Damn guy that is pretty much my story, I suspected she liked this guy, but she said they were just friends. And then she told me she liekd him alittle and wasn't to sure about her feelings towards me. She had gone to the movies with this guy one time, before I suspected anything, so I just surprised her at the movies with my buddy just to say hi cause I hadn't seen her in a few days and she was all upset cause and said how I was always spying on her and didn't trust her and ****. Like 2 weeks later, she leaves me for him. And she told me she started liking him from awhile ago. Weird thing was, I work with them both also, the guy woudln't even look at me, I would walk by him and he would turn his head and look at the wall or walk the other way. Pissed me off alot that he didn't even have the balls to talk to me even after stealing my g/f. Ohh... well the story goes on that I have her back, but trust will always be a problem in our relationship, or atleast until I can get it back which may not be for awhile and she knows that and is willing to work on it. She asked me the other day if she could hang out with her old b/f's friend and I said it would piss me off. I'm going to be honest, I used to hold it in and do my best to trust her, now I just say **** it. I would rather give up the relationship before going threw the pain again.
Sadly it was a relationship I seen lasting a lifetime, that has turned into a relationship of reality. When she left me I relised there was alot of girls out there, and you'll figure that out quick.
And screw woman, who needs them when ya got a Stang.
j/k lol
-Sam.
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Originally posted by tireburner163
Right you are. It turns out she broke up with me with the thought of going out with a friend of mine. What pisses me off so much is that I suspected she like him, but she said they were just friend's and she didn't, even got upset with me because I was "insecure". And it turns out the whole time she like him. She said she realized she didn't know if she loved me when she wanted to go out with him. I told her that No, she did not love me if she wanted to do that.
Thanks for the advice dude. I was considering that, and was actully trying to ratonalize it out, but your right. We work at the same place (as does the other guy), I'm just gonna ignore her.
It's just that she flat out lied about her liking him, how could I take her back if I can't trust her? What if I do take her back? Will there be a next time? I just feel like I've been flat out replaced or something.
Oh well. If you love something let it go, etc, etc. If it's ment to be, it will be. Time will tell, and I've got plenty of that.
oh well. 2 years and 7 months......down the shitter.
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