Yeah I know this situation all to well also. I go to college full time and work on cars as a side job and hobby (my mustang). At first she acted like she liked my mustang, and then she broke up with me one time and called me in-mature for spending so much time on my mustang.
We got back together and everything was fine, until just recently. Nothing happened she just decided that we would be better off as friends.
She loves to play head games, because she is a very emotional person. Well after I diagnosed my mustang with a bent valve on last Thursday I decided to put my aluminum heads on. I told her I needed it to be running, because I drive it everyday.
She says no problem and I start working on my car at about five o' clock on Friday and finish at about twelve thirty. I go over her house and she greets me at the door very lovingly with a kiss and hug. Well I sit for a few minutes talking and she asks me if I want to go to a bar on Saturday. Sure, so a few more minutes go by and she blurts out doesn't if feel like we are just friends. I said WTF, maybe for you, but not for me.
So I go why did you kiss me and invite me to the bar just a few minutes ago. She says the kiss was not real (WTF) and I didn't mean to ask you to the bar. I then told her how stupid she sounded and said that she needs to lose the middle shcool dating rules from her mind.
After a year and a half I decided that I had enough, I love her dearly and I was going to propose, but not after this sh!t. It's bye bye birdie. No more, my friends have all said to let her go along time ago. But you must follow what you think will be the best for you Sky not what other people say, because everybody has an opinion. Don't ignore people giving you advice, just make decisions based on what you feel is in your best interest.
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