[srv1]

i say dont let a piece of paper rule your life. love has nothing to do with that piece of paper as much as you may think. if she cant wait for you a little longer, then she is being selfish and only thinking of her needs not yours. i say YOUR TOO DAMN YOUNG!!!! Whats the hurry? you have your WHOLE life ahead of you. i would tell her she will have to wait. if she didnt agree, just say "It has been great over the years. Take care of yourself". trust me, dont get married right yet!! you WILL regret it when you find yourself 15 years from now you didnt do what you wanted to do when you were young.

good luck on your decisions.