Relationships.....GOD!!!!

bigwhitecobra · 04-16-2004, 09:19 PM

My girlfriend hates me. Just flat out hates me, well, she loves me, but she don't like me very much. I don't pay her enough attention, which I don't. I know it, and that's what makes it so bad.
I neglect the little things. Like buying her flaowers and taking her shopping, rubbing her back, so on and so on. I am such an a55hole.

The car gets more attention than her, not really, just waiting on that argument. Heh- heh.

Anyway, I just wanted to post that......nevermind, just got yelled at for not hanging up a coat or 2. And for not hooking up a computer, and my friends picking on me and her. It's funny. Later.

Rev · 04-16-2004, 09:43 PM

I've been married now for 35 years. Guess what? It never ends. What you must determine is if it's worth it or not? You and only you can decide that.

Rev

Crazy Horse GT · 04-16-2004, 10:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rev
I've been married now for 35 years. Guess what? It never ends. What you must determine is if it's worth it or not? You and only you can decide that.

Rev

i dont even want to talk about the g/f i had for a little while after odie passed away, i know what HELL is now, think i will stay by myself for a long while.

oh btw rev, your my v.p. in the o.b.c., not member #2. lol.

RBatson · 04-17-2004, 02:29 PM

They always seem to leave the gate alot stronger than when they cross the finish line..

mustardjohn · 04-17-2004, 04:33 PM

You are right Rev. I've been married almost 37 years and today I am in the dog house for washing the wife's car instead of digging in the flower bed with her.

The lady across the street is probably giving her husband hell cause he didn't wash HER car.

Men are form Mars and women are from Venus is probably true. But it would be hard to live without them......

Stang_Crazy · 04-17-2004, 08:17 PM

Sounds like love is in the air

MissBlondie · 04-18-2004, 02:37 PM

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Originally posted by Stang_Crazy
Sounds like love is in the air

springtime... a time of reproduction.... lol

Stang_Crazy · 04-18-2004, 04:34 PM

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Originally posted by MissBlondie
springtime... a time of reproduction.... lol

You mean the flowers right?

MissBlondie · 04-18-2004, 04:46 PM

birds bees flowers... they're all linked...

Rev · 04-18-2004, 07:49 PM

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Originally posted by MissBlondie
springtime... a time of reproduction.... lol

Oh, how some of us wish we could just skip the purpose of it all.....................and just stick with the mechanics of it............wishful thinking.

Rev

Stang_Crazy · 04-18-2004, 08:57 PM

It wouldn't be springtime without a relationship thread! Sometimes it's good to vent and get it all out.

bigwhitecobra · 04-20-2004, 09:11 PM

How is it that no matter what you do, you are ALWAYS wrong?

"What's 2 + 2?"

"Four."

"Uh..NO!!"

Women of the world, leave us alone!

mustardjohn · 04-20-2004, 09:19 PM

I think timing is probably more important than what you do. Doing almost anything at the right time is worth more than doing something really big at the wrong time. so figuring out when to do stuff is the trick. This probably requires knowing someone well which seems to also count a lot. None of this is easy, however.

tireburner163 · 04-21-2004, 09:27 AM

It's simple math......girls are evil.

jocatmust · 04-21-2004, 10:13 AM

Relationships are the most difficult thing to master. I got married last Nov. and we split in Feb. This was my first marriage and on my wedding day I was nervous, but thought this was the best for me. In December, I got mad at my husband for something I find out he did right after we got engaged. I said some things to him that I did not mean. Just say, the things I said, was to make him hurt like I felt. Anyway, I didn't realize that the very thing I said was an issue for him. I guess we didn't talk enough. If I had only knew, I would not had said that. Anyway, we met last May and married in Nov. I guess we should have gave it more time. It felt the rightest thing I have ever felt. We have been split for almost three months. The only thing in sight is divorce. I still can't believe I waited a long time to find just the qualities in a husband I was looking for. to just divorce. When I finally did, and it felt right, I jumped. We (he and I ) both said and did things to each other. It is both our faults. My husband does not want to save the marriage. He is done and that is it. I honestly thought he was the type that would follow the vows and always be there and work it out. I just wanted to always know that someone, esp. my husband would always be there for me. So I guess, Spring is not so good this year. Anyway, just a note about women to all you guys. I will agree some women are just difficult. Some women are full of hormones that make us say and do things that we normally would have not done. The only advise I can have is to understand that women are not anything like men. Our bodies are different and our hormones are too. Women are not all bad, some better than others. The bottom line is to talk to each other with an open mind and not defensive attitude about how each other is feeling. Ask each other what they want and what it is in this relationship that will make you happy. If you both don't want the same things, then for both your selves move on. For those who are married and realize this, hope is not lost, compromise and learn to like what the other does. Everything can work out if you want and try real hard. In my case, I want the marriage towork and is willing to try, he is not. I can't make him want to be with me, so I have no choice but to give it closure and move on. I hope for a brighter future and to be with someone who I know that wants to be with me, understand that I am a moody hormonal woman, and will always be there( I can count on).

J-Scratch · 04-21-2004, 03:14 PM

It never ends.
Can't live w/them, and can't live without.

IF you really love them keep trying. I've learned doing little things usually makes them happy. At least for a moment.
There will alway's be a complaint though.

Dark_5.0 · 04-21-2004, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rev
Oh, how some of us wish we could just skip the purpose of it all.....................and just stick with the mechanics of it............wishful thinking.

Rev

Now that is funny,

bigwhitecobra · 04-25-2004, 01:20 PM

Why can't women be more like cars? Something breaks and we get to fix it. Simple, easy and you even get to drink a beer or to in the process.

Then again, maybe women are like cars. Car don't care where you are when they decide to throw a fit, and you have to fix the problem right then and there.

Dang it!!!

That sucks. I thought I was on to something there. Oh well, Forget what I just said. Later.

Rev · 04-25-2004, 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bigwhitecobra
How is it that no matter what you do, you are ALWAYS wrong?

"What's 2 + 2?"

"Four."

"Uh..NO!!"

Women of the world, leave us alone!

Look at it this way. If you weren't always wrong, how could they always be right?

Rev

Topless In Texas · 04-26-2004, 02:22 AM

I know you wont agree w/ this but MEN can be as COMPLEX as us women!

and BAAAD!
Bigwhitecobra...long time no see. Im glad you hooked up w/ someone. but Man, dont let her make you miserable. you had enough of that shit.... If shes not into you, or your hobbies., and your ride, kick her to the curb. Not to sound cruel. But life is too ******* short to be unhappy. You need a woman that can TOTALLY get involved in what you are into. THAT is what makes a relationship so special. Doing things together that you are equally in love with.. IMO. Dont sell yourself short.

TNT

04-16-2004, 09:19 PM	#1
bigwhitecobra Huh? Whatcha said? Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fayetteville, NC Posts: 1,073	Relationships.....GOD!!!! My girlfriend hates me. Just flat out hates me, well, she loves me, but she don't like me very much. I don't pay her enough attention, which I don't. I know it, and that's what makes it so bad. I neglect the little things. Like buying her flaowers and taking her shopping, rubbing her back, so on and so on. I am such an a55hole. The car gets more attention than her, not really, just waiting on that argument. Heh- heh. Anyway, I just wanted to post that......nevermind, just got yelled at for not hanging up a coat or 2. And for not hooking up a computer, and my friends picking on me and her. It's funny. Later. __________________ 2003 GT White---STOLEN May you burn in hell whoever took it. Dumbazz didn't even get the good engine that was in the garage.

04-17-2004, 04:33 PM	#5
mustardjohn Registered Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Orange, TX Posts: 360	You are right Rev. I've been married almost 37 years and today I am in the dog house for washing the wife's car instead of digging in the flower bed with her. The lady across the street is probably giving her husband hell cause he didn't wash HER car. Men are form Mars and women are from Venus is probably true. But it would be hard to live without them...... __________________ 2003 3.8 Mineral Gray, MAC CAI, K&N, Chin Spoiler

04-17-2004, 08:17 PM	#6
Stang_Crazy It's never clean enough! Join Date: Jan 1999 Location: Shaler, PA Posts: 1,542	Sounds like love is in the air __________________ ~Dan 2001 SVT Lightning 89' GT : Taking up garage space and waiting for a buyer... Rice Hater's Club - Member #11

04-18-2004, 04:46 PM	#9
MissBlondie Registered Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Chicago Posts: 335	birds bees flowers... they're all linked... __________________ 2003 TrueBlue GT with a few fun things...

04-18-2004, 08:57 PM	#11
Stang_Crazy It's never clean enough! Join Date: Jan 1999 Location: Shaler, PA Posts: 1,542	It wouldn't be springtime without a relationship thread! Sometimes it's good to vent and get it all out. __________________ ~Dan 2001 SVT Lightning 89' GT : Taking up garage space and waiting for a buyer... Rice Hater's Club - Member #11

04-16-2004, 09:43 PM	#2
Rev Registered Member Join Date: Nov 1998 Location: Houston, Tx. Posts: 3,887	never ends I've been married now for 35 years. Guess what? It never ends. What you must determine is if it's worth it or not? You and only you can decide that. Rev __________________ '66 Coupe, 306, 350-375 HP, C-4, 13.07 e.t., 104.8 mph, 1/4 mi. O.B.C. #2 '66 coupe

04-17-2004, 02:29 PM	#4
RBatson Registered Member Join Date: May 1997 Posts: 3,028	They always seem to leave the gate alot stronger than when they cross the finish line..

04-20-2004, 09:11 PM	#12
bigwhitecobra Huh? Whatcha said? Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fayetteville, NC Posts: 1,073	How is it that no matter what you do, you are ALWAYS wrong? "What's 2 + 2?" "Four." "Uh..NO!!" Women of the world, leave us alone!

04-20-2004, 09:19 PM	#13
mustardjohn Registered Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Orange, TX Posts: 360	I think timing is probably more important than what you do. Doing almost anything at the right time is worth more than doing something really big at the wrong time. so figuring out when to do stuff is the trick. This probably requires knowing someone well which seems to also count a lot. None of this is easy, however. __________________ 2003 3.8 Mineral Gray, MAC CAI, K&N, Chin Spoiler

04-21-2004, 09:27 AM	#14
tireburner163 It's a lot like a race car Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Meridian, MS Posts: 4,130	It's simple math......girls are evil. __________________ 1987 Buick T-type 1998 HD Electra Elide

04-21-2004, 10:13 AM	#15
jocatmust Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 43	relationship Relationships are the most difficult thing to master. I got married last Nov. and we split in Feb. This was my first marriage and on my wedding day I was nervous, but thought this was the best for me. In December, I got mad at my husband for something I find out he did right after we got engaged. I said some things to him that I did not mean. Just say, the things I said, was to make him hurt like I felt. Anyway, I didn't realize that the very thing I said was an issue for him. I guess we didn't talk enough. If I had only knew, I would not had said that. Anyway, we met last May and married in Nov. I guess we should have gave it more time. It felt the rightest thing I have ever felt. We have been split for almost three months. The only thing in sight is divorce. I still can't believe I waited a long time to find just the qualities in a husband I was looking for. to just divorce. When I finally did, and it felt right, I jumped. We (he and I ) both said and did things to each other. It is both our faults. My husband does not want to save the marriage. He is done and that is it. I honestly thought he was the type that would follow the vows and always be there and work it out. I just wanted to always know that someone, esp. my husband would always be there for me. So I guess, Spring is not so good this year. Anyway, just a note about women to all you guys. I will agree some women are just difficult. Some women are full of hormones that make us say and do things that we normally would have not done. The only advise I can have is to understand that women are not anything like men. Our bodies are different and our hormones are too. Women are not all bad, some better than others. The bottom line is to talk to each other with an open mind and not defensive attitude about how each other is feeling. Ask each other what they want and what it is in this relationship that will make you happy. If you both don't want the same things, then for both your selves move on. For those who are married and realize this, hope is not lost, compromise and learn to like what the other does. Everything can work out if you want and try real hard. In my case, I want the marriage towork and is willing to try, he is not. I can't make him want to be with me, so I have no choice but to give it closure and move on. I hope for a brighter future and to be with someone who I know that wants to be with me, understand that I am a moody hormonal woman, and will always be there( I can count on). __________________ Life was beautiful one minute in time and then evil came and took it away

04-21-2004, 03:14 PM	#16
J-Scratch Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: San Jo Cali. Posts: 8	It never ends. Can't live w/them, and can't live without. IF you really love them keep trying. I've learned doing little things usually makes them happy. At least for a moment. There will alway's be a complaint though. __________________ Choke on that slapnuts.

04-25-2004, 01:20 PM	#18
bigwhitecobra Huh? Whatcha said? Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fayetteville, NC Posts: 1,073	Why can't women be more like cars? Something breaks and we get to fix it. Simple, easy and you even get to drink a beer or to in the process. Then again, maybe women are like cars. Car don't care where you are when they decide to throw a fit, and you have to fix the problem right then and there. Dang it!!! That sucks. I thought I was on to something there. Oh well, Forget what I just said. Later.

04-26-2004, 02:22 AM	#20
Topless In Texas Not broken anymore! Join Date: May 2001 Location: La Porte, TEXASS :) Posts: 1,963	:) I know you wont agree w/ this but MEN can be as COMPLEX as us women! and BAAAD! Bigwhitecobra...long time no see. Im glad you hooked up w/ someone. but Man, dont let her make you miserable. you had enough of that shit.... If shes not into you, or your hobbies., and your ride, kick her to the curb. Not to sound cruel. But life is too ******* short to be unhappy. You need a woman that can TOTALLY get involved in what you are into. THAT is what makes a relationship so special. Doing things together that you are equally in love with.. IMO. Dont sell yourself short. TNT __________________ R.I.P. my Kinde..Jan. 19,1992-Aug. 22, 2003. Shes Cruisin' doggie heaven in a Blown Verte or a GTO!!! 2005 ROUSH GT Verte SuperStallions of the Net Feature, May 2002 RICE HATERS CLUB MEMBER #38!! O.B.C #5..thank you!! I feel so priveledged!! BONE STOCK~ Hell, its a ROUSH!

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