i appreciate the empathy...
the funeral was yesterday...my brother went...her mom was talking about how she was soi excited to be going back to school to be around my brother again, he couldnt handle it

...poor kid...im driving out to orlando to see him later today...hes taking it hard, but well at the same time....now that the funeral has passed i think he'll start to feel better, especially with all the support from his family and friends...
i still feel bad for her family and 12 year old sister though...this is never a good thing, i guess you just have to celebrate her life and all the great times you had with such a blissful person....
once again I thank you all for your kind words and prayers,
Jonathon