[vetteeatr]

Ok here we go.....

I would first like to make a little disclaimer.
People change or they werent what you thought they were.

Now onward...

Basically this is what i think more then likely you will eventually you will get a divorce. Great to hear huh?

But statistcs show this is just reality and it keeps getting worse.

I am as well very paranoid and have even some good reasons to be as of late. I woudl be scared to death to have alto of money jstu for the fact i knwo how common peopel are to take advantage and "hitch a ride". Probally one of my worst fears.

Im not saying this is what she is doing though...

This is how im looking at life at the moment at 20 and i belvie alot of peopel are actually.

Live it up have fun with girls or your girl in this case. If you dont want to dont get married or engaged. There are a million fish int eh sea and im sure there will be others liek your current girlfriend is now maybe not identical but how much worse or better could they be?

Also supposedly things change alot when everythign is more standard with 9-5 jobs and your life changes you get tired and loaf around the house or somethign else.

Chances are neither one fo you are gonna be the same.

I would maybe get engaged if its that big of a deal to her but she can live with you for a few years or a year or 2 after you become a doctor and hten both of you will know if oyu will be happy together wiht taht situatuion.

Thats the safest way i can think and probally wisest.

If the girl is not after you for you money and truely loves (5 1/2 year is a pretty long time) then your a lucky guy.

Good Luck