You did the right thing by being honest with her. DO NOT LEAD HER ON, by letting her think all will be well again. Be kind but firm about how you feel. Your obviously not ready for the same kind of commitment she wants. When you talk to her, tell her she's not wrong about what she wants, but you just aren't the one who can give it to her at this point.
When you find the right partner, you'll know it, and you'll see that things don't always have to be a struggle.
jm2
Good luck.
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Blk. 93LX 5.0 Hatch. 5spd. K&N, Dynomax cat-back.
Stock and Speedy! And I like it like that!
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