Well guys, I just need a man who isn't emotionally dead!
Here I go again...I know what all of you are gonna say, it's nothing I haven't said to myself...time after time...but...here goes.
My car broke down in early September; alternator went out. I lost my job because he couldn't or wouldn't do anything to help me and I needed $$$ to get what I needed. I found another job fter he actually let me drive one of his cars...Ohhhh! My car is still down.
A very good friend of mine gave me an alternator for my car and called dumba$$ to see if he could throw my battery on the charger so I can drive it here to replace the part. His response was; 'When I can make the time'. I said, "Never mind, I'll have it towed here so I can fix it". Then I finished with "Do you really hate me that much that you can't do anything for me at all?"
Was I wrong? I've learned (after two years) that if I ask him to do something for me he never has time...but one of his ex's calls and he's right on it. I hurt my back the other day and I was in bed - 9:30.
He actually expected me to get up out of bed and go to the store to get him food and cook it; knowing full well that I could hardly walk. When I said "No", he replied; "Why am I in a relationship, anyway?" I said; "You're not in a relationship, I am, and it's only me - only one-sided".
Got to leave this guy.
Thanks for letting me vent. It helps, and so do all of you.