sam trust me at 17 you still gotta lot to learn (no insult intended you sound like a cool guy), hell i'm 22 and i know i still have lots to learn. as you get older you will understand more and the relationships will be different than back in high school. me and my g/f broke up about the same time as you and yours. she thought we were more like friends as she said, i think that has gotta be the lamest excuse. i never had a (girl)friend that i did stuff like we did, with. we are still friends, but the way its working out is that i will only see her every few months or weeks as i'm moving away for a job i took after the break up. i am still friends with several of my ex-girlfriends cause back when i was 15-18 i and they never expected to be with each other forever. but all i can say is go out be young, be single for awhile, cruise for awhile it will get better, hell its getting better for me already. i know what you are going through cause i'm going through most of the same things. it will get better and you will find someone else.
-murray
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