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Originally posted by Mercury
Human kind is a creature of habit. As for mistakes bieng made repeatedly, which ones? Enlighten me.
Do you mean in my prior relationship? I may have made the same mistake then buy taking the girl back everytime, but Love is no Mistake.
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I didn't really read all those long posts about the ex, I'm referring to all the ones concerning your General Motors gal. Seemed like the overall theme in most people's reply was that you were on the verge of smothering the girl. This is what I mean by repeating mistakes, except this time you caught your own mistake
Personally, I loooooooove to be smothered, but only by someone I've been with for a LONG time, and have henceforth agreed on the commencing of the smotherage
So you're right, in the fact that you realized that you're rushing things, like yiou did the first time when you thought she stood you up.
On the matter of love isn't a mistake, I didn't pay enough attention back then to really be able to make a comment, but taking someone back over and over when it obviously ISN'T working isn't love, at least in my book. That means 2 people that are not compatiable, and cannot meet enough in the middle to amend and save their relationship. My parents have been married 30 years, and been through it all...now THAT's love
I don't doubt that you cared very strongly for your ex, but kicking a dead horse and being miserable enough to post about it all the time doesn't make it a loving relationship, and seems to me you are a much happier person now
Either way, appears that you are finally learning about yourself which is SO great, because it took me years to do that too. I wasted alllll my teen years romantically unhappy
but I finally figured out what I was doing wrong, and now I've got my head in the clouds 24/7!!!!!!!!!!!