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Old 12-20-2001, 10:56 PM   #43
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Well, I'm 17 and not many of my friends are in relationships.
I've been going out with my g/f for 6 months. I love my g/f to death, but I wonder how long will it last? I would love for it to last forever but I'd want a couple things to be fixed before I'd marry her, but we have no intentions on getting married at all. Well - we joke about it but it isn't going to happen. When things go great I feel like I could be with her forever, when things go bad I feel like I'm losing her and I go crazy. Amazing how the heart works.

Ohh... and I'm announcing I'm trying my new test in life.

This is my new attitude for a bit; I'm going to be more easy going, bottle up all my anger (so don't get mad at ppl), let what has to be, be. And I'm going to be a bit less nice. =) Like, I won't always go out of my way, and I'll play a little hard to get. That otta help me figure out some of these woman problems I'm having.

Ohh.. also here is the conclusion I came up with my g/f (Anyone who knows my problems that I complain about quite frequently) I was sitting at work today and I figured this out.

I've been thinking at work like everyday about this.
When I first met Laura (my G/f) I told her twice that we couldn't go out. (Several reasons: age difference and not much in common). Anyway I pretty much kept saying we couldn't go out and stuff. So - like, hard to get? And she never gave up.

But now that I'm finally going out with her and she knows I can't go without her she slowly keeps doing things to push her luck. Like she wants me to get mad so I'm going to go back to the hard to get stage. (what girls want). They always want something they can't have. And which brings me to Doug (Her guy friend - I HATE HIM), he is a prick and is an a$$ to her she always complains how he is mean and **** and he pushs her around (Wait tell I see him, I am probably going to punch him in the head without warning) She still talks and hangs around with him plus she knows this upsets me - or has a good idea that it does, but she says it's fine as long as it's nothing more then a friend.

Back to the theory girls want what they can't have.
I don't know how true this situation is but it is the best I can understand it. So now I'm trying my 'new thing' and be less sympathetic and 'obsessive' of her. Like I said, I have the more of who cares attitude with her. Doesn't mean I still don't love her or will stop protecting her, but I just won't wait hand and foot for her, also I'll start hanging out with female friends and see what she thinks of this and quote her on her own words on how it is O.K. and just I figure this is the way it's gotta be. If she plays her game I'll play mine.

I really don't agree to doing this but I don't want to loose her so if this is the only way I can keep her then I'll have to do it, but I don't know how long I can stick to it. Anyone think this is wrong or a good idea, also any other or alternative suggestions?

Thanks All,

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