Sometimes its hard to know what to do

stng87 · 07-27-2002, 02:30 AM

Wow, I dont really know what I did wrong to deserve all this recent bad luck. It all seemed to start the morning of june 14th when it came to my knowledge that the night before my mom died who was only 49. I was the last one to hear or talk to her. Two days later i ended up getting let go from my job as a bouncer in Aneheim after I got into a fight with another bouncer. It wouldnt have been so bad but I just couldnt seem to go light on him. He spent the night in the ER, and I had to have surgery on my fists the next day.
After getting back from the other side of the country for my mom's funeral services (ton of money), I had some luck and got another bouncing job close to my appt. But 2 days later I lost that one because it was a slow Sunday and everyone decited to get me drunk as an initiation they said, but the next day word got out about it and they all basically decited to let me take the fall. That night, my aunt called and told me that my grandmother on my moms side died.
The next day my college baseball coach told me that he wanted to keep me only for pitching, which i dont want. So I have to start all over somewhere else, probably closer to L.A.,after a year of sacrafices here for this team. And Damnn, thats the only reason Im here anyway, for baseball.
And now I am going to have to sleep in the stang statring next month because I cant get on the lease with a friend because i was in an appt. with 4 other guys that got evicted last spring. It doesnt matter that I had excellent rental history before the last place, they just look at the bad. So i dont really know what the he11 to do except to just keep going. I could live with my GF but you know how that is, i just would rather not. Id rather make my one way ya know.
But I do still have my health, a good GF, the stang, my goals and some hope left so thats good but damnn is life ever testing me.
And i need new o2 sensors

PKRWUD · 07-27-2002, 02:52 AM

Well, now I feel better about my luck.

Sorry. No disrespect intended. Can't you move in with your buddy and just not be on the lease? if not, do you have another relative that could co-sign the lease with you? That might work.

As far as losing your job(s), there are others out there, and you know it. You'll be okay. Places are always looking for a good bouncer. So are private dancers and escort agencies.

As far as losing your Mom, I don't know what to say. My Mom is the only family I have, and when she dies, I know I'm going to completely lose it. I support myself, and live 3000 miles away from her, but I guess in my heart I'm still a "mama's boy". I love her more than anyone or anything in the world. I would do anything she asked of me, but she never asks. I can't even imagine losing her, although I know I'm going to have to deal with it before too long. All I can say is I am genuinely sorry for your loss, and I wish you nothing but the best.

Hang in there. Actually, take a drive out to Vegas or Laughlin. Your luck can only get better.

Take care,
~Chris

stng87 · 07-27-2002, 02:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PKRWUD
Well, now I feel better about my luck.

Can't you move in with your buddy and just not be on the lease?

Well the thing with that is his parents already went and asked the agency if that would be ok (dont ask me why) and of course the answer was no. wow didnt expect that one. So they would now expect that.

PKRWUD · 07-27-2002, 03:07 AM

Maybe his parents had lousy credit. LOL. I don't know. It couldn't hurt to try.

Take care,
~Chris

Kamaro Killer · 07-29-2002, 02:30 PM

what are they going to do, kick someone out who is paying them money on time? If your friend already has the appt. secured in his name, then the rental company has no say in it. I'm only 21 and have had to deal with a**hole managers since 17. My roommate is 30, and has great credit. We put the appt. in his name, and I paid the rent for my half. The manager soon realized what was going on, but by that time, I had already paid 3 months of rent on time. I think your friend might be making excuses for some reason. Your luck will change, just hang in there. PS: you may want to take better care of those hands if you are pitching,

Take care, Keith

07-27-2002, 02:30 AM	#1
stng87 Registered Member Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: southern california Posts: 329	Sometimes its hard to know what to do Wow, I dont really know what I did wrong to deserve all this recent bad luck. It all seemed to start the morning of june 14th when it came to my knowledge that the night before my mom died who was only 49. I was the last one to hear or talk to her. Two days later i ended up getting let go from my job as a bouncer in Aneheim after I got into a fight with another bouncer. It wouldnt have been so bad but I just couldnt seem to go light on him. He spent the night in the ER, and I had to have surgery on my fists the next day. After getting back from the other side of the country for my mom's funeral services (ton of money), I had some luck and got another bouncing job close to my appt. But 2 days later I lost that one because it was a slow Sunday and everyone decited to get me drunk as an initiation they said, but the next day word got out about it and they all basically decited to let me take the fall. That night, my aunt called and told me that my grandmother on my moms side died. The next day my college baseball coach told me that he wanted to keep me only for pitching, which i dont want. So I have to start all over somewhere else, probably closer to L.A.,after a year of sacrafices here for this team. And Damnn, thats the only reason Im here anyway, for baseball. And now I am going to have to sleep in the stang statring next month because I cant get on the lease with a friend because i was in an appt. with 4 other guys that got evicted last spring. It doesnt matter that I had excellent rental history before the last place, they just look at the bad. So i dont really know what the he11 to do except to just keep going. I could live with my GF but you know how that is, i just would rather not. Id rather make my one way ya know. But I do still have my health, a good GF, the stang, my goals and some hope left so thats good but damnn is life ever testing me. And i need new o2 sensors __________________ 1987 black with t-tops. Cobra intake, 1.7 cobra crane rollers, gt40p's, bbk shorties, off road h-pipe, Holley adj. fuel pressure regulator, Tremec t-5z, 65mm TB, 4.10's, adj cable, 155lph fuel pump, Ram clutch kit, 3 row motorsport radiator, Chrome cobras17x9 front, 17x10.5 rear, Hurst shifter,Former AOD Semper Fi Last edited by stng87; 07-27-2002 at 02:45 AM..

07-27-2002, 02:52 AM	#2
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Well, now I feel better about my luck. Sorry. No disrespect intended. Can't you move in with your buddy and just not be on the lease? if not, do you have another relative that could co-sign the lease with you? That might work. As far as losing your job(s), there are others out there, and you know it. You'll be okay. Places are always looking for a good bouncer. So are private dancers and escort agencies. As far as losing your Mom, I don't know what to say. My Mom is the only family I have, and when she dies, I know I'm going to completely lose it. I support myself, and live 3000 miles away from her, but I guess in my heart I'm still a "mama's boy". I love her more than anyone or anything in the world. I would do anything she asked of me, but she never asks. I can't even imagine losing her, although I know I'm going to have to deal with it before too long. All I can say is I am genuinely sorry for your loss, and I wish you nothing but the best. Hang in there. Actually, take a drive out to Vegas or Laughlin. Your luck can only get better. Take care, ~Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-27-2002, 03:07 AM	#4
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Maybe his parents had lousy credit. LOL. I don't know. It couldn't hurt to try. Take care, ~Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-29-2002, 02:30 PM	#5
Kamaro Killer Mustang Enthusiast Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 528	just move in.. what are they going to do, kick someone out who is paying them money on time? If your friend already has the appt. secured in his name, then the rental company has no say in it. I'm only 21 and have had to deal with a**hole managers since 17. My roommate is 30, and has great credit. We put the appt. in his name, and I paid the rent for my half. The manager soon realized what was going on, but by that time, I had already paid 3 months of rent on time. I think your friend might be making excuses for some reason. Your luck will change, just hang in there. PS: you may want to take better care of those hands if you are pitching, Take care, Keith __________________ 1993 GT 5.0-My Stang Rice Hater's Club Member 22

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