Awww you guys are the best
I'm happy as long I can help shed some light on the mysteries of LOVE and WIMMINFOLK
I've complied a NOVEL of my personal views on relationships and women...so if you feel like reading my "book", I'd love to have some feedback, even if you think I'm an utter idiot and should have my Mustang privelieges taken away from me:
The ghetto culture has most definetely ruined our youth: teaching young boys that it is ok to be a "player" and a "baller", and to use women as playthings instead of falling in love with them. It has taught little girls that its ok to become a gold digging cheap floozy that should see men as a way of support themselves instead of as someone to care for. Basically, true relationships are now "uncool", and using each other is "the in thing"
Basically we all have to take responsibility for the ever-increasing gender gap: each gender has contributed to the bitterness of the other in a trend that can be simplified as follows:
Nice boy meets bad girl(has been burned before by bad guy), bad girl breaks his heart. Nice boy is now bad, and turns around and hurts some other nice girl.
The most important factor in our downward spiral is IGNORANT MENTALITY: the blaming of an entire gender for the actions of a few. Despite getting burned, we can't rationally damn the whole sex for our misfortunes. The minute we become prejudiced based on gender is the minute that we close our eyes and hearts to the prospect of finding someone that JUST might treat our affections with the respect and care that they deserve.
I myself endured an abusive relationship for over 2 years, and had my heart ripped out by several guys in my short lifetime, but I've NEVER cast blame on the entire male population. If i would have done so, I would never have met the man who treats me like a princess and helped me open my heart to the REAL way women and men are supposed to love each other. And the really sad thing is, people make fun of us on a frequent basis because we are so into each other
and laugh at how "sappy" we are because we treat each other with mutual love and respect
Ok, so we get to the good part: WHAT WOMEN(the good ones) WANT!
We want someone who can be sweet yet strong and brave...cuddle us in bed yet also stand up for our honor if it be tarnished by another.
We want someone who can perform manly duties, yet baby us when we need it most...fix our stupid cars when they break, and stroke our hair while we whine about our mean boss/coworker/friend
We want someone that will watch football AND tolerate our mothers when they come to visit, etc etc etc
Basically most women want exactly what men do: the best of both worlds. Men desire a woman that is feminine, yet doesn't mind getting down and dirty once in a while, right? Now of course you are going to run into the selfish brat that NEVER wants to comprimise and watch Monday Night Football with you, or just plain doesn't care and flirts with your best friend. THESE are the ones you need to dump, fast, and continue on your pursuit for your perfect gal with NO RESERVATIONS: the next girl didn't do anything to you, so why hold anything against her from the start?
I hope I may have helped at least one of you possibly understand some of the complexies that make women who they are. I wish ALL of you luck in love and in racing =P