Men Suck!
 

Okay need to vent not all men suck but I want to hear some input on this!!! Men have to be the biggest cowards!!! Why is it when they have a bad day or whatever they can't just say hey I had a bad so I need sometime alone??? Nope instead they would rather treat you like total crap and not let you know what was wrong!!! And why can't guys ever talk to a girl what are they so freakin afraid of??!!?? Men are always b*tchin that girls never say what is on their minds and play little games... I think that is the other way around!!!! I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!???


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Sorry had to vent!
Karen

i dont suck.

I know Jason I said all men dont suck MOST men on this site is pretty cool!

See Ya,
Karen;)

<< I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!??? >>

Yep, but they're gay :D

J/K ... you sound wayyyy to much like my wife ! Is that you hun ? lol

LOL yup it is probably a girl thing lol or is that the way men try and explain it???!!!!

See Ya,
Karen;)

In case you haven't already figured it out....

We're men... We DON"T like to talk.... We don't want to COMMUNICATE, we don't get in touch with our emotions, and we sure as heck don't find our "inner child"....

My advice as someone who's been married 12 years:
Give him a beer, the latest copy of Muscle Mustangs and Fast Fords, the remote control and leave him alone for a couple of hours.

By that time I guarantee he will have forgotten about whatever he was pissed about if it didn't have anything to do with you....

Remember ladies, the keys to men:
Food, beer, sex, cars, and a little quiet time....

Remember that and you've got us figured out....

I always tell my wife the lowdown of my bad days. In return she tells me her days adventures at work and how the kids tortured her. It is not a guy thing, I have met women that act like that too. It is just nature of some folk. I guess I am just in touch with my sensitive side. Don't laugh :D

Maybe its because women are soo wrapped up in asking you what color they should color thier hair(for instance) that they really either can't relate to your problems or don't really want to hear it, to start with.. err.... I'm sure not ALL women are like that... :D

Just kidding with you Shelby.. HEEH!;)

I have to agree with Hammer on the "Food, Beer, Sex and Cars". If I want quiet time I either pull an Al Bundy (mag in the can) or pretend I fell asleep. :D

Yeah guys but what I am saying is why do they have to treat you like crap because of their day?? I mean I don't really expect men to talk about their problems but they could say Hey had a bad day just let me be ... But they dont they act like a*s holes how come?:confused:

I go out in the garage and port heads

You know the difference between a crazed Doberman and a woman with PMS ???

Lipstick :D

LMAO@hotrod ummmmmmmmm no !!;)

I don't suck either... I'm the "perfect guy"... Really, I am! :)

i dont suck....

i talk with my gf all the time...shes knows how i feel and i know how she feels....hell i even used to help out other girls with their problems...but most guys dont talk, youre right....

I'm sorry you had to take the brunt of that sweetheart.

Men don't care who or what is "in the way" when they are having a bad day. They will beat up on anything around them, cars, walls small woodland creatures. Unfortunatly, most of the time guys have a bad day and come home to a woman.

I have an 80lb heavy bag and a pair of shorts in my garage. There are days I don't go in the house until I've used them both. That way I can leave some of my anger (one of the four emotions men understand) out there and be a little bit nicer.

The other part of the problem is that men are supposed to be strong. When things go wrong for us we have to deal with it. That's our job. More often than not, it makes us seem grumpy to those around us.

The guys that can comminicate, there is usually something wrong with them.

:)
 

Hey Karen,
One thing to keep in mind, and this is only from my own expierience, is that sometimes it takes a little time for some guys to feel 'comfortable' baring thier souls, or to be open about thier feelings. Especially if it is someone who is not like that and has never been used to someone actually wanting them to open up and caring about what is going on.
This takes time for some, and some more time than others....I myself have no problem expressing myself, but alot of men have like a 'wall' to keep behind. And sometimes it just takes time to break down that barrier. It just kinda happens.. But still at times, there is that moment that they dont say anything for fear that the wrong thing will come out or it will be hurtful because of thier mood. Of corse, it is better in that instance if they dont say anything at all, then to say hurtful things, but everyone deals w/ bad days differently. Usually after the initial crappiness of the day is gone, they will come around...
I know that does not make it any easier, especially if you tend to be an emotional person and open yourself. But, this too, will pass. (hate those cliches'). Hang in there...It just takes a little time!!!! :D Best of luck to ya! ;) Christine

Men suck, hell I thought that was the chicks job.
 

Sorry couldn't resist that one Shelby, I think Hammer hit the nail on the head though. There's no reason for him to be an a$shole to you though. Hell just tell him it's better to be pissed off then pissed on.:D What works for me when I'm pissed or had a bad is to have a few and watch the fast and the furious( slow and sexually curious would have been a better title). Hell after watching 30 minutes of ricers acting cool I feel way better about my self. :D

DH

Thanks a lot Christine heehee only a girl could say it that good!!! Guys take notes!! And Deuce I know about mens tempers, most dont hit those objects...just their g/f's around here anyway!!!

See Ya,
Karen

Yo Welcome!
 

Glad I could be of assistance!!! :D Now, I gotta start thinking about bed. I've been getting 'sick' since yesterday, and I feel like hell...:(
If ya need anything dont hesitate to holler at me! :)
Have a good evening....:cool:
TNT

That's unaccpetable. I'm driving out to St. Louis to see some friends next summer. Just make me a list, and I'll take care of anybody you need.;)

LOL it is a long list deuce!!!;) Night Christine thanks everyone for the response!!!!!!!!

See Ya,
Karen

Fag.........lol:D

Re: Men suck, hell I thought that was the chicks job.
 

i dont think hammer was being an a--- hole, when, i have a bad day i vent for about 30 min's. then im done, it's over then, me & lee talk , no big, josh! if you call me a f-g, recognize!!!!, im coming to ole miss in oct, lol.:D :D :p

lmao...you know....i saw that coming..:D

but im not sexually frustrated....so it doesnt bug me...i guess if i wasnt getting "some" then i would have nothing to say in my defense, eh? lol....still figures someone said it... :p :cool:

Hell, I suck big time, if she's cute. It's her personality, or rather her personalities, that drive me crazy. Who am I talking about? Every woman I've ever met. Know what? Every guy is like that too. The trick is to get your personality extremes to compliment each other rather than hurt each other.

Either that or take up needlepoint. It's up to you.

Take care,
~Chris

Re: Re: Men suck, hell I thought that was the chicks job.
 

Ahhhhh lets change that to about 45 min. or more depending on what happened.....j/k

I have learned to just listen and sometimes thats hard. But if I let Marty go and do his thing he seems to be able to cool off faster, then we have a good evening. I know all men are not this way, and I have to agree with Christine, she has a lot of good points. And you have to let your guy know what you are feeling about his bi*ching too. Sometime they don't even realize it if they have had a really bad day. Hang in there its got to get better. Odie:cool:

Sorry Crazy Horse GT
 

Sorry my post didn't come out like it was supposed to, I meant that shelby b/f was an a$shole if he was being mean to her, not Hammer. I agrred with Hammer's strategy for unwinding after a bad day. And yes, guys that can communicate easily are pillow biters.:D

That is hillarious... lol :D

Sorry to here about your troubles Karen.
I can go on for ever explaining what I've learned from my last relationship... all I can say is, if your in a relationship your not happy with, and it's not working and your partner refuses to work things out, get out of it. If things don't work after 1 month or acouple months or even a year, then don't try to make them last a lifetime. But I don't think a fair comment is guys suck, or really any guys suck. Every person is different, and carry a different personality, you just need to find the person that matches what you are looking for. That is the hunt for love.

Another note....
I heard that guys can get what is the equivelent to PMS in woman, it's called IMS. lol It works basiclly the same way, it causes guys to react the same way woman do. But it's not as common, and I don't believe they go into the complete mood swings like woman. Something I've learned never ask a girl with PMS if they have PMS. Unless your ready to run and not come back. lol

§am.

LOL@Sam soooooo you avalible????;) ;) ;)


See Ya,
Karen

Why would guys want to talk. The few times I've tried to help girls with their problems they end up not talking to me as much. Jon says he shares his feelings and gets called gay. We're taught not to talk. I see no benefits but all kinds of negatives associated with it. I tried to, didn't work out, so I think I'll stick with the norm(as far as everyone is concerned).

I think you are hanging around the wrong men. Most guys I know wouldn't get pissed at their girlfriend/wife if they had a bad day. Guys like that are morons, but the best thing to do as was said before is to give quiet time. If I want to talk about it, I'll talk about it. If not, then I'd rather watch TV or something. (Go on MW for example)

hehehe:D

I was thinking of saying something along those lines, but thought better of it.

MTU I think you are exactly right!!!!

See Ya,
Karen:D

I think the only other person to agree with me this much was Marty and that was just because I was praising the Red Wings.:cool:

Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohh Hell don't get me started on this subject!:D

Cradle robber.

lmao my thoughts exactly

Jealous ERIC???!!!!??? Sam knows I am kidding anyway!! Right Sam!!;) :D

Bite Me,
Karen

Jealous...me??? Nah, if sam can get an older woman more power to him. :eek: All i can say is way to go bro!!

Eric I dont think I need to hear anymore of your mouth or this is going to turn into a flaming thread!!!!! So peace!!!!

Karen

Re: Men Suck!
 

Karen, all men aren't cowards. Seems like you need to move on. If this one guy is going to treat you like crap, you are smart enough to move on. Yeah everyone has a bad day and they take it out on someone they care about, but their is definetly limits. From what i read, this dude surpassed that limit some time ago. Maybe you should be by yourself for awhile or find someone who you can relate with not debate with. From your words on this message board, you don't strike me as uneducated individual. You have the smarts and instinct, so use them. Drop this guy like a bad habit. Their is no need to be a welcome mat for your feelings.

I hope you get what you want.

HEEHEE you are right srv1 I am not uneducated and I did drop him!!! But he must be uneducated because he is going to be missing out on a good thing!!!!

Thanks,
Karen;)

good for you! you get a double ;) ;)

Of course babe.... :D

lol It's all about experience boys, :D Even my dream girl didn't drive a Saleen, AND a '69 Fastback! + owns a car audio store. I think I'd be doing pretty damn good... lol :D hehehe.. j/k with you Karen. Don't worry about the others, there just jealous. hehehe....

Yup! See both genders can act stupid and shallow when they want to! :D Stereotyping is pointless, because there are always exceptions to the rule.

Why is that many men like to convey themselves as simple creatures with only a few wants and desires? Certainly you consider yourself a LITTLE more evolved than that? :confused: Being easily pleased is a GREAT thing, but come on...beer and boobs are NOT the secret to a fulfilling life (just part of it). :rolleyes: :D

In my opinion, a REAL man is the same as my idea of an intelligent person...very complex and deep, and isn't afraid to go against the grain of the majority of men and NOT portray himself as "huh huh beer huh huh tits" like his peers. That's just like when girls purposely act all snobby and giggly when they get around other chicks (now isn't that annoying??) I think nowadays its the "cool" thing to be like The Man Show and just act sub-human and drool over women 24/7. True, females are GORGEOUS and worthy of praise, but its not necessary to go around with NO other goals in life besides leg humping!!!

Some of the most intelligent and considerate men I've met admit that stuffed animals are cute, and life doesn't revolve around MAMMARY GLANDS, for pete's sake. And no, they were not GAY. I despise women that think homos make "great friends" so be assured...I do not associate myself with men that carry handbags.

The "communication" and "inner child" stuff is all psychobabble, but I have found that the most SUCCESSFUL relationships occur when the people CAN understand each other. Knowing when your mate is a bad mood and could use a backrub IS communication. Being able to talk to each other doesn't mean you have to have some psych session where you draw pictures and read inkblots...

Anyways Shelby, I find that its mostly extremely intelligent men that don't fall into the confines of your complaints...basically the smarter the individual, the less inclined they are to just follow the trends of their gender, and more inclined to just say, "Work sucked, the boss yelled, and I'd just like to sulk for a while" instead of having a mood swing and being childish. Find one, and love him :)

I agree, its retarded....since when does BEING NICE equal being a HOMO??? :mad:

But whatever, the guys that think they are so cool and "tough" by purposefully acting emotionless are only cheating themselves...honestly, what kind of girl can you attract by being a dick? Probably someone just as crappy as them :) I say continue! They're doing a lovely job of cleaning up the dating pool :D

Very well put Bella!!! I think you said it all!!;)

See Ya,
Karen:cool:

I'll have to agree with this statement 100%. There was no mention of food and cars.(I can't help it):D

How about *** kickings??!?! :D ;) :p

LMAO! DOH!!

I've always admired that kinda spunk! :)

Okay, so now that everyone knows I have a stuffed animal collection as large as Belle's......I can go hide somewhere....

Hey, they are stuffed PENGUINS, alright?!?!

:rolleyes: