Why Me?
 

:( Well guys, I just need a man who isn't emotionally dead!

Here I go again...I know what all of you are gonna say, it's nothing I haven't said to myself...time after time...but...here goes.

My car broke down in early September; alternator went out. I lost my job because he couldn't or wouldn't do anything to help me and I needed $$$ to get what I needed. I found another job fter he actually let me drive one of his cars...Ohhhh! My car is still down.

A very good friend of mine gave me an alternator for my car and called dumba$$ to see if he could throw my battery on the charger so I can drive it here to replace the part. His response was; 'When I can make the time'. I said, "Never mind, I'll have it towed here so I can fix it". Then I finished with "Do you really hate me that much that you can't do anything for me at all?"

Was I wrong? I've learned (after two years) that if I ask him to do something for me he never has time...but one of his ex's calls and he's right on it. I hurt my back the other day and I was in bed - 9:30.
He actually expected me to get up out of bed and go to the store to get him food and cook it; knowing full well that I could hardly walk. When I said "No", he replied; "Why am I in a relationship, anyway?" I said; "You're not in a relationship, I am, and it's only me - only one-sided".

Got to leave this guy.

Thanks for letting me vent. It helps, and so do all of you.

Heres how to solve your problem. Move to west ky with me. If you could only hear the conversations I've had with Mustangmom347 lately. As she has told me time and time again there is someone out there perfect for you. It's just a battle trying to find them sometimes. Trust me. You'll find them, it just may take a while.
Brad

well i know i need to get out and i will. situation right now not feasable. its a $$ thing you understand. i should have never gone back for the second time. as my old boss told me a few minutes ago ..DUMBA$$.... maybe i need to correspond with mustangmom347. no actually i know i gotta get the hell out, i just don't have the cash to do that right now and moving in with friends is not an option.

you need to go from that crap 3 day's ago you are being so used it's un real, i know im a guy but jesus -c get out you are living with the worst a$$hole ive ever heard of, yes i dont know his side but how much are you going to take, stop it now,sorry im not flaming you at all but it's crazy to keep living this way, if you call it living run girl run i hope you get gone before it gets worse and it will trust me i know from some of my in -laws esp from indy no dis to good guy's from indy, you need to go, like yesterday, take care .:eek:----- danni take a good hard look at your self esteem , i would rather be alone anyday than go through all that.

We're not all a**holes (guys), so ship the looser.

I agree with topless tire fryer, not all guys are jerks. Nice ones are out there, you just got to find the one for you. No one deserves someone who doesn't appreciate them. I say dump him.

well...
 

Sounds like you already know what you need to do. You just need to implement it. Good luck.

Agreed. What a dick. Guys like that deserve to be alone.

what a complete loser this guy is. It seems like all the butt holes always have the g/fs. Damn just pick up and leave. U don't deserve any of that. Like i said before this guy only wants u around to cook and to clean. That is not a relationship u are just a maid. Try and win the lotery or something get some money. Well i wish u luck hang in there until u can get the hell out of there. Just dont do anything for him anymore and show him how it feels.

New York is available:D
 

listen sweetheart, you got to drop the zero and get with the hero! come on! you KNOW what you have to do. you KNOW its the RIGHT thing to do, but..... you question yourself over and over to see if you are wrong. that is why you are asking us for our opinion. your not wrong for what you want to do. reguardless of the sex, it shouldnt be tolerated! i swear all the scumbag, degenerate, low life, heartless bastards get the good women. all of us guys here are still scratching our heads.....:confused: what do you need to get your car going?

Man, that is sooo true.

Please don't waste time with such a dork. Don't let him drag you down. He's a total waste of time and if you let him take advantage of you, he will. :(

Looks like it's time to find the big glowing exit sign. If you are lucky it will be on the forehead of a respectable guy who will care about you and appreciate you. Good luck though, they're getting rare.

Get out while you can!!!
Easier said than done, but there is light at the end of that tunnel! Good luck!

I'm not a jerk, I'm a nice guy. Well, I think I am, but I'm probably wrong. :D Why has it been such a bad season for relationships. Fall and Winter are times when Relationships are supossed to flourish.

This guy sound like a complete and utter A$$. What the hell is his problem. I mean I'm lazy and all, but nowhere near as bad as he sound. Why would he go running at the call of his Ex's? Drop him like a Lead ballon. Make like a tree and leave. I know this is easier said than done, but dont let money be the only thing that keeps you two together.

Who knows how long you might stay with him if your worried about money. Dont procrastinate, find a way to leave his butt.

Wish every thing turns out okay.

like i said before ..thanks. yep i know what i have to do. you all are really supportive.

merc... i have corresponded with you before on your latest relationship and it is allllwwwaaayyysss NICE people like us get the $hit.

srv... don't really need anything to do the car. just $$ and everything else is taken care of ...i'm thinkin 306, 370 gears and maybe a 2200 stahl.. what do you think?

yeah the stall sounds about right. the gears is iffy. maybe 4.10's since you got an auto?! i was told 4.10's work well on the auto's with a stall.

:D yeah 4.10 may be o.k. but what will that do to my fuel economy? i'm not driving it on the strip... just want a little grocery getter that will kick a$$ on the street if she has to. actually i only need a stock 302. but when guys see a chick in a stang. they always want to race and i have to, cause my foot twitches on the pedal like i'm coming off the line and i lose it and here we go!!!! i'm sure you know what i mean. :D :D :D

dani-
You know your way around a Sprint car, which puts you miles above the rest, IMHO. Save your funds and bail. Do you have any family members who could spot you the money to get out sooner? In the mean time, keep trying to talk your Sprint car owner into letting you drive next season! Our Main Events pay $1000 to win, and the SCRA boys get $2500 to win. If you're a natural, you could pick up some healthy rent money on the weekends!

Best to you.

Take care,
-Chris