why is it...

joe4speed · 07-04-2002, 02:17 AM

Why is it that women seem to get over guys much faster than guys get over women???

mustangII460 · 07-04-2002, 02:26 AM

Here it is.......

Its like when we go fishing, we catch one lousy fish. But we seem to think its the best, bigest, most overwhelming fish that we have seen in days,weeks maybe years. We even lie about it to our friends.

Women catch a fish,,,,,,,, its just a dam fish... They can throw the bastard back in the water without a second thought.

And........Theres always "More fish in the sea" Yeah....well NO THANKS.

Thats all I have to say about that.

PKRWUD · 07-04-2002, 02:29 AM

Joe, think about that for a second. We both know that isn't always true.

I feel for you, REALLY, but like I said, that isn't always true.

Take care,
-Chris

BTW, didn't hear a word tonight.

Crazy Horse GT · 07-04-2002, 02:33 AM

well i shouldnt say this but they got it, we want it, get sam kineson's last comedy cd, he explains it perfectly, cya.

Topless In Texas · 07-04-2002, 04:33 AM

Joe,
thats not always the case....Guess it depends on the person in general. It depends on what is in your heart and soul, and how deep it is. Some are just destined to have life made alittle more difficult than others. And thats where we fall into...The HARD LUCK CLUB.... I know one day things will work out for you. I hope deep down they do one day! She is a FOOL to do anything but!!!!! And, I truly believe that one day she will come to her senses! My best wishes go out to you that someday things will work out for you!
Marty: I LOVE SAM KINNESON!!!!!! (sp?) I've got lots of old videos from when he played 'Dangerfields' Club. HE WAS the man....a life lost too soon!!!!!!! I'll never forget when I had my wisdom teeth pulled,(2 were impacted!) and was on percodain watching him!! He was unique! ONE of a kind! But, I was wasted on pain killers.......he was a funny guy!

Crazy Horse GT · 07-04-2002, 05:26 AM

tnt i loved sam, not that way, hahaha, he was a great comedian, taken away too early, i miss him , he was one of my favorites. may he rip.

cya. marty.

PKRWUD · 07-04-2002, 05:36 AM

I saw Sam open up for Motley Crue on the Dr. Feelgood tour. The man was incredible.

Take care,
-Chris

1969Mach1 · 07-04-2002, 07:17 AM

Can't say your always right but I do agree that most of the time it's the guy that is more hurt then the woman. I find alot more woman care less if the relationship ends. Seems like woman are ready to go out with another guy right after the relationship ends.
mustangII460 I really like your theory, Very Well Put!

Best of wishs,
§am.

07-04-2002, 08:00 AM

Sadly the bad out weigh the good. Not in my case, but I see it all the time. Women don't stop and look, they leap. Before they think. And so for them it's easier to get over it.
Now a guy seems to put his whole heart in a relationship before he knows weather the women is serious or not. And thats how they tend to get the short end of the stick.
So hang in there, and don't be in a hurry. The right girl or guy will come when you least expect it. Just my 2 cents Odie

PKRWUD · 07-04-2002, 08:08 AM

That's pretty good, Odie, I'm impressed! That makes alot of sense.

Take care,
-Chris

07-04-2002, 08:22 AM

Just trying to use some of that old commom sence. Thanks, Some people don't like my advise. Cause I say it like it is. No sence in saying what you don't mean. Man I I wish you were to party with us today Chris. odie

tireburner163 · 07-04-2002, 09:12 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mustangII460
Here it is.......

Its like when we go fishing, we catch one lousy fish. But we seem to think its the best, bigest, most overwhelming fish that we have seen in days,weeks maybe years. We even lie about it to our friends.

Women catch a fish,,,,,,,, its just a dam fish... They can throw the bastard back in the water without a second thought.

And........Theres always "More fish in the sea" Yeah....well NO THANKS.

Thats all I have to say about that.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!

Mr 5 0 · 07-04-2002, 09:43 AM

Odie pretty much nailed it but it does cut both ways.

Guys are possessive and once they decide a girl (woman) is theirs, they are 100% into the relationship. Women seem to do the same but as Odie said, they act more on impulse and sometimes for superficial reasons.

When something goes wrong or the flame dies down a bit, some women can just quit and walk away but some guys in the same situation seem to take it as a personal failure and a reflection on them as 'a man' and lash out at the woman or others around them, often making fools of themselves in the process while totally driving the woman away forever out of repulsion and fear. Happens a lot.

On the other hand, I've seen many guys totally immersed in a relationship - and the woman equally involved - and then, the guy spots another woman (sexier, cuter, whatever) and BAM! It's over with woman #1 as he chases the next one down the road.

Just depends on the situation. Some guys just want 'The chase', then lose interest when they 'win' the girl and get bored. Some woman just want to prove to themselves they can attract a man and then they lose interest or are never committed to him in the first place. Sometimes, it's just a mutual loss of passion and each blame the other.

Mostly, the men feel that the woman they love is theirs until they say otherwise. Women often feel the same but can move on to another man if rejected without all the drama that some guys go through.

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. It's all part of life.

joe4speed · 07-04-2002, 10:34 AM

Thanks for the replies!!! I was in one of those "moods" last night, had a few drinks, and got dramatic all over myself!! LOL
I'm one of those kinds of guys who really tries hard to make a relationship work. Nice guy syndrome. Us nice guys finish last! LOL But sometimes, I get wrapped up in relationships where I'm doing most of the work, and am blind to see signs of failure. I grow attached quick, and hate it when they end.
The relationship I'm talking about now, we were best friends, and since it's impossible to see each other realistically, we have to put our friendship on hold for a bit to get rid of the feelings we have for each other, and I guess I'm missing my friend, more than the relationship. (we were together for a year) Yet still feel jealous thinking about her with someone else. (which she isn't yet, but my mind loves to make me think)
Life goes on, I got a phone number from a girl I work with who is absolutely beautiful (almost TOO beautiful) and she wants to go out. So we'll see!!
Thanks again!

PKRWUD · 07-04-2002, 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mr 5 0
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. It's all part of life.

ROFLMFAO!!!!

Odie-

That would be a blast! Maybe next year!

Joe-

I hear ya. You are a remarkably wise man. Keep the faith.

Take care,
-Chris

Crazy Horse GT · 07-04-2002, 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by joe4speed
Thanks for the replies!!!
Life goes on, I got a phone number from a girl I work with who is absolutely beautiful (almost TOO beautiful) and she wants to go out. So we'll see!!
Thanks again!

i'l take what the heck is joe waiting on for 1,ooo alex, hehe

0h n0 5.0 · 07-04-2002, 01:00 PM

its very simple. guys have a one track mind an can't think of more than one thing at once and accomplish either one successfuly. Girls can. they can be thinking about one thing an then another part of their mind is always thinking about shoes.

PKRWUD · 07-04-2002, 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 0h n0 5.0
they can be thinking about one thing an then another part of their mind is always thinking about shoes.

ROFLMAO!!!

Very funny. Very, very funny!

Take care,
-Chris

1969Mach1 · 07-04-2002, 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by joe4speed
But sometimes, I get wrapped up in relationships where I'm doing most of the work, and am blind to see signs of failure. I grow attached quick, and hate it when they end.

I'm very very similar. I just like to let go when it's at the end, I bring what ever energy back to keep the relationship going. I don't know if it's a good thing cause then things are good for awhile but then they same thing happens. I just can't ever let go, I love my g/f lots just sometimes I wonder to myself how long can this keep happening? Ohh.. well my story is for another thread when I've gotten to the point where I'm lost.

Stick in there bud, you'll be fine. =)
§am.

PKRWUD · 07-05-2002, 12:46 AM

It's actually a very familiar story.

Take care,
-Chris

07-04-2002, 02:29 AM	#3
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Joe, think about that for a second. We both know that isn't always true. I feel for you, REALLY, but like I said, that isn't always true. Take care, -Chris BTW, didn't hear a word tonight. __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-04-2002, 02:33 AM	#4
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	well i shouldnt say this but they got it, we want it, get sam kineson's last comedy cd, he explains it perfectly, cya. __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

07-04-2002, 04:33 AM	#5
Topless In Texas Not broken anymore! Join Date: May 2001 Location: La Porte, TEXASS :) Posts: 1,963	Joe, thats not always the case....Guess it depends on the person in general. It depends on what is in your heart and soul, and how deep it is. Some are just destined to have life made alittle more difficult than others. And thats where we fall into...The HARD LUCK CLUB.... I know one day things will work out for you. I hope deep down they do one day! She is a FOOL to do anything but!!!!! And, I truly believe that one day she will come to her senses! My best wishes go out to you that someday things will work out for you! Marty: I LOVE SAM KINNESON!!!!!! (sp?) I've got lots of old videos from when he played 'Dangerfields' Club. HE WAS the man....a life lost too soon!!!!!!! I'll never forget when I had my wisdom teeth pulled,(2 were impacted!) and was on percodain watching him!! He was unique! ONE of a kind! But, I was wasted on pain killers.......he was a funny guy! __________________ R.I.P. my Kinde..Jan. 19,1992-Aug. 22, 2003. Shes Cruisin' doggie heaven in a Blown Verte or a GTO!!! 2005 ROUSH GT Verte SuperStallions of the Net Feature, May 2002 RICE HATERS CLUB MEMBER #38!! O.B.C #5..thank you!! I feel so priveledged!! BONE STOCK~ Hell, its a ROUSH!

07-04-2002, 05:26 AM	#6
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	tnt i loved sam, not that way, hahaha, he was a great comedian, taken away too early, i miss him , he was one of my favorites. may he rip. cya. marty. __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

07-04-2002, 05:36 AM	#7
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	I saw Sam open up for Motley Crue on the Dr. Feelgood tour. The man was incredible. Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-04-2002, 02:17 AM	#1
joe4speed He said Member...heh, heh Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Jupiter, Florida U.S.A. Posts: 3,718	why is it... Why is it that women seem to get over guys much faster than guys get over women??? __________________ *Joe!* 1988 GT, 13.58@101mph Check out my listing! Click here! Or my website:www.joe4speed.com

07-04-2002, 02:26 AM	#2
mustangII460 Factoy Five Roadster Join Date: May 2000 Location: Sevier Co,Tennessee Posts: 1,681	Here it is....... Its like when we go fishing, we catch one lousy fish. But we seem to think its the best, bigest, most overwhelming fish that we have seen in days,weeks maybe years. We even lie about it to our friends. Women catch a fish,,,,,,,, its just a dam fish... They can throw the bastard back in the water without a second thought. And........Theres always "More fish in the sea" Yeah....well NO THANKS. Thats all I have to say about that.

07-04-2002, 07:17 AM	#8
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Can't say your always right but I do agree that most of the time it's the guy that is more hurt then the woman. I find alot more woman care less if the relationship ends. Seems like woman are ready to go out with another guy right after the relationship ends. mustangII460 I really like your theory, Very Well Put! Best of wishs, §am. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

07-04-2002, 08:00 AM	#9
gt lee Guest Posts: n/a	Sadly the bad out weigh the good. Not in my case, but I see it all the time. Women don't stop and look, they leap. Before they think. And so for them it's easier to get over it. Now a guy seems to put his whole heart in a relationship before he knows weather the women is serious or not. And thats how they tend to get the short end of the stick. So hang in there, and don't be in a hurry. The right girl or guy will come when you least expect it. Just my 2 cents Odie

07-04-2002, 08:08 AM	#10
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	That's pretty good, Odie, I'm impressed! That makes alot of sense. Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-04-2002, 08:22 AM	#11
gt lee Guest Posts: n/a	Just trying to use some of that old commom sence. Thanks, Some people don't like my advise. Cause I say it like it is. No sence in saying what you don't mean. Man I I wish you were to party with us today Chris. odie

07-04-2002, 09:43 AM	#13
Mr 5 0 Conservative Individualist Join Date: May 1997 Location: Wherever I need to be Posts: 7,487	Getting over it Odie pretty much nailed it but it does cut both ways. Guys are possessive and once they decide a girl (woman) is theirs, they are 100% into the relationship. Women seem to do the same but as Odie said, they act more on impulse and sometimes for superficial reasons. When something goes wrong or the flame dies down a bit, some women can just quit and walk away but some guys in the same situation seem to take it as a personal failure and a reflection on them as 'a man' and lash out at the woman or others around them, often making fools of themselves in the process while totally driving the woman away forever out of repulsion and fear. Happens a lot. On the other hand, I've seen many guys totally immersed in a relationship - and the woman equally involved - and then, the guy spots another woman (sexier, cuter, whatever) and BAM! It's over with woman #1 as he chases the next one down the road. Just depends on the situation. Some guys just want 'The chase', then lose interest when they 'win' the girl and get bored. Some woman just want to prove to themselves they can attract a man and then they lose interest or are never committed to him in the first place. Sometimes, it's just a mutual loss of passion and each blame the other. Mostly, the men feel that the woman they love is theirs until they say otherwise. Women often feel the same but can move on to another man if rejected without all the drama that some guys go through. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. It's all part of life.

07-04-2002, 10:34 AM	#14
joe4speed He said Member...heh, heh Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Jupiter, Florida U.S.A. Posts: 3,718	Thanks for the replies!!! I was in one of those "moods" last night, had a few drinks, and got dramatic all over myself!! LOL I'm one of those kinds of guys who really tries hard to make a relationship work. Nice guy syndrome. Us nice guys finish last! LOL But sometimes, I get wrapped up in relationships where I'm doing most of the work, and am blind to see signs of failure. I grow attached quick, and hate it when they end. The relationship I'm talking about now, we were best friends, and since it's impossible to see each other realistically, we have to put our friendship on hold for a bit to get rid of the feelings we have for each other, and I guess I'm missing my friend, more than the relationship. (we were together for a year) Yet still feel jealous thinking about her with someone else. (which she isn't yet, but my mind loves to make me think) Life goes on, I got a phone number from a girl I work with who is absolutely beautiful (almost TOO beautiful) and she wants to go out. So we'll see!! Thanks again! __________________ *Joe!* 1988 GT, 13.58@101mph Check out my listing! Click here! Or my website:www.joe4speed.com

07-04-2002, 01:00 PM	#17
0h n0 5.0 Registered Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Birmingham, Alabama Posts: 371	its very simple. guys have a one track mind an can't think of more than one thing at once and accomplish either one successfuly. Girls can. they can be thinking about one thing an then another part of their mind is always thinking about shoes. __________________ 0h n0 5.0 Alias:94five0, Vr00m, Black Shuck 1994 GT 5.0l

07-05-2002, 12:46 AM	#20
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	It's actually a very familiar story. Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!