I don't really understand your post after this point:
"NO, you never said anything on this matter of bringing it up. as for "inner beauty", most of the time it doesnt really work like that in the real world."
Well, obviously it doesn't, but who could change that (if we wanted to? US. People just don't care enough to...nothing is wrong with a nice physical appearance. In fact, I think it is necessary to be VERY attracted to your mate (beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Like I said, I admire her determination in playing for fools the very people that make it possible for her to prosper.