Maroon 5.0 LX, I think your over reacting a tad. Almost every one drank at some point in their teen years. Also sounds to me like "Bob" was pissed a Ben and started talkin ****, but couldn't back it up. So he THEN wanted to talk.
Next time Pony, find a spot closer to a heavly wooded area. Woods make great hiding places.(not that I would know

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