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Originally posted by Mercury
Marya didnt want to admit she needs help and guidance. She thinks she can tackle her problems and past experiences (Which I will not get into, but she has reason to be the way she is) on her own. A very tuff nut to crack.
People who have problems need help also. If left alone things dont go away, they reccess back into the farthest reaches of the mind, lingering. ONly to come back in magnitudes when certian things trigger memories.
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I'm sorry to hear she is having problems
, I am one of the few that feel it IS possible to overcome personal issues without outside/professional help (living proof) BUT you still have to admit, even if just to yourself, that there is indeed an issue. Without doing that, things cannot improve...I hope that even though you two are no longer an item, that you can still help her.
I can understand why she might not feel like talking...Although I think we all agree you did the right thing, I'm sure there is still a feeling of betrayal on her part, that you left her alone with her personal demons. I hope that soon she will understand that she is the only one that can truly put them to rest...if I can figure it out, anyone can
