Relationships.....GOD!!!!
 

My girlfriend hates me. Just flat out hates me, well, she loves me, but she don't like me very much. I don't pay her enough attention, which I don't. I know it, and that's what makes it so bad.
I neglect the little things. Like buying her flaowers and taking her shopping, rubbing her back, so on and so on. I am such an a55hole.

The car gets more attention than her, not really, just waiting on that argument. Heh- heh.

Anyway, I just wanted to post that......nevermind, just got yelled at for not hanging up a coat or 2. And for not hooking up a computer, and my friends picking on me and her. It's funny. Later.

never ends
 

I've been married now for 35 years. Guess what? It never ends. What you must determine is if it's worth it or not? You and only you can decide that.

Rev

Re: never ends
 

i dont even want to talk about the g/f i had for a little while after odie passed away, i know what HELL is now, think i will stay by myself for a long while. :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :eek: :D oh btw rev, your my v.p. in the o.b.c., not member #2. lol.

They always seem to leave the gate alot stronger than when they cross the finish line..

You are right Rev. I've been married almost 37 years and today I am in the dog house for washing the wife's car instead of digging in the flower bed with her.

The lady across the street is probably giving her husband hell cause he didn't wash HER car.

Men are form Mars and women are from Venus is probably true. But it would be hard to live without them......

Sounds like love is in the air :p

springtime... a time of reproduction.... lol :)

You mean the flowers right? ;)

birds bees flowers... they're all linked... :p

philosopy?
 

Oh, how some of us wish we could just skip the purpose of it all.....................and just stick with the mechanics of it............wishful thinking.

Rev

It wouldn't be springtime without a relationship thread! Sometimes it's good to vent and get it all out.

How is it that no matter what you do, you are ALWAYS wrong?

"What's 2 + 2?"

"Four."

"Uh..NO!!"

Women of the world, leave us alone!

I think timing is probably more important than what you do. Doing almost anything at the right time is worth more than doing something really big at the wrong time. so figuring out when to do stuff is the trick. This probably requires knowing someone well which seems to also count a lot. None of this is easy, however.

It's simple math......girls are evil.

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relationship
 

Relationships are the most difficult thing to master. I got married last Nov. and we split in Feb. This was my first marriage and on my wedding day I was nervous, but thought this was the best for me. In December, I got mad at my husband for something I find out he did right after we got engaged. I said some things to him that I did not mean. Just say, the things I said, was to make him hurt like I felt. Anyway, I didn't realize that the very thing I said was an issue for him. I guess we didn't talk enough. If I had only knew, I would not had said that. Anyway, we met last May and married in Nov. I guess we should have gave it more time. It felt the rightest thing I have ever felt. We have been split for almost three months. The only thing in sight is divorce. I still can't believe I waited a long time to find just the qualities in a husband I was looking for. to just divorce. When I finally did, and it felt right, I jumped. We (he and I ) both said and did things to each other. It is both our faults. My husband does not want to save the marriage. He is done and that is it. I honestly thought he was the type that would follow the vows and always be there and work it out. I just wanted to always know that someone, esp. my husband would always be there for me. So I guess, Spring is not so good this year. Anyway, just a note about women to all you guys. I will agree some women are just difficult. Some women are full of hormones that make us say and do things that we normally would have not done. The only advise I can have is to understand that women are not anything like men. Our bodies are different and our hormones are too. Women are not all bad, some better than others. The bottom line is to talk to each other with an open mind and not defensive attitude about how each other is feeling. Ask each other what they want and what it is in this relationship that will make you happy. If you both don't want the same things, then for both your selves move on. For those who are married and realize this, hope is not lost, compromise and learn to like what the other does. Everything can work out if you want and try real hard. In my case, I want the marriage towork and is willing to try, he is not. I can't make him want to be with me, so I have no choice but to give it closure and move on. I hope for a brighter future and to be with someone who I know that wants to be with me, understand that I am a moody hormonal woman, and will always be there( I can count on).

It never ends.
Can't live w/them, and can't live without.

IF you really love them keep trying. I've learned doing little things usually makes them happy. At least for a moment.
There will alway's be a complaint though.

Re: philosopy?
 

Now that is funny,:D

Why can't women be more like cars? Something breaks and we get to fix it. Simple, easy and you even get to drink a beer or to in the process.

Then again, maybe women are like cars. Car don't care where you are when they decide to throw a fit, and you have to fix the problem right then and there.

Dang it!!!

That sucks. I thought I was on to something there. Oh well, Forget what I just said. Later.

otherwise?
 

Look at it this way. If you weren't always wrong, how could they always be right?

Rev

:)
 

I know you wont agree w/ this but MEN can be as COMPLEX as us women! :) and BAAAD!
Bigwhitecobra...long time no see. Im glad you hooked up w/ someone. but Man, dont let her make you miserable. you had enough of that shit.... If shes not into you, or your hobbies., and your ride, kick her to the curb. Not to sound cruel. But life is too ******* short to be unhappy. You need a woman that can TOTALLY get involved in what you are into. THAT is what makes a relationship so special. Doing things together that you are equally in love with.. IMO. Dont sell yourself short.
:cool:TNT:cool:

The Trick To Staying Together Is.............I work nights and she works days. ;)

well... personally... im my boyfriend washed my car... i would be doing backflips for him right now. The term spending to much time on a car comed to mind here. I have never seen someone change out the stupid decals on a car so much in my life.... were at about once every other month right now. Most of the time we get along... but there is just once a month when i could kill him...lol oh well thats all the fun though ... making up... but the most painful treatment a man could give a woman is ignoring the argument... woah ...

Hehe... spring has sprung...lol

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Stang_Girl617
[B] I have never seen someone change out the stupid decals on a car so much in my life.... were at about once every other month right now. Most of the time we get along... but there is just once a month when i could kill him...lol oh well thats all the fun though ... making up... but the most painful treatment a man could give a woman is ignoring the argument... woah ...

Men are very difficult to understand. I think woman will never understand them as men will never understand us. It is impossible unless the other was us for a day. They would get it just like we would get it if we were them for a day. Does that make sense. Anyway, men are inlove with three things for sure, that being their selves, their mother, and the vehicle they drive. It sounds like your other woman is the car. Be thankful that it is the car instead of another woman. Suggestion, if you want to spend more time with him, then help him put those stupid decals on his car. He probably would enjoy the time and help. Is it straight, the decal? Anyway, if you not up for that, then find something that you both like and work with that. If there is not alot then, maybe it might be time to move on. Be honest and tell him how you feel. See if that makes any difference. Ask him if you could help him for a day with the decals. You might see a big difference. Good Luck in Love!!

All relationships don't work out but sometimes good things come from it. Take a look at this

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So the guy wants to sell his ex-wife's wedding dress on Ebay, fine.....I don't have a problem with that. What I do have a problem with is the guy using what should have been a simple add, as his own personal forum to rant and rave about his marriage, in-laws, and ex-wife. No wonder he's getting divorced :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

"This dress cost me $1200 that my drunken sot of an ex-father-in-law swore up and down he would pay for but didn’t so I got stuck with the bill. Luckily I only got stuck with his daughter for 5 years." ~ Got stuck with his daughter for 5 years?? What was keeping him in the marriage for that long? If he was that unhappy, he could have left alot earlier than 5 years into it....or how about this revelation, get to know your partner before getting married . Marriage is a life-long commitment, it's not something to rush into and you should know your partner well enough to realize if marriage is the right step to take or not.

"Thank the Lord we didn't have kids. If they would have turned out like her or her family I would have slit my wrists." ~Gee, that's a real mature thing to say. Is this guy 15 or really immature? Putting someone down in order to relieve stress or frustration is not a healthy way to deal with problems. I'm thankful he didn't have children because he doesn't sound like the best father.

"Actually I didn’t think my head would fit in the neck hole, but then I figured she got her Texas cheerleader hair through there I could get my head in it." ~Yet another dig at his ex-wife.

"You may regret the dude you marry but not the dress." ~This is a fitting end to his add. After reading through his whining and complaining, he's the perfect guy to be giving out relationship and/or marriage advice. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


I wonder how many times this guy approached his ex-wife to talk about possible problems in their marriage? I wonder if they even talked at all? It sounds like civil communication isn't his strong point. Sarcasm, however, is his strong point. It makes me angry to see someone have such strong feelings of resentment and disgust towards a person they supposedly once loved and wanted to spend the rest of their life with. Marriage is a blessing and should not be taken for granted.


Sorry for ranting. Relationships and marriage are a hot topic with me. :) My $.02 for what it's worth.

I wasn't trying to come across as I am in a bad relationship, we were just picking around and I happen to be on the boards......you get the drift.

She does get on my nerves, but in a good way. Anyway, I'll post later. Got to go to bed. Big race tomorrow, in Rockingham, NC. 5.0 Civil Wars. It's always an interresting weekend.

Anyway, Later guys and dolls.