc, this very well may have been a great person for you to see a time or two. You've been flopping around in the commitment frying pan for too long, and seem to see life as always being either joined at the hip with your soul mate, or alone in the darkest, farthest reaches of the earth. There is a middle ground, and right now that's where you need to be. Mach 1 said it best when he told you that there is nothing wrong with being alone. There's nothing wrong with seeing someone who isn't "perfect", and without visions of growing old together, either. You're sitting there drowning, and a life raft floats by, and all you can do is criticize it.

Very sad.

Take care,
-Chris

PKRWUD

I'm a very open minded person, even if a person isnt perfect (God knows I'm not so why should I expect other people to be) or Anywhere near perfect they still need friends.

I can find something in common with just about anyone. I'm very friendly to just about everyone, unless they give me reason not to be.

I wasnt mean or spitefull towards this women, I ment no harm by my little joke. I just found it odd to be asked what I was asked after knowing the women only 10 minutes. Thats a little to fast for me.

She might very well be a nice person, and if I see her again I will be just as nice as I was before, she gave me no reason to be otherwise. I may be cautious of people, but I'm nice to them none the less. I think you miss took what I had said.

The Lysol thing was ment as a joke, and I realize it was in bad taste. Sorry.

LOL

Being a bartender, I get those offers all the time!! Rarely do I ever take them up on them, but I have a few times! :) Ya only live once... But be carefulllllllll!!! ;)

Closed Minded??
 

Hmm... what am I missing here?

#1 Girl standing on side of road, all alone no purse.
#2 Her friend, in the worst neighborhood in town might "owe her some money" wondering if Merc can give her a ride over there.
#3 She stops in at friends house, askes him to wait, then comes back out and asks him to take her home and have a beer.
#4 She offers to have sex with him.

I guess as a person who's been in basically the same scenerio, more than once, I can speak from experiance. I have NO regrets about not taking that girl up on that. I later found out she 1/2 supported herself by getting knocked up by guys.

Now none of us were there, so it's hard to say, but as a general rule, I wouldn't nail a chick I don't know, who's acting suspitious, after 10min of talking to her.

By the way. Double standard MY ***. I have no idea where you came up with that. More like careful. You never know what you're getting into these days.

If you want an

Option #5 She was a lonely, relatively cute girl who was longing to be with somebody. Damien was a nice guy, he was cute (I'm assuming here, lol) and she was willing to put a lot on the line for the chance to actually have a memorable night for once. Her friends live in a poor part of town because they are also younger, and they are just trying to make it on there own so that is the only place they can afford. She originally anticipated staying there, but thought maybe a chance of something happening with Damien was worth the a little risk taking, so she excitedly told her friends she was gonna zip back to her place with that cute guy that brought her there.

I wouldn't have lied to her about being married, and I probably would have tried to get her phone number, I may have even gone in to check out the scenerio. Who knows.

Bottom line is, he felt uncomfortable as all hell, and you want to jump on him for that, PKRWUD. We weren't there, neither were you, but Damien was. That's all that I can really say on this.

damn merc
u alwasy have the coolest stories
if u want some really funny answers to this go over to the corral and post this in the lounge
the moderattors have been gone for the last 2 days so things arte a little crazy and really ******* funny


JAMES

Man, you guys have to learn how to have some fun in your life. PKRWUD is right on this one. If you want to live a "safe, risk free" (boring) existence, then you made the right choice, and shouldnt be second guessing yourself, and happy with your decision. There are tons of woman out there like this, doesnt mean they have a disease. She was looking to have a good time, and you blew it, bottom line.

I would have taken an oral favor, and probably passed on intercourse. As far as gettting her phone number, forget it. This isnt a woman you want a relationship with. This is a woman you want a quick night of fun and sex with, then you never see her again. Most guys love that kind of stuff, no commitment, etc...

And the opportunity for that is rare if you dont live that lifestyle or put yourself in those situations where it might be available.

But then again, maybe you go into her house for a beer, and her "boys" rob you and kick you ***.

Bottom line, it would have been a high risk decision to make it happen with this woman, but hopefully exciting and worthwhile.

especially if she was hot, and you are lonely...

ok, im done preaching. Some advise...dont drive back there looking for her or go to her door. This would be a bad idea. I know this from experience. Just chalk it up as one piece that you passed up and mocve on...

Merc-
I'm sure you were a perfect gentleman, I'm not getting on you for that. i'm actually kind of blown away (pun not intended) by the way this thread degenerated her to the point of pond scum without really knowing anything. if she was that bad, you wouldn't have picked her up, or waited for her at her friends,. or mentioned a dozen times that she was attractive. Your posts about your troubles recently hurt me too. my disater was an 8 year relationship with the woman I knew I was going to grow old with. Problem was, she didn't feel the same way. i should have left after 2 years, but I didn't. I wanted to believe her, so I did. Looking back brings anger and resentment, but I'd still phuk her today (38dd's and hair past her waist). Anyway, last night was a great chance for you to take that first step outside of this cocoon your in. I want to see you succeed. I also know phukked up neighborhoods and dope fiends. believe it or not, they're not all trash. But I'm not even going to try and defend them, but it kills me to hear the beer brigade criticzing someone who may choose to feel better about themselves with a different, quite possibly safer drug than alcohol (ever hear of someone ODing on weed?).

Anyway, I just thought it was really sad how everyone turned her into trash, while patting you on the back for missing a great opportunity. I don't think any less of you for doing what you felt was right, Merc, I just want to see you heal.

Unit, give me a break. Neither life nor the people in it are as one sided as your angle on this thread was. That's your right. I guess I just never saw that side of you before.

Take care,
-Chris

Guess you'll have to excuse me for not being the stereotypical bang anything that moves kinda guy. Quite frankly, it pisses me off when you have to nail every girl you get the chance to, or risk being ripped on.

Rookies? What the **** is that about? Wonder why it's the "rookies" analyzing something, and the "veterans" blindly rushing ahead. Aren't you supposed to gain wisdom with age?

I gave you an Option#5. The idea that you can't analyze a situation and people down to the numbers, so you might as well ignore everything and live on the edge is stupid in my opinion. Tell that theory to the cops sometime when you get busted for something. "Yeah, I guess I just didn't give it any thought 'cause people are complicated." You're right. People are complicated, but after 20 years of being around them, you can get a little feel for what they might be thinking usually, or the ability to recognize when things don't feel right. Trusting my instincts has kept me out of a SHITLOAD of trouble.

Again, like I said, I wasn't there so I have a limited feel for what all went down, but neither were ANY of you, except Damien. He didn't feel comfortable, whether or not thats because he was in a "cocoon" or whether he's cautious. It doesn't matter.

If you think that I sit back and judge people based solely on their appearance, or that living in a bad neighborhood makes you bad, or that getting horny makes you bad, or that taking some risks makes you bad, you're nuts. This whole scenerio has WIERD written all over it. When things aren't normal, it might, just maybe, possibly deserve a little thought about what's going down.

If you want an analysis ignoring instincts and everything around it:

Damien, you wanted to see how far the story would go with this girl, and you chickened out (for whatever reason) when it took the turn you were in the back of your mind hoping it would, even though you very much doubted it would.

As far as the girl? She liked the car, thought Damien was cute, had some friends in a bad part of town. She wanted to have some fun.

guy likes girl, girl likes guy: Screw. nothing happens afterwards, cause you haven't thought that far ahead yet.

Thanks, but I choose to look at things a little more than at face value.

I KNOW you not talking about me! *hic* I think I'm gonna have to drink another beer and reread this post. :D

I know what you and Mach are saying.. I'm not saying she is a bad person, just that it is a risky situation.(Hey, I've been there:)) There is not a doubt in my mind that she was purchasing drugs at 1 am in the morning though, hey.. that doesn't make her scum. Sounds like she needed to get that 'friend' of hers the money so quickly, she focused more on the getting there than the risk of waving down someone at 1am in the morning. ALOT of people do drugs, more than you would like to believe, heck I did that when I was younger. It is someone's choice to either do it or not, but you can lose control and I've seen that happen too. I choose to not do them anymore.. Don't even like it anymore, not fun for me. Anyhow, I'm just saying that a girl that just blurts out something like that, bluntly, has probably done that a couple times before. Now if I dated her or even knew her, hell if I met her in a bar and felt comfortable with her, that is different(cuts the risk factor down quite a bit).. I'm all about fun man, its the morning after that gives me ulcers:D

...same old Mercury :)
 

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Forgive me for not reading all of the previous posts...

Mercury, I know it had to be pretty tempting, but we all know something that comes that easy, usually isn't worth it (ESPECIALLY in this situation with that girl-- you and I, and WE all know that).

...careful man. She knows your name and she knows your car. ..careful man...

So some slutty woman knows your car. Who cares? Lets not go getting all paranoid now...

another good merc story hehe, i won't comment because my old lady is a member too , just take care bro i think you did the right thing,i just enjoy your storie's see ya.

Yeh, the best thing you got out of that night was a story. Cause that was funny. lol =) I guess nice guys always don't finish last. =) Hell of a offer though man. See kids this is why you don't do drugs. I'm probably one of the Younger ones here anyway. =)
But that is why I don't do drugs, who the hell knows what ya'll end up doing. lol =) Funny stuff man.

Take it easy all.

wow this is crazy i never knew that getting a bj was such a big deal. Hell i would of taken it threw her out of the car and left. Way less chance of any desease that way. Damn if some of u guys even knew half of what goes on in korea well......um no comment i will just leave it at that.

69 Fastback.
 

Now if she was asian, That would be just about impossible for me to pass up. I probably would of lost control of my car and ran into someones house.

Truth is, if she was asian I probably would of went in for "That Beer". I know that sounds bad, but for me that a whole other story. Ya know man.:D

I'm with PKRWUD on this one too. You can't judge someone after only knowing them for 10 minutes, and Lord knows Merc that you needed to meet someone like that after all the problems you've been having. I'd say go back over there and try to hook up with her again. If not to take her up on her offer, then at least to ease our/your curiosity. Find out what kind of girl she really is then you can come back here with another whopper of a story, or some I told ya so's. Either way, I think it will do you some good.

If it makes you feel better, take her out to a dinner and a movie then take her home ;)

Oh yeah, calling someone a junkie for the reasons listed above is just stupid. You don't know her. And anyway, so what if she was? There's a lot of whacked out people in this world, and someone who is hooked on drugs would be the least of my worries. At least she didn't pull a gun on Merc and drive him out into the country and hack him into little pieces with a chainsaw. Nope. She offered him a sexual favor for doing her a favor. I don't see anything in that that would be too terribly wrong. Granted I probably would have been cautious, but I definately wouldn't forget where she lived if she sparked an interest in me.

Dude, I had the almost the EXACT same thing happen to me when I was 18... I also had a bright shiney red mustang that was loud, LOL.

I just happened to be at a fast food restraunt and saw her arguing with her boyfriend. She stormed off and started walking down the road. As I was pulling out of the place she flagged me over and asked for a ride. She wanted to go over to a friends house, I think it was probably a crack house, so I helped her. It was also in a VERY bad part of town. I dropped her off and she went in, did her business and then came out. She then asked me if I could take her by her house. She lived in a pretty nice part of town so I agreed. She also offered me a hummer, but I turned her down too :eek: Then she told me to not forget her house, and that if I ever wanted to get that hummer or more to just stop by any time the white car was out front and she would help me out. I never did... I don't really know why either.


XR1stang

MERC,
Yeah i know what u mean. If i could even tell u some of the stories of what i have seen these asian women do u would flip out. Whatever that girl was doing or wahtever her intensions were me being single i could not have resisted a quickie in the mustang. If i was married or something different story , but that is not my case. Just take life for what it is for and have fun after all the bullshit we all die in the end. So enjoy the things in life that present them selves to u. Just the way i think.

Well Merc, the fact alone that you thought this was a "shocking" offer tells a lot. One, you arent used to this kind of thing (probably lived in small town all your life?), so you considered it "shocking".

From my perspective, this isnt shocking at all, and happens all the time. more so in big citys.

And second, if you werent so "shocked" to begin with, maybe you would have handled it differently, with more confidence and coolness.

Anyway, you made the right decision from a saftey aspect, and maybe next time this happens to you, you will be better prepared for the options that are offered to you.

Mach 1.

I've had several similar offers before, but none as blunt and flat out as that. Usually takes an hour or two of talking to a girl, not 10 minutes.

I came from Pittsburgh. Not exactly a small town. Live in Fayetteville now. Not a Big City, but sure not a small town.

What shocked me was that she was so blunt about it and didnt do any candy coating at all. And the way things happened, it was more fit for a Porn movie than real life.

Oh.......On a side note. That night, when I was 3/4 of the way home, I turned my radio onto the oldies station. Guess what song came on that moment.

HOUSE OF THE RISING SUN (By the Animals. Song about a House of illrepute. )

I read into that as intercourse, not BJ. All the girls always offered sex, not a hummer to me. Heh.

Hey, Im from Pittsburgh also. what part of the Burgh' are you from?

Option five would have been very very nice, but it is definently the least possible of all.

I used to live in a Suburb Town of Pittsburgh about 10-15 minutes away called New Kensington. Its considered Pittsburgh. Its not far from Monroeville PA.

Now heres the kicker, I grew up in a big city, but moved away to Fayetteville before I was old enought to get into trouble (Get my license) I was 15.

I still go back and visist durning the summer, and during Christmas. In fact, most of the offers I've had were in Pittsburgh while I was up visiting my dad.

Mercury, i can respect your decision. Something just isn't right when a girl is willing to give it up that easy. Although any guy would like to say that it was a hell of a deal, just think of how bad it would be if you got the "the green weenie". How many other guys has she "liked" that much? I think you made the right choice in not giving in.
I've met girls that are that open and direct about that stuff and after learning about them later (and not after giving in to want i wanted to do :D) i know that i would have felt really bad about myself afterwards.

I know where New Kensington is. I dont consider that living in the city though. I find that a lot of people from small towns outside the city like to say they are from the big city, so your not alone. I grew up in North Hills. Its about 8 miles from downtown.

Well i was the one online that late to reply, i was the one to talk the negative talk about her first, i dont mean to judge, but think about it? sorry, i hate to admit it, but i used to sell drugs, not hard stuff, but i seen my share of women, even attractive ones, but that will screw you over quick.

And once again i agree with unit on this. you just cant be to careful, call me old fashion, but i dont have no sexual relations, unless i have some kind of relationship, and not 10 minutes! thats just me, hell, i know lots of dudes that would take the offer in no time.

that was great
 

man i would have been liek oooooooooooooooo....lol. but good choice you made. she could have been a phsyco

Dang Mrec, you run into some wierdo's.

Well guys, from a womans point of viiiew.... any girl that offers to give it up that easy is either a cheeep **** or up to something. I admit to diong my share of fooling around, but after only 10 minutes?? I DON'T THINK SOOOOO!!! Gotta know someone longer than that.

i don't know. If they were as hot as Mercury.....I may not be able to controll myself for that long... May not have even got out of the bank parkinglot!!! Hehehehe.... Just kidding....

Ahhhh, mischief is tempting, but the best things come to those who wait. Especially if it's heinz ketsup...anyone got a hot dog??
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAAAAAAA!!!!

Ok I've only read the first post and the rest on the 1st page. My opinion is she is a skank, no offense to you. But anyone willing to give you head within the first 10 min. you meet her is fugged up in some way, she probaly just contracted aids or something else from her B/F and wanted to pass it along. I don't care what anyone says, any "nice/clean girl" would never do that. So I give you props, VERY wise choice!

well dang, looks like 1bad89 and i, actually agree on something.


cool.

::eek: you know i really enjoy your stories MERC. You seem like a really NICE guy. you were smart. being a woman, i would not even offer sex...on the first date. then after that if it happens go for it.but only if it feels right. but you did the right thing