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Originally posted by jj_jonathon
so being homosexual IS a formed preference, not one born into....
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so you are saying that you
choose to be heterosexual but if you wanted to, you could also
choose to be homosexual? thats not right, and if you think about it you know it. your attraction to women is instinctual.....you dont have a choice in what turns you on and what doesnt turn you on. no matter how hard you tried, if youre a true heterosexual there is nothing that could make you choose to prefer men.
most all of us have things that excite us. we get turned on not because we choose to, but because of things within us that we dont control.
my fetish is abs. i find a woman with chisled abs to be totally irresistable. she can be dog butt ugly everywhere else, if she has defined abdominal muscles she is totally irresistable to me. i dont choose to be turned on by a woman's abdominal muscles. its not a choice im making, its just the way it is. with you it may be breasts, or butt, or legs.....it might be red hair, it might even be her feet.
some people get turned on by members of the same sex. they are born that way.
besides, my personal example defeats your theory. my brother and i were raised side by side under an identical environment. we had the same parents, the same house, the same rules, the same bedroom. we spent the same time with both parents. we both camped, we both cleaned house. hes gay, im straight. explain the difference. you cant. i knew he was gay before i knew what being gay meant. he was born that way and none of you will convince me otherwise when i have an entire childhood with him by which to judge.