Why do most Guys Cheat? - Page 3

6T9PONY · 08-11-2002, 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rev
include sexual intercourse of some type

Bingo. In my personal opinion, anyways....

Rev · 08-11-2002, 08:39 PM

So if one just does a little smooching and rubbing up against another person, then that is not actually cheating? Or are there just different degrees of cheating?

Rev

The Deuce · 08-11-2002, 08:42 PM

There are a couple of easy explanations that have been missed so far.

1. Guys cheat beause they can. It's really a conquest thing, just like racing.

2. Girls are much easier to talk to, and seem to like us more if we are taken. For some reason, females seem to let their guard down when there is a girlfriend involved, and then number one comes back into play.

Personally, I don't cheat. It's friggen hard enough to get ONE chick to spend time with me, much less play another one on the side. I'm sorry that happens to you, but dating in your teens is as much about learning who you are as it is falling in love.

Take it easy,
Mike

PS. Shelby428cj - You wanna piece of me?

1969Mach1 · 08-11-2002, 09:00 PM

Well I never had time to read the whole thread but I will get to it. I can only say, not all guys are like this. I had a g/f which I believed she was on her way of cheating, I will find the link to the thread I created and one was involving cheating and one involving the situation I was in. I know it's one of the worst feelings, but for every guy that cheats there is a girl that cheats. It's done by both sexes. Why they do it, I will never figure out. I'd rather be told the relationship is over then find out the hard way. Love sucks but it's the best system we got to fill our empty hearts and our hormones (guys know what I mean).

But don't worry, life will go on, you will learn to love again. I know I'm finding a whole new world I forgot and missed. I still miss my ex (since we've only been broken up for 3 weeks) but every girl I talk to and seem to find something in them I like that my ex didn't have any makes me wonder what it will feel like when I find the girl that holds all the features I look all in one. Guess this is love and it's journey and as it's a long path, I got a '69 Mach 1 with a 351 to make it fast cause every chick loves the car.

§am.

Shelby428cj · 08-11-2002, 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by The Deuce
There are a couple of easy explanations that have been missed so far.

1. Guys cheat beause they can. It's really a conquest thing, just like racing.

2. Girls are much easier to talk to, and seem to like us more if we are taken. For some reason, females seem to let their guard down when there is a girlfriend involved, and then number one comes back into play.

Personally, I don't cheat. It's friggen hard enough to get ONE chick to spend time with me, much less play another one on the side. I'm sorry that happens to you, but dating in your teens is as much about learning who you are as it is falling in love.

Take it easy,
Mike

PS. Shelby428cj - You wanna piece of me?

LOL is that an offer

???

The Deuce · 08-11-2002, 11:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Shelby428cj

LOL is that an offer ???

..........and you know this.

84LX89GT · 08-11-2002, 11:30 PM

Why do most guys cheat?

Well.....i don't think most guys cheat, i think the guys you're attracted to cheat. The qualities you may find attractive in a guy may unfortunately be tied with guys who have different ideals, beliefs, and values than you do.
If you try and go out with guys you may be attracted to in a different way, they may be different than the guys you're been with.
Maybe there is something they all had in common that you may have been attracted to that is a warning sign about them.....you never know.
Then again you may just be unlucky. I know i'm attracted to lots of different women, but i can usually pick out which ones MAY be more prone to cheating.
I may just be talking out of my @ss, but this is what i think

PKRWUD · 08-12-2002, 12:15 AM

There was a study they were talking about on the radio a couple weeks ago that said, among other things, that 84% of all people will have cheated on a significant other at least one time in their life.

Deal with it.

Take care,
~Chris

Shelby428cj · 08-12-2002, 12:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PKRWUD
There was a study they were talking about on the radio a couple weeks ago that said, among other things, that 84% of all people will have cheated on a significant other at least one time in their life.

Deal with it.

Take care,
~Chris

PKRWUD you are a cheater aren't you??!!?? WOW 84 percent that is just sad... If I don't like someone or I think I might like someone better I say HIT THE ROAD! I mean how hard is it to break up with someone and then go for some else sheeessshhh

PKRWUD · 08-12-2002, 12:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Shelby428cj

PKRWUD you are a cheater aren't you??!!??

As a matter of fact, no, I'm not. I have once before, but that was when I was in my 20's. I have found that life is so much simpler without the shackles of a commitment. If I'm not committed, I'm not cheating.

Take care,
~Chris

induction · 08-12-2002, 12:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Shelby428cj

I mean how hard is it to break up with someone and then go for some else sheeessshhh

Sometimes it's very hard. Hey have you ever had to break up with a psycho?

Shelby428cj · 08-12-2002, 01:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by induction

Sometimes it's very hard. Hey have you ever had to break up with a psycho?

No thankgoodness, I know it is hard to break up with someone, but a lot of the time people cheat and they have only been dating someone for a few months! I could easily dump someone if we weren't go out for very long!

induction · 08-12-2002, 01:11 AM

LOL ok I agree its easy when it's new, but hey sometimes cheating happens simply due to lack of interest, Hey when was the last time you bought somthing you really wanted only to find out that either it's not what you really wanted after all or the novilty of it wore off as soon as ya got it home ?

devilman · 08-12-2002, 01:15 AM

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Originally posted by Jessica
Thx guys, I need to get out more, maybe go to the track, or the arcade, some place guys go, only problem is that my past bfs were rice boys and they were always dissing my car and I don't like that i want a guy thats into muscle cars!

that is your problem right there, all those little rice boys don't know a good thing we then see one, and besides they were just jealous cause your car is faster, and looks better.

and not all guys are bad, there are some that make us good ones look bad. some guys think with their head, and other guys think with their head (not the one on the shoulders)

you'll find the right one eventually, good luck with the boy hunt.

PKRWUD · 08-12-2002, 01:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by induction
LOL ok I agree its easy when it's new, but hey sometimes cheating happens simply due to lack of interest, Hey when was the last time you bought somthing you really wanted only to find out that either it's not what you really wanted after all or the novilty of it wore off as soon as ya got it home ?

Well put.

Take care,
~Chris

induction · 08-12-2002, 01:39 AM

just keep it simple

PKRWUD · 08-12-2002, 01:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by induction
just keep it simple

Yeah, lol. Too bad it took me so long to figure that out!

Take care,
~Chris

induction · 08-12-2002, 02:01 AM

induction · 08-12-2002, 02:01 AM

Blow me up Tom!!!!!!

PKRWUD · 08-12-2002, 02:11 AM

That guy's got some serious issues, but he's usually right. LOL.

Take care,
~Chris

08-11-2002, 08:39 PM	#42
Rev Registered Member Join Date: Nov 1998 Location: Houston, Tx. Posts: 3,887	Smooching? So if one just does a little smooching and rubbing up against another person, then that is not actually cheating? Or are there just different degrees of cheating? Rev __________________ '66 Coupe, 306, 350-375 HP, C-4, 13.07 e.t., 104.8 mph, 1/4 mi. O.B.C. #2 '66 coupe

08-11-2002, 08:42 PM	#43
The Deuce Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 2,325	There are a couple of easy explanations that have been missed so far. 1. Guys cheat beause they can. It's really a conquest thing, just like racing. 2. Girls are much easier to talk to, and seem to like us more if we are taken. For some reason, females seem to let their guard down when there is a girlfriend involved, and then number one comes back into play. Personally, I don't cheat. It's friggen hard enough to get ONE chick to spend time with me, much less play another one on the side. I'm sorry that happens to you, but dating in your teens is as much about learning who you are as it is falling in love. Take it easy, Mike PS. Shelby428cj - You wanna piece of me? __________________ 1997 Mustang GT "The Freak" - 13.80 @ 101.70, 2.07 60' 1995 Honda VFR750 - not much @ really fast (actual data pending.) 1964.5 Mustang 289 Rice Haters Club Member #13

08-11-2002, 09:00 PM	#44
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Well I never had time to read the whole thread but I will get to it. I can only say, not all guys are like this. I had a g/f which I believed she was on her way of cheating, I will find the link to the thread I created and one was involving cheating and one involving the situation I was in. I know it's one of the worst feelings, but for every guy that cheats there is a girl that cheats. It's done by both sexes. Why they do it, I will never figure out. I'd rather be told the relationship is over then find out the hard way. Love sucks but it's the best system we got to fill our empty hearts and our hormones (guys know what I mean). But don't worry, life will go on, you will learn to love again. I know I'm finding a whole new world I forgot and missed. I still miss my ex (since we've only been broken up for 3 weeks) but every girl I talk to and seem to find something in them I like that my ex didn't have any makes me wonder what it will feel like when I find the girl that holds all the features I look all in one. Guess this is love and it's journey and as it's a long path, I got a '69 Mach 1 with a 351 to make it fast cause every chick loves the car. §am. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

08-11-2002, 11:30 PM	#47
84LX89GT Mustangs Join Date: Jul 2000 Posts: 1,938	Why do most guys cheat? Well.....i don't think most guys cheat, i think the guys you're attracted to cheat. The qualities you may find attractive in a guy may unfortunately be tied with guys who have different ideals, beliefs, and values than you do. If you try and go out with guys you may be attracted to in a different way, they may be different than the guys you're been with. Maybe there is something they all had in common that you may have been attracted to that is a warning sign about them.....you never know. Then again you may just be unlucky. I know i'm attracted to lots of different women, but i can usually pick out which ones MAY be more prone to cheating. I may just be talking out of my @ss, but this is what i think __________________ 2005 Suzuki Hayabusa GSX1300-R 1980 Ford Thunderbird - 255 V8 ported heads, 5.0L ported stock headers, O.R. H-pipe and Flowmaster 2-chambers, dual roller timing chain hi-po Mack Truck hood emblem 1985 Mustang GT 5.0L T5, F-303, GT40p, headers, off-road h, flowmasters, MSD stuff, etc. Sold 02/06/04 1989 Mustang GT ET: 13.304@102.29 mph (5-24-03) Sold - 1998 Mustang Cobra coupe, 1/4 mile - street tires: 13.843@103.41 (bone stock)

08-12-2002, 12:15 AM	#48
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	There was a study they were talking about on the radio a couple weeks ago that said, among other things, that 84% of all people will have cheated on a significant other at least one time in their life. Deal with it. Take care, ~Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

08-12-2002, 01:11 AM	#53
induction The Brit! Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Across the Pond! Posts: 694	LOL ok I agree its easy when it's new, but hey sometimes cheating happens simply due to lack of interest, Hey when was the last time you bought somthing you really wanted only to find out that either it's not what you really wanted after all or the novilty of it wore off as soon as ya got it home ? __________________ *Restored 1965 Coupe* *April Mare of the Month* RiceHatersClub Member #27

08-12-2002, 01:39 AM	#56
induction The Brit! Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Across the Pond! Posts: 694	just keep it simple __________________ *Restored 1965 Coupe* *April Mare of the Month* RiceHatersClub Member #27

08-12-2002, 02:01 AM	#58
induction The Brit! Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Across the Pond! Posts: 694	97.1 __________________ *Restored 1965 Coupe* *April Mare of the Month* RiceHatersClub Member #27

08-12-2002, 02:01 AM	#59
induction The Brit! Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Across the Pond! Posts: 694	Blow me up Tom!!!!!! __________________ *Restored 1965 Coupe* *April Mare of the Month* RiceHatersClub Member #27

08-12-2002, 02:11 AM	#60
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	That guy's got some serious issues, but he's usually right. LOL. Take care, ~Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

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