to answer some of your questions. I have already tried talking to the mother-in-law to help. It made it worst. She told him that I fussed her out, when I did not do anything like that. Yes, i would love to put some distance between his family and us. it works with my family. I am 32. I have been out doing things for myself for a long time. I was ready to settle down and start thinking about a family and focus my energy on that. I think in the process I lost myself. I do plan to try to do something for myself as soon as I can, like go back to school for another type of degree so i can get a job in the town i live in. Jobs are hard to come by here. My husband is 35. We both had not been married before. I think the fact that we both waited so long as not help for the adjustment of being married. Yes, I believe he is worth it to try again. I feel that if I don't, I will regret it for the rest of my life. I love this man. He and I have some changing to do to make it work. You are right, sometimes advise from strangers does help. i thank everyone for your responses.
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