Wish me Luck..Meeting the "girlfriend"..

12-30-2002, 08:54 PM

Well everyone,

Here is one of those days..that you wish never would come....

Get to meet the Girlfriend in a bit...You would think this wod of a husband of mine would wait until after the divorce to be so stupid.... But Oh, well....His issue....I'm sure the judge will enjoy this story... LOL...

She seems very nice and very funny. So I dubbed him, hers...LOL..She can have him.....It's more my son, I'm worried about.

Well, let's hope this goes well... Dignity and Grace in the face of tragedy....

~Jenn~

The Deuce · 12-30-2002, 09:07 PM

Best of luck Jenn. That's a trip that is never fun. At least you'll get to see your son, right?

Crazy Horse GT · 12-30-2002, 09:12 PM

best of luck to you jenn.

mustangII460 · 12-30-2002, 09:15 PM

I bet she drives a chevy.

Topless In Texas · 12-30-2002, 10:37 PM

Wow...good luck to ya. Hope it goes well for ya! I'm sure you'll handle it very well...You have a good head on your shoulders!!!

Best of luck,
TNT

(lmao....'drives a cheby') ....hahahhahahhah

12-30-2002, 11:26 PM

Well Heck that wasn't that bad...and for sure, the best part is I get my son.....

Rod Serling ring a bell?...... At any moment I was expecting to smell cigarette smoke and then turn around and see Rod Serling leaning against a wall...Telling me.... "Perplexing enigma, welcome to the Twilight Zone"....

One bad trip...She is a wonderful person, and thank GOD it wasn't my lack of outward beauty that ran him off!..... I'm not going to be mean, because I know it is the quality of the person, but at least I know he is not as shallow as I thought he was....

....So that's good..... There is hope for me to try to respect him as the father of my child. And actually, the girlfriend is a fine lady. Gotta give credit where credit is due...I have no issues with her, so I have to accept her as she is and say, Yeah..She actually is pretty nice and damn funny. Hopefully, he won't screw her up too!

LOL

Thanks Guys....I am listening to my son playing GI Joe and Police man in the shower..LOL...a great sound for sure after weeks of not hearing it.....

Good day to be alive, problems and all!

Thanks again..You guys Rock!

~Jenn~

ultraflo · 12-30-2002, 11:56 PM

"Perplexing enigma, welcome to the Twilight Zone"....

LOL! ...you're taking the situation better than I would be, if it were the other way around, that is. I wish I could have such a positive outlook on things.

You're such a good girl, Jenn.

1969Mach1 · 12-30-2002, 11:57 PM

Well glad it wasn't that bad... =) you know my story, lost my ex after 18 months now I gotta watch her and her new b/f (she had a new b/f in less then 2 weeks!) at work since I work with them both. Doesn't bother me anymore, I just flirt back with all the girls I work with and watch her get all angry... why? Cause woman are stupid. lol Sorry woman I love you but you can't figure out what the hell you want half the time.

§am.

12-31-2002, 12:48 AM

Sam wrote: " why? Cause woman are stupid. lol Sorry woman I love you but you can't figure out what the hell you want half the time."

Hey Sam, I know what I want right now!....for you to shut the hell up!....You little twit...Over on ICQ..Boy..You irritated me now!

Ultraflo.... Hey bud, what can I do? Again, dignity and grace in the face of tragedy. My inner child wants to kill em' both and make them a statistic on a milk carton...But, since I have an issue with...Obeying the law.....I will refrain and take the high road...Smiled...Listed to her on the phone, considered her "advice", greeted her first with a hug. Ex was all smiling and happy...I smile....Really it is a relief to me and I hope we can get this over amicablly for Jared's sake. The less interventions and legal steps the better. I can be dignified and forgiving. We all have our issues man...I'll hopefully never recreate any of those errors. Learned by them. Now, like all things, I set my sights on a goal and go!....I have yet to fail at anything I truly tried. Well, can't drive large earth moving equipment or tractor trailers well...LOL...

Thanks again guys...Being able to vent about this here prevented me from making a VERY BIG mistake...The last thing I need is a first offense at this point in my life and have it be assault AND BATTERY.......

He's not worth it! ~Jenn~

BTW..I know someone will snap me up and love me the way I deserve to be loved, when I'M ready!.....

1969Mach1 · 12-31-2002, 12:53 AM

Okay Okay Okay, I appologize...I didn't mean to generalize woman like that. I'm sorry ladies. Okay, some girls are stupid. I know guys can be no better! I am sorry for offending you... just 99.9% of the woman I talk to cannot make a decision and stick to it, they can never make up there mind and they drive me bonkers! Only way I can interact with them, is deal with the opposite they tell me cause they will change there mind by the time I'm done. Sorry I've just had no luck between the ex and this manager at work that all she does is ***** at anything someone does... Okay, before I get all angry and beat the crap out of something I'm going to sleep. lol

§am.

12-31-2002, 01:29 AM

Yep..You may say exactly that..This woman is a dumb *** or that woman is a dumb ***..I, personally, have been known to be a dumb ***..But, it is not appropriate to over generalize....

Thanks Sam...glad we got that straightened out on ICQ

~Jenn~

jj_jonathon · 12-31-2002, 02:07 AM

i'm surprised the gf wasnt still in college or something...then again...i dont know your husband....glad you get your son

HotRoddin · 12-31-2002, 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Janeofalltrades
She can have him.....It's more my son, I'm worried about. :

~Jenn~

Just keep repeating that as many times as you need. The little guy will be so much better off if you and his dad can be civil to each other, even though it can be very difficult sometimes !
and remember ...
violence is a tool of the ignorant

lol

chuck88 · 12-31-2002, 08:41 AM

Don't know the whole story of your affairs and I am glad that you are happy. But maybe it would have been better if you could prove that she is an axe murderer so you could get full custody of your son. just a thought.

Chuck 88GT

12-31-2002, 09:09 AM

Nah....No axe murder here....Unfortunately, she is just a harmless wood elf cleric from an on-line fantasy game called Everquest..Evercrack..Whatever...Their game, is my MW.....LOL..We all have our issues...I just want this to be civil....

Best for the little man!

Nice to know I've been give his approval to find a boyfriend...LOL OK..That was entirely too weird for me...But, nice to know..

~Jenn~

MissBlondie · 12-31-2002, 10:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Janeofalltrades
Nice to know I've been give his approval to find a boyfriend...LOL OK..That was entirely too weird for me...But, nice to know..

~Jenn~

HAHAHA That's too funny... Glad to hear everything went okay for ya girl!

PKRWUD · 12-31-2002, 10:47 AM

That is good news, Jenn. I know how much this means to you.

Take care,
~Chris

12-30-2002, 08:54 PM	#1
Janeofalltrades Guest Posts: n/a	Wish me Luck..Meeting the "girlfriend".. Well everyone, Here is one of those days..that you wish never would come.... Get to meet the Girlfriend in a bit...You would think this wod of a husband of mine would wait until after the divorce to be so stupid.... But Oh, well....His issue....I'm sure the judge will enjoy this story... LOL... She seems very nice and very funny. So I dubbed him, hers...LOL..She can have him.....It's more my son, I'm worried about. Well, let's hope this goes well... Dignity and Grace in the face of tragedy.... ~Jenn~

12-30-2002, 09:07 PM	#2
The Deuce Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 2,325	Best of luck Jenn. That's a trip that is never fun. At least you'll get to see your son, right? __________________ 1997 Mustang GT "The Freak" - 13.80 @ 101.70, 2.07 60' 1995 Honda VFR750 - not much @ really fast (actual data pending.) 1964.5 Mustang 289 Rice Haters Club Member #13

12-30-2002, 09:12 PM	#3
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	best of luck to you jenn. __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

12-30-2002, 09:15 PM	#4
mustangII460 Factoy Five Roadster Join Date: May 2000 Location: Sevier Co,Tennessee Posts: 1,681	I bet she drives a chevy. __________________ Frank

12-30-2002, 10:37 PM	#5
Topless In Texas Not broken anymore! Join Date: May 2001 Location: La Porte, TEXASS :) Posts: 1,963	Yikes... Wow...good luck to ya. Hope it goes well for ya! I'm sure you'll handle it very well...You have a good head on your shoulders!!! Best of luck, TNT (lmao....'drives a cheby') ....hahahhahahhah __________________ R.I.P. my Kinde..Jan. 19,1992-Aug. 22, 2003. Shes Cruisin' doggie heaven in a Blown Verte or a GTO!!! 2005 ROUSH GT Verte SuperStallions of the Net Feature, May 2002 RICE HATERS CLUB MEMBER #38!! O.B.C #5..thank you!! I feel so priveledged!! BONE STOCK~ Hell, its a ROUSH!

12-30-2002, 11:26 PM	#6
Janeofalltrades Guest Posts: n/a	Well That wasn't so Bad! Well Heck that wasn't that bad...and for sure, the best part is I get my son..... Rod Serling ring a bell?...... At any moment I was expecting to smell cigarette smoke and then turn around and see Rod Serling leaning against a wall...Telling me.... "Perplexing enigma, welcome to the Twilight Zone".... One bad trip...She is a wonderful person, and thank GOD it wasn't my lack of outward beauty that ran him off!..... I'm not going to be mean, because I know it is the quality of the person, but at least I know he is not as shallow as I thought he was.... ....So that's good..... There is hope for me to try to respect him as the father of my child. And actually, the girlfriend is a fine lady. Gotta give credit where credit is due...I have no issues with her, so I have to accept her as she is and say, Yeah..She actually is pretty nice and damn funny. Hopefully, he won't screw her up too! LOL Thanks Guys....I am listening to my son playing GI Joe and Police man in the shower..LOL...a great sound for sure after weeks of not hearing it..... Good day to be alive, problems and all! Thanks again..You guys Rock! ~Jenn~

12-30-2002, 11:56 PM	#7
ultraflo NX dealer-man Join Date: Sep 1998 Location: Peoria, Illinois Posts: 977	"Perplexing enigma, welcome to the Twilight Zone".... LOL! ...you're taking the situation better than I would be, if it were the other way around, that is. I wish I could have such a positive outlook on things. You're such a good girl, Jenn. __________________ RLS Racing! 93 LX 9.20 @ 147mph 03 Mach 1 12.39 @ 116mph

12-30-2002, 11:57 PM	#8
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Well glad it wasn't that bad... =) you know my story, lost my ex after 18 months now I gotta watch her and her new b/f (she had a new b/f in less then 2 weeks!) at work since I work with them both. Doesn't bother me anymore, I just flirt back with all the girls I work with and watch her get all angry... why? Cause woman are stupid. lol Sorry woman I love you but you can't figure out what the hell you want half the time. §am. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

12-31-2002, 12:48 AM	#9
Janeofalltrades Guest Posts: n/a	Sam Sam wrote: " why? Cause woman are stupid. lol Sorry woman I love you but you can't figure out what the hell you want half the time." Hey Sam, I know what I want right now!....for you to shut the hell up!....You little twit...Over on ICQ..Boy..You irritated me now! Ultraflo.... Hey bud, what can I do? Again, dignity and grace in the face of tragedy. My inner child wants to kill em' both and make them a statistic on a milk carton...But, since I have an issue with...Obeying the law.....I will refrain and take the high road...Smiled...Listed to her on the phone, considered her "advice", greeted her first with a hug. Ex was all smiling and happy...I smile....Really it is a relief to me and I hope we can get this over amicablly for Jared's sake. The less interventions and legal steps the better. I can be dignified and forgiving. We all have our issues man...I'll hopefully never recreate any of those errors. Learned by them. Now, like all things, I set my sights on a goal and go!....I have yet to fail at anything I truly tried. Well, can't drive large earth moving equipment or tractor trailers well...LOL... Thanks again guys...Being able to vent about this here prevented me from making a VERY BIG mistake...The last thing I need is a first offense at this point in my life and have it be assault AND BATTERY....... He's not worth it! ~Jenn~ BTW..I know someone will snap me up and love me the way I deserve to be loved, when I'M ready!.....

12-31-2002, 12:53 AM	#10
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Okay Okay Okay, I appologize...I didn't mean to generalize woman like that. I'm sorry ladies. Okay, some girls are stupid. I know guys can be no better! I am sorry for offending you... just 99.9% of the woman I talk to cannot make a decision and stick to it, they can never make up there mind and they drive me bonkers! Only way I can interact with them, is deal with the opposite they tell me cause they will change there mind by the time I'm done. Sorry I've just had no luck between the ex and this manager at work that all she does is *** at anything someone does... Okay, before I get all angry and beat the crap out of something I'm going to sleep. lol §am. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1**Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

12-31-2002, 01:29 AM	#11
Janeofalltrades Guest Posts: n/a	Thanks Sam! Yep..You may say exactly that..This woman is a dumb * or that woman is a dumb ..I, personally, have been known to be a dumb **..But, it is not appropriate to over generalize.... Thanks Sam...glad we got that straightened out on ICQ ~Jenn~

12-31-2002, 02:07 AM	#12
jj_jonathon Trisket Join Date: May 2002 Location: University of Florida, FL Posts: ½ Posts: 1,560	i'm surprised the gf wasnt still in college or something...then again...i dont know your husband....glad you get your son __________________ University of Florida - Physics Major My 02GT vert Media Center Pics BBK Underdrive Pulleys \| K&N FIPK (Gen II) \| Bullet Grille \| Mach 1 Chin Spoiler \| UPR Interior Parts \| XM Radio \| Audiobahn Subs Ricer Hater's Club Member #1/2 (30) http://www.ricehatersclub.com/

12-31-2002, 08:41 AM	#14
chuck88 Registered Member Join Date: May 1999 Location: Wood Ridge NJ USA Posts: 341	Don't know the whole story of your affairs and I am glad that you are happy. But maybe it would have been better if you could prove that she is an axe murderer so you could get full custody of your son. just a thought. Chuck 88GT __________________ So what if its "midlife crisis". Wife, 2 kids, busy job, "fixer upper" house, and I still have time for the Mustang!!! I Love my kids!!!

12-31-2002, 09:09 AM	#15
Janeofalltrades Guest Posts: n/a	Nah, She's some wood elf cleric in Everquest Nah....No axe murder here....Unfortunately, she is just a harmless wood elf cleric from an on-line fantasy game called Everquest..Evercrack..Whatever...Their game, is my MW.....LOL..We all have our issues...I just want this to be civil.... Best for the little man! Nice to know I've been give his approval to find a boyfriend...LOL OK..That was entirely too weird for me...But, nice to know.. ~Jenn~

12-31-2002, 10:47 AM	#17
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	That is good news, Jenn. I know how much this means to you. Take care, ~Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

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