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Old 12-16-2001, 05:56 PM   #11
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Mercury:

Sorry about your depression over what didn't happen Saturday night. It's understandable.

I think you may be setting your expectations too high, based on some 'looks' and a good conversation. Don't place so much weight on one meeting. This scares off otherwise interested girls and makes you appear overbearing and, well, desperate. Obviously not a good idea.

Relax, don't make this girl the center of your universe at this very early state. Keep trying but don't make a possible meeting the focal point of your week. Things happen.
Make yourself available to see her again, for sure, but if it doesn't happen, don't view it as a personal judgement against you. She may have simply forgot, been busy, even ill. Who knows?

Try to be positive and expect good things to happen.
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