Back to the orginal post. Yes they have songs. Love hurts is a good example. There are alot of hurt songs. One of my favorites is by Otis Redding called "I got dreams to remember"

I am getting a little old and jaded but when I am feeling bad I love to waller in some of these old songs for a while til I can see that yeah lifes a ***** but not getting out on the dance floor for one more two step is worse than dying.

Don't get all hard and crystallized into your negative side. Even a passing kiss is better than being sulled up in a corner daring people to get involved with you.

Every day and every kiss is a gift. Celebrate that and give up the score keeping. Other wise you will run out of score keeping paper right at the moment you think you might be winning.

Make sense? Probably the last post in this thread.

Damn where is that pencil I just scored another one on her and I want to mark it down. Sh*t where is the score card.....

Oh bye the way ramblings of an old f*rt. Please take at face value.:D ;) ;)

I've just never gone out with or dated anyone with my values and share what i'd like to do in life. I've dated girls that were fun to be with and i liked but no one i felt "love" or felt very deeply for. I'm in no hurry though :D I've let outside influences affect my relationships before and i learned from that quickly, people will tell you one thing and do something completely different themselves. I know what it's like to ruin something you have with someone and be helpless because you can't undo what happened. I'm sorry to hear you lost that someone.