Mine was a messed up story as well...
This girl I work with and she is perfect, and beautiful, and
married(seperated for 8 mos though) We have gotten together, and we have the most amazing times together, I believe she may be the perfect woman for me. But here's what happened:
I was at her house a couple sundays ago watching a movie in her room. She has a daughter and she woke up and my g/f went into her room to lay with her for a while. While she was laying there, I hear the front door open and in walks her husband into the room. I had no clue on what to do. So I sat there, he tried to turn on the lights, then walked out of the room and into his daughters room and told her to "get the ***** out here" so he walked out into the living room, and I'm still sitting on the bed wondering if i should jump out the window or what... After like 5 mins goes by he yells "hurry the ***** up" and she walks into her room and tells me I should go. So I got up and grabbed my stuff and walked by him in the hallway, and as soon as I touched the doorknob to leave, he says "where do you think you're goin?" I turn around and say "who the ***** are you?" (i knew) and he said, "I'm her husband, who the ***** are YOU?" I wasn't sure what to say, so I said I was just there hangin out. He started walking towards me and I started walking towards him and she stepped in between us and ushered me out the door.
I didn't hear anything from her for about 18 hours, and I thought she was hurt or whatever, the guy is a psycho so who knew?? Finally her sisters called me and told me she wanted them to tell me she was ok and not to call the house. so I wound up not talking to her for 4 days after that. This is a girl who I'd talk to at least 5 times a day to on the phone or whatever. He went back up to NH after 4 days of being here, but said he'd be back down real soon, but not telling her when to make her paranoid.
So now she's really confused, she thinks she owes it to him to give it another try, even though she knows it will end up the same way as it was before. She says she really, really loves me, and a part of her still loves him, and she feels alot of guilt and pity for him, and because they have a daughter.
I told her I'd wait for a while and we'd see what happens. They got into a fight last night and she said she was filing for divorce today, but he talked to her after and now she's not sure what to do again.
I know I'm the crazy one here for wanting to wait, but this woman makes me feel like I have NEVER felt before, in such a short time.
Almost everyone says RUN, but it would be a shame to pass up someone who makes me feel this way. I've been in love before, but never so strongly. I guess I'm mental!!!
And we do talk, One thing I am, is a communicator, I know how important it is to let them know your true feelings. We have discussed this whole thing for hours upon hours upon hours, but she's just sooo confused...
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