"Jane" needs to wake up and see the real world. If my post seems harsh and too direct, it IS meant that way. The reality of the situation is that his behavior is going to escalate. Now he only verbally abuses her and throws things around. Sometime soon he will "accidently" throw something in her direction. Then things will get thrown at her. Then he will make sure he actually hits her with something.
The verbal abuse will slowly turn into verbal and physical abuse. It is only a matter of time.
We see it ALL the time. Ft. Worth F.D. is dispatched on all 911 calls as we can usually beat the ambulance and the cops to the scene by several minutes. There will be some woman who has a split lip or bloody nose and it is her husband/boyfriend/piece of human filth that has "lost it". When the cops arrive and start to handcuff him it is "Oh no, he didn't mean it" or "It's my fault, I made him mad" or some other garbage like that.
And then she takes him back!!!!!?????!!!!!
Go to the battered women's shelters{if you can find one as they usually keep the location secret,for good reason}and ask these beat up women how it all started.
Find a cop or two that will talk to you about what they have seen. Now that I think about it, I believe we have a couple of law officers who post here. Hopefully they will speak up.
"Jane" needs to get this loser out of her life. Now.
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