Need Girl Advice tomrrow.... Please help!

84_GT350 · 06-16-2001, 02:53 AM

Ok...I feel the need to interject here.

First of all...it seems pretty clear that you love this girl yet you seem to have your priorities in the right place. That's a definite plus for you.

Secondly, a woman should never be your #1 priority. I know that may sound harsh, but if you turn your world upside down for a girl, what are you left with? YOU need to be your #1 priority and let her be your second. You sound very dedicated to your business and I applaude you for that. If you compromised and gave into her complaining you might screw up your future.

Now all this may sound harsh and unfeeling but I assure you I know how important love is. But you also have to realize that if she loved you as much as you seem to love her, then maybe she'd understand your comitment and know that some sacrifices have to be made and that you're doing the best you can.

On a more general note, I'm a firm believer that women need to much attention in the first place. I had a girlfriend that I lived with for about 6 months (we were together for a little over a year) and I spent almost every little bit of my free time with her and she STILL complained it wasn't enough. She hated one of my best friends and tried to keep me from hanging out with her as well. I just think women need to learn to be lower maintainance. Spending time with a woman you love is great...but so is being with your friends and just having some time by yourself.

I think you should be very comforting but still be firm and do what you know is right. There will always be time later if you decide to change your mind. Just don't lead her on. That's just straight up mean and I know you don't want to hurt her anymore than she's already hurting.

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06-16-2001, 02:53 AM	#29
84_GT350 Registered Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Overland Park, KS, USA Posts: 1,631	Ok...I feel the need to interject here. First of all...it seems pretty clear that you love this girl yet you seem to have your priorities in the right place. That's a definite plus for you. Secondly, a woman should never be your #1 priority. I know that may sound harsh, but if you turn your world upside down for a girl, what are you left with? YOU need to be your #1 priority and let her be your second. You sound very dedicated to your business and I applaude you for that. If you compromised and gave into her complaining you might screw up your future. Now all this may sound harsh and unfeeling but I assure you I know how important love is. But you also have to realize that if she loved you as much as you seem to love her, then maybe she'd understand your comitment and know that some sacrifices have to be made and that you're doing the best you can. On a more general note, I'm a firm believer that women need to much attention in the first place. I had a girlfriend that I lived with for about 6 months (we were together for a little over a year) and I spent almost every little bit of my free time with her and she STILL complained it wasn't enough. She hated one of my best friends and tried to keep me from hanging out with her as well. I just think women need to learn to be lower maintainance. Spending time with a woman you love is great...but so is being with your friends and just having some time by yourself. I think you should be very comforting but still be firm and do what you know is right. There will always be time later if you decide to change your mind. Just don't lead her on. That's just straight up mean and I know you don't want to hurt her anymore than she's already hurting. ------------------ 1984 1/2 GT350 (#842 Hatchback w/ T-tops), 302HO, Comp cams Xtreme Energy cam, Carter 625cfm carb, Weiand Stealth intake, MSD distributor, MSD coil, FMS 9mm wires, 1 5/8" MAC unequal shorties, 2 1/2" MAC Prochamber H-pipe, Flowmaster 2 chambers, KYBs, 16"x8" 4 lug Cobra Rs, Falken 245/45ZR16s