Ever since I really started throwing some cash at my car, my greatest dream was to make her handle as if she was on RAILS. She corners pretty well, but if I hit a bump, I'm all OVER the road

Also, if I'm running straight over some potholes/ruts in the road, I feel like my poor GT is going to be ripped in half!! I don't remember it being so harsh before I took the stupid quad shocks off...is that part of my problem? I also haven't installed my c/c plates yet, so I was thinking maybe the front not being aligned correctly was contributing to this MAJOR annoyance...
Help!
Signed, A wanna be road racer
