Biggest (insert 4 letter word here) ever!

[Unit 5302]

Okay here's the deal. I know a girl who's cute, sweet, and cool to be around, but you guessed it, she's got an ****** for a boyfriend. That's the easy part to guess for all the guy members on this board. She definately falls into the standard nicest girls go out with the worst guys scenerio.

I'm not joking about this guy's correct category. I'll refer to her as Jane, and him as John.

John has a kids from a previous relationship, he's about 10 years older than Jane. It's nice that he wants to be a father, but even though he's got secondary custody, Jane takes a far 2nd place with him, and they've been going out for 5 years. To give you an idea about that how far in 2nd, he showed up to give her flowers on her birthday, but didn't spend any time with her because he was going to see his kids. Now I agree on occation he's going to be spending time with his kids and unavailible, but it's her fricken birthday! It only comes around once a year, ******* !

He's a total hothead to, getting pissed over nothing and constantly making Jane feel like crap. As she continues to be with him in this relationship, it continues on it's downward spiral. When she tries to help work on cars, he'll get mad when she doesn't know something, flip out and start calling her stupid and yelling and throwing things in the garage until she's ready to cry. The only time he usually even drops by is to ask what she's making for him to eat, and to get a quickie.

But last night, he pulled the biggest bunch of **** I have ever even heard of. Get this the ******* is working on Jane's car (late 80's Ford, not a 'stang) and he breaks the plastic fuel line while the car is on the lift. :0 What a moron! Anyway, he get's super pissed off and manages to get it back to her house (not sure how) and he proceeds to ram the car up her driveway with his truck, smashing the trunk in as he goes. Then the sorry ******* spaz's out at her, yelling at her, and putting her down until she's crying and feels totally miserable!

I've been telling her that she could do better lately, but like I told her today, I don't think she could do any worse. As far as I can reason, there is no redemption possible for this guy, and that crap he just pulled has beyond proved it's time for him to get his pink slip in relations.

I've told her to check this site and topic out, and I'm hoping seeing what another 100 people think will give her the strength to give this guy the boot! What's everyone else's opinion?