I seem to be single again....

TXinPA · 11-24-2001, 09:41 PM

I'm still not sure what to think. This kindof came as a suprise, and well, kinda not. My fiance, or ex fiance now, and I got into an arguement last night. I can't give you all the details, but it was bad. Today we went out to luch after he got off work. He told me he didn't think it was going to work out because there were some things about me he couldn't handle. And to tell ya the truth, there are some things about him that I don't like, and it looks like it's going to keep us from getting married.

I'm sad about it, but it's for the best I think. Iam scared now because I live here with him and I have to find a place to live. That is going to be hard to do because I travel alot. The next two weeks I'm going to be in Mass. a little south of Boston. I guess he'll be glad I'm not here to put up with.

I suppose he thinks I don't have enough problems as it is. Now I'm practically homeless.

srv1 · 11-24-2001, 09:58 PM

it could have been worse. you could of went down the isle and said "I DO" and then you would have to get a divorce costin $$. now your broken hearted and homeless. im sorry to hear that. but you can start all over, and do what YOU wanted to do. look at it as an eye opener.
is there any chance of you 2 getting back together? is it the little things that is stopping it? maybe you 2 should talk it out. maybe you wont be homeless. hope everything works out for you.

Unit 5302 · 11-24-2001, 10:15 PM

Hey Michelle, I hate to see... wait. I'm sorry, but no I don't. That guy was not IMHO treating you right. It's his loss. It may be a little scary to find somewhere new to call home, but it's all for the best I think.

There are guys out there that will treat you better, and that will make you wonder how you ever got by without them. Yeah, yeah, it's all a bunch of words right? That's what I thought. Not any more. She may not be with me now, but I know the whole story is true.

I hear the southeastern coastal states are nice this time of year.

Good luck on whatever you choose, and keep your head up.

TXinPA · 11-24-2001, 10:23 PM

Yes, it could be worse. He said he'd at least help me find a place to live. And it is a good thing we didn't get marred yet. I found out he was fixing everything so that if we were married and got divorced I would get NOTHING. even if we baught a house after we were married, he said I wouldn't get any part of it because it would be baught with HIS money. And, ummm I don't go for that!

Well, there lots of you guys out there, and I luv ya all!!!

I have my eye on one in perticular.... I hope he can see that with his two beady little eyes.......

Unit 5302 · 11-24-2001, 10:36 PM

Well gosh, I don't know what to say???!!! LOL, j/k

I'll slap him if he's sleepin on this one.

Hethj7 · 11-25-2001, 12:00 AM

Man, sorry to hear that, but as said before, at least you didn't go down the isle. Good luck searching for a new place and all.

What is the deal with relationships lately? It seems like everyone is having problems that I know. That is what I don't miss about dating.....the problems that usually come with it. I meet new people everyday and evenutally it will work out for me, but until that day I am making the best of my single life.

TXinPA · 11-25-2001, 12:06 AM

I know what the deal with relationships is...

Nobody wants to buy their sweetie something for Christmas!

Freakin cheeepo's.

Hahahahaaaa, Unit! Better go ahead and slap him to make sure he's awake!

1969Mach1 · 11-25-2001, 12:27 AM

Sorry to here that, but it seems like you came out the best in a bad situation. It could of been worse TXinPA said. You could of had kids even then relised or he could of found someone and cheated on you. This way is the best, there is no sense to try to make a relationship that isn't going to work, work. Sorry to hear about you being homeless, don't worry there are lots of nice guys out there (lots on this board too) You'll be fine things always turn out for the best.

Crazy Horse GT · 11-25-2001, 12:28 AM

TXinPA sorry to here that it seems like everyones realtionships are going down the drain lately geez i dont know what to say ,except at least you didnt marry him, i mean if he was busting you on the house there aint no telling what else he was hideing from you, im am blessed that i have a great ladie for a wife, even though i have been told to lose her because she is disabled -hell no i wasnt raised that way,i will stand by her till the day i die, i just dont understand why everybody has to try & get over on the one they are supposed to love, well the best of luck to you, from marty & lee-aka odie, take care of yourself.

TXinPA · 11-25-2001, 01:15 AM

Thanks everyone!!!!

Wish me luck, I'm going to go looking for a "rats nest" to move into tomorrow. eeep eeeep

I'm going to try to move to delaware, anyone know of any dirt cheeeeep houses there???

Godslayer · 11-25-2001, 01:42 AM

my relationship is going great... I always knew I somehow wasn't very trendy.

Bob

Unit 5302 · 11-25-2001, 01:51 AM

Deleware is a little out of my way, I'm afraid. Like what 1300mi or so? Hehe.

Probably find you a place here in Minnesota, but that's the opposite direction from where you're trying to head I think.

69fastback · 11-25-2001, 03:32 AM

I am gald u finally got rid of that guy. Don't worry about it u will be fine. I hated that dude just by the things u said on here. He really pissed me off. Well good luck with ur new adventurs in life. there are tons of good men no reason to deal with crap. Hey take care.

mustangman65_79 · 11-25-2001, 03:59 AM

Well, I'm sorry to hear about this. I know nothing about u and him, but it looks like u have plenty of suporters that are behind u all the way. And for the little time I've been on here, they seem trustworthy, so, I will behind u too and I hope everything works out for u.

TXinPA · 11-25-2001, 10:51 AM

Hey Unit, take a road trip and visit me sometime!!!

Or who knows as much travelling as I do, I may eventually be in your direction!

You guys are my hero's!

TXinPA · 11-25-2001, 03:10 PM

Just got back from looking for a house. everything I saw that was within my price range is either a dump or in a trashy neighborhood. Why Meeee???

Unit 5302 · 11-25-2001, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TXinPA
Just got back from looking for a house. everything I saw that was within my price range is either a dump or in a trashy neighborhood. Why Meeee???

I find that to be... unacceptable. You always have to make choices and sacrifice one thing for another. I wish it wasn't that way, hehe, I have way more wants than I have the ability to obtain.

As far as Eastern US roadtrips, I've had very bad luck making those happen. I'm 0 for 3 attempts right now. LOL.

TXinPA · 11-26-2001, 10:22 PM

Awww, I know. I can't afford to be too picky. i just don't want to see my neighbors on Americas Most Wanted!!!

Blue88 · 11-28-2001, 12:07 PM

I don't know about eastern and western PA, but central PA is cheap. Are you looking for a house to rent or to own?

TXinPA · 11-28-2001, 08:06 PM

I live in Delawareee county near Philadelphia. I want to find a house to buy. Know of anything CHEEEEP?

11-24-2001, 09:41 PM	#1
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	I seem to be single again.... I'm still not sure what to think. This kindof came as a suprise, and well, kinda not. My fiance, or ex fiance now, and I got into an arguement last night. I can't give you all the details, but it was bad. Today we went out to luch after he got off work. He told me he didn't think it was going to work out because there were some things about me he couldn't handle. And to tell ya the truth, there are some things about him that I don't like, and it looks like it's going to keep us from getting married. I'm sad about it, but it's for the best I think. Iam scared now because I live here with him and I have to find a place to live. That is going to be hard to do because I travel alot. The next two weeks I'm going to be in Mass. a little south of Boston. I guess he'll be glad I'm not here to put up with. I suppose he thinks I don't have enough problems as it is. Now I'm practically homeless. __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-24-2001, 09:58 PM	#2
srv1 Get down..... Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Room 103 Posts: 2,095	think of it this way... it could have been worse. you could of went down the isle and said "I DO" and then you would have to get a divorce costin $$. now your broken hearted and homeless. im sorry to hear that. but you can start all over, and do what YOU wanted to do. look at it as an eye opener. is there any chance of you 2 getting back together? is it the little things that is stopping it? maybe you 2 should talk it out. maybe you wont be homeless. hope everything works out for you. __________________ Cobra brakes are on! Finally..... ------------------------------------------------

11-24-2001, 10:23 PM	#4
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	Yes, it could be worse. He said he'd at least help me find a place to live. And it is a good thing we didn't get marred yet. I found out he was fixing everything so that if we were married and got divorced I would get NOTHING. even if we baught a house after we were married, he said I wouldn't get any part of it because it would be baught with HIS money. And, ummm I don't go for that! Well, there lots of you guys out there, and I luv ya all!!! I have my eye on one in perticular.... I hope he can see that with his two beady little eyes....... __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-25-2001, 12:00 AM	#6
Hethj7 Mizzou Tigers Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: weston, MO United States Posts: 1,455	Man, sorry to hear that, but as said before, at least you didn't go down the isle. Good luck searching for a new place and all. What is the deal with relationships lately? It seems like everyone is having problems that I know. That is what I don't miss about dating.....the problems that usually come with it. I meet new people everyday and evenutally it will work out for me, but until that day I am making the best of my single life. __________________ 2006 Mustang GT 1990 LX GT-40 motor 262 horsepower, 307ft-lbs (sold but forever loved) 1998 Contour SVT Rice Haters Club Member #244

11-25-2001, 12:06 AM	#7
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	I know what the deal with relationships is... Nobody wants to buy their sweetie something for Christmas! Freakin cheeepo's. Hahahahaaaa, Unit! Better go ahead and slap him to make sure he's awake! __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-24-2001, 10:15 PM	#3
Unit 5302 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Posts: 5,246	Hey Michelle, I hate to see... wait. I'm sorry, but no I don't. That guy was not IMHO treating you right. It's his loss. It may be a little scary to find somewhere new to call home, but it's all for the best I think. There are guys out there that will treat you better, and that will make you wonder how you ever got by without them. Yeah, yeah, it's all a bunch of words right? That's what I thought. Not any more. She may not be with me now, but I know the whole story is true. I hear the southeastern coastal states are nice this time of year. Good luck on whatever you choose, and keep your head up.

11-24-2001, 10:36 PM	#5
Unit 5302 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Posts: 5,246	Well gosh, I don't know what to say???!!! LOL, j/k I'll slap him if he's sleepin on this one.

11-25-2001, 12:27 AM	#8
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Sorry to here that, but it seems like you came out the best in a bad situation. It could of been worse TXinPA said. You could of had kids even then relised or he could of found someone and cheated on you. This way is the best, there is no sense to try to make a relationship that isn't going to work, work. Sorry to hear about you being homeless, don't worry there are lots of nice guys out there (lots on this board too) You'll be fine things always turn out for the best. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

11-25-2001, 12:28 AM	#9
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	TXinPA sorry to here that it seems like everyones realtionships are going down the drain lately geez i dont know what to say ,except at least you didnt marry him, i mean if he was busting you on the house there aint no telling what else he was hideing from you, im am blessed that i have a great ladie for a wife, even though i have been told to lose her because she is disabled -hell no i wasnt raised that way,i will stand by her till the day i die, i just dont understand why everybody has to try & get over on the one they are supposed to love, well the best of luck to you, from marty & lee-aka odie, take care of yourself. __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

11-25-2001, 01:15 AM	#10
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	Thanks everyone!!!! Wish me luck, I'm going to go looking for a "rats nest" to move into tomorrow. eeep eeeep I'm going to try to move to delaware, anyone know of any dirt cheeeeep houses there??? __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-25-2001, 01:42 AM	#11
Godslayer Registered Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Largo, FL USA Posts: 274	my relationship is going great... I always knew I somehow wasn't very trendy. Bob __________________ Negative Mustang @ present time.

11-25-2001, 01:51 AM	#12
Unit 5302 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Posts: 5,246	Deleware is a little out of my way, I'm afraid. Like what 1300mi or so? Hehe. Probably find you a place here in Minnesota, but that's the opposite direction from where you're trying to head I think.

11-25-2001, 03:32 AM	#13
69fastback IRAQ VET Join Date: Feb 2000 Location: high desert California Posts: 1,480	I am gald u finally got rid of that guy. Don't worry about it u will be fine. I hated that dude just by the things u said on here. He really pissed me off. Well good luck with ur new adventurs in life. there are tons of good men no reason to deal with crap. Hey take care. __________________ 428 Cobra Jet SOHC 5.4 3V F-150 96 mystic cobra 91 GT

11-25-2001, 03:59 AM	#14
mustangman65_79 My poor 79 RIP Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Suisun City, Posts: 2,320	Well, I'm sorry to hear about this. I know nothing about u and him, but it looks like u have plenty of suporters that are behind u all the way. And for the little time I've been on here, they seem trustworthy, so, I will behind u too and I hope everything works out for u. __________________ '84 mustang GT turbo '85 LTD '89 Camaro Irocz z28 '94 Lightning '96 Trans am

11-25-2001, 10:51 AM	#15
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	Hey Unit, take a road trip and visit me sometime!!! Or who knows as much travelling as I do, I may eventually be in your direction! You guys are my hero's! __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-25-2001, 03:10 PM	#16
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	Just got back from looking for a house. everything I saw that was within my price range is either a dump or in a trashy neighborhood. Why Meeee??? __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-26-2001, 10:22 PM	#18
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	Awww, I know. I can't afford to be too picky. i just don't want to see my neighbors on Americas Most Wanted!!! __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

11-28-2001, 12:07 PM	#19
Blue88 Registered Member Join Date: Jun 1999 Location: Harrisburg, PA Posts: 59	What part of PA are you in? I don't know about eastern and western PA, but central PA is cheap. Are you looking for a house to rent or to own? __________________ 88 LX 2.3 Convertible (slowly dying) 88 LX 5.0 Hatch ("gears & exhaust") Wrecked 89 LX 5.0 (organ donor)

11-28-2001, 08:06 PM	#20
TXinPA Registered Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 120	I live in Delawareee county near Philadelphia. I want to find a house to buy. Know of anything CHEEEEP? __________________ 1985 Mustang GT 5.0 5spd-light regatta blue 1985 Mustang 4cyl auto- jalapeno red 1993 Miata- White w/black

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