I'm only aware of one friendship that remained strong after a g/f was dumped by one and picked up by the other. I'm aware of at least a dozen times when it didn't work. My best friend dated and is now married to a woman who used to date a neighbor of mine. We were all friends until my best friend started dating her. The biggest problem was her stories of what a jerk the first guy was, and the lines in the sand they drew. I'd advise against it, but it's a decision you will ultimately have to make.
Take care,
-Chris
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