stabbed in the back (sorry long)

explicitone · 07-02-2002, 02:24 PM

who out there as ever had someone who you thoght was close friend srew you over.

not to long ago a guy I thought was a friend of mine asked me to do him a favor and watch his new puppy he got cause where he was living he could not have a dog he said he would pay for all the food and give me 30$ a month to watch her so I said I would.
well about a month in watching her I had to move(got kicked out of my house)so I could not watch her anymore so a friend of ours said he would watch her. I never seen any money for watching her or for the bones and food I bought not to metion the par of 100$ kicks she chewed up. no big deal hes a friend, when he has it he will hit me up . yeah right

well she got a skin inv. and had to be taken to the vet cause her fur was fallimg out. and my friend that had her ate the bill on this one and the next one and the next one because the guy who owned the puppy had no money and then I found out he had no money because he was saving the money to buy stuff for his car . I said something to him about this and I told him she needs to be taken care of or she could die and he goes off the deep end and says that I said that he cant take care of his own dog because she will die and this and that.. and then I find out from poeple that hes talking all kinds of crap about me and all of his old friends that were doing nothing but trying to help him out.

so I have not talked to him since nice why to end a 3yr friendship

Maroon 5.0 LX · 07-02-2002, 03:11 PM

Whewwww, I'm outta breath!

#1 Pony · 07-02-2002, 03:19 PM

I got a little lost at the end.

I only understood to the part where he got mad about the dog.
*poor thing*

Stang_Crazy · 07-02-2002, 03:24 PM

The situation sucks but I guess now you know who your true friends are. Sometimes people can be so shady. So is he taking care of the puppy now or does the other person still have it?

It's always easier to blame than to take the blame. Usually that's what ends up happening.

explicitone · 07-02-2002, 03:31 PM

my friend that was helping him still has the puppy. sorry on parts of the story I cant type for anything I need to start using the preview . just to let you guys know jade (the puppy) is doing great now after about a month of vet visits and 650$ I just needed to vent its just so upsetting that when you try to help someone and they screw you over.....

PKRWUD · 07-02-2002, 03:37 PM

Screw him (so to speak). Be glad you found out what a prickless little pissant he is now before lifes expenses get to be more. this is the same kind of guy that would stick you with a $5000 downpayment on a car if you'd let him. You got out cheap, and Jade is healthy. Sounds like a winning situation to me. I know it doesn't to you, and I'm not trying to sound cold, but I have no tolerance for a$sholes like that. At all.

Take care,
-Chris

explicitone · 07-02-2002, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PKRWUD
Screw him (so to speak). Be glad you found out what a prickless little pissant he is now before lifes expenses get to be more. this is the same kind of guy that would stick you with a $5000 downpayment on a car if you'd let him. You got out cheap, and Jade is healthy. Sounds like a winning situation to me. I know it doesn't to you, and I'm not trying to sound cold, but I have no tolerance for a$sholes like that. At all.

Take care,
-Chris

I agree, thats why I dont have anything to do with him anymore

Mr 5 0 · 07-02-2002, 03:46 PM

explicitone:

Sorry to see you were screwed over by your erstwhile friend but frankly, this stuff happens.

Often, when you do favors and the other person can't pay you back or return the favor (or doesn't want to) they get defensive because they know they're wrong but need to make you somehow the 'bad guy' in order to justify screwing you and to feel good about it.

Yeah, I had it happen to me, too. Almost everyone does at some point.

I now choose my friends carefully and although I know a lot of people I only have a few friends that I totally trust and only because they've proven themselves to me over a long period of time.

I almost never ask anyone for favors and I don't do many, either. It works fine. I pay for what I need or do it myself and when I need help, I only ask those who I know I can help back in some way at a later time.

Live and learn.

joe4speed · 07-02-2002, 04:18 PM

Screw him....

I've been screwed over so many times I can't count them all... and where are they when you need them?? No where to be found! You're better off losing this ******* "friend".

07-02-2002, 04:37 PM

I know ALOT of people but only have a couple I consider a friend. If you have 2 real friends, you're doing pretty good. I try not to let people take advantage of me, a real friend wouldn't take advantage anyhow. Sounds like one of life's lessons to me

Good Luck and enjoy your dog.

1969Mach1 · 07-02-2002, 04:44 PM

Tough luck guy, don't worry about it. Aslong as you've learned your lesson from this jerk then it will be all good. Hopefully now you have a new best friend (the dog) and you can go out with out this guy.

Best of Luck in the Future,
§am.

explicitone · 07-02-2002, 04:50 PM

just let you guys know I dont have the dog my friend( a real friend ) has the dog I dont like dogs at all (a dog bit me in the face when I was 5 or 6 )

#1 Pony · 07-02-2002, 05:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by explicitone
just let you guys know I dont have the dog my friend( a real friend ) has the dog I dont like dogs at all (a dog bite me in the face when I was 5 or 6 )

Did it leave a mark?
I had that happen once (I was bit or clawed) in the face, almost took out my eye!

Aww.. but I still love'em, and I have a dog now.

I'm sorry that happened man.
I'm not even sure if I have ANY good friends. Yes, I know alot of people but I seem to be the person on the side. Go figure!!
*BUT a few are really considerate, and they are true friends*

explicitone · 07-02-2002, 05:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by #1 Pony

Did it leave a mark?
I had that happen once (I was bit or clawed) in the face, almost took out my eye!
Aww.. but I still love'em, and I have a dog now.

I'm sorry that happened man.
I'm not even sure if I have ANY good friends. Yes, I know alot of people but I seem to be the person on the side. Go figure!!
*BUT a few are really considerate, and they are true friends*

when I was bit he bit me in the upper lip (left side) almost all the way to my ear but the only mark that remains is a scar on my lip its more that I fear dogs more then I dont like them I just dont trust them and that I have never been able to get over.

#1 Pony · 07-02-2002, 10:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by explicitone

when I was bit he bit me in the upper lip (left side) almost all the way to my ear but the only mark that remains is a scar on my lip its more that I fear dogs more then I dont like them I just dont trust them and that I have never been able to get over.

I understand that, I have some family members like that.

My best of luck to you, and I do hope you start feeling better.

Crazy Horse GT · 07-03-2002, 01:25 AM

i have 2 best friend's i trust to the end, other than that, just friend's, but i keep my distance, one of my so called best friend's -years ago stole my wife from me, after riding around & asking me questions about me & her, next thing i know the mo fo moved in with her behind my back, now 23 years later, he wants to call me all the time, i have no time for him, f---- him, ok i feel better now.

PKRWUD · 07-03-2002, 01:46 AM

Good, good.

Same time next week?

Take care,
-Chris

Crazy Horse GT · 07-03-2002, 01:55 AM

not you focker, heheheh, you were a punk kid then, bwahahaha,

PKRWUD · 07-03-2002, 02:08 AM

I was speaking as your therapist.

Take care,
-Chris

Crazy Horse GT · 07-03-2002, 02:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PKRWUD
I was speaking as your therapist.

Take care,
-Chris

you got a tough job then, can you handle it? bwahahaha

remember, im a 2 time war vet

07-02-2002, 03:11 PM	#2
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07-02-2002, 03:19 PM	#3
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07-02-2002, 03:24 PM	#4
Stang_Crazy It's never clean enough! Join Date: Jan 1999 Location: Shaler, PA Posts: 1,542	The situation sucks but I guess now you know who your true friends are. Sometimes people can be so shady. So is he taking care of the puppy now or does the other person still have it? It's always easier to blame than to take the blame. Usually that's what ends up happening. __________________ ~Dan 2001 SVT Lightning 89' GT : Taking up garage space and waiting for a buyer... Rice Hater's Club - Member #11

07-02-2002, 03:31 PM	#5
explicitone Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: racine ,wi Posts: 691	my friend that was helping him still has the puppy. sorry on parts of the story I cant type for anything I need to start using the preview . just to let you guys know jade (the puppy) is doing great now after about a month of vet visits and 650$ I just needed to vent its just so upsetting that when you try to help someone and they screw you over..... __________________ RUN IT STAIGHT AND RUN IT HARD ________ Novi 2000 60' 1.46 1/4 10.67 mph 126.5 _________

07-02-2002, 03:37 PM	#6
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Screw him (so to speak). Be glad you found out what a prickless little pissant he is now before lifes expenses get to be more. this is the same kind of guy that would stick you with a $5000 downpayment on a car if you'd let him. You got out cheap, and Jade is healthy. Sounds like a winning situation to me. I know it doesn't to you, and I'm not trying to sound cold, but I have no tolerance for a$sholes like that. At all. Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-02-2002, 02:24 PM	#1
explicitone Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: racine ,wi Posts: 691	stabbed in the back (sorry long) who out there as ever had someone who you thoght was close friend srew you over. not to long ago a guy I thought was a friend of mine asked me to do him a favor and watch his new puppy he got cause where he was living he could not have a dog he said he would pay for all the food and give me 30$ a month to watch her so I said I would. well about a month in watching her I had to move(got kicked out of my house)so I could not watch her anymore so a friend of ours said he would watch her. I never seen any money for watching her or for the bones and food I bought not to metion the par of 100$ kicks she chewed up. no big deal hes a friend, when he has it he will hit me up . yeah right well she got a skin inv. and had to be taken to the vet cause her fur was fallimg out. and my friend that had her ate the bill on this one and the next one and the next one because the guy who owned the puppy had no money and then I found out he had no money because he was saving the money to buy stuff for his car . I said something to him about this and I told him she needs to be taken care of or she could die and he goes off the deep end and says that I said that he cant take care of his own dog because she will die and this and that.. and then I find out from poeple that hes talking all kinds of crap about me and all of his old friends that were doing nothing but trying to help him out. so I have not talked to him since nice why to end a 3yr friendship __________________ RUN IT STAIGHT AND RUN IT HARD ________ Novi 2000 60' 1.46 1/4 10.67 mph 126.5 _________ Last edited by explicitone; 07-02-2002 at 03:35 PM..

07-02-2002, 03:46 PM	#8
Mr 5 0 Conservative Individualist Join Date: May 1997 Location: Wherever I need to be Posts: 7,487	Friends and ex-friends explicitone: Sorry to see you were screwed over by your erstwhile friend but frankly, this stuff happens. Often, when you do favors and the other person can't pay you back or return the favor (or doesn't want to) they get defensive because they know they're wrong but need to make you somehow the 'bad guy' in order to justify screwing you and to feel good about it. Yeah, I had it happen to me, too. Almost everyone does at some point. I now choose my friends carefully and although I know a lot of people I only have a few friends that I totally trust and only because they've proven themselves to me over a long period of time. I almost never ask anyone for favors and I don't do many, either. It works fine. I pay for what I need or do it myself and when I need help, I only ask those who I know I can help back in some way at a later time. Live and learn.

07-02-2002, 04:18 PM	#9
joe4speed He said Member...heh, heh Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Jupiter, Florida U.S.A. Posts: 3,718	Screw him.... I've been screwed over so many times I can't count them all... and where are they when you need them?? No where to be found! You're better off losing this ***** "friend". __________________ Joe!** 1988 GT, 13.58@101mph Check out my listing! Click here! Or my website:www.joe4speed.com

07-02-2002, 04:37 PM	#10
rbatson Guest Posts: n/a	I know ALOT of people but only have a couple I consider a friend. If you have 2 real friends, you're doing pretty good. I try not to let people take advantage of me, a real friend wouldn't take advantage anyhow. Sounds like one of life's lessons to me Good Luck and enjoy your dog.

07-02-2002, 04:44 PM	#11
1969Mach1 HEY I CAN SET A NAME NOW! Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 2,556	Tough luck guy, don't worry about it. Aslong as you've learned your lesson from this jerk then it will be all good. Hopefully now you have a new best friend (the dog) and you can go out with out this guy. Best of Luck in the Future, §am. __________________ 1969 Mustang Mach 1Sold 351-4V Windsor, 4 Speed MACH 1 - Moving At The Speed Of Sound. 1979 Mustang Indianapolis 500 Pace Car For Sale - Email me for Info 302-2V, 3-Speed Auto One of 2,106 made One of 405 sent to Canada. Yes those are caution lights, and No you can't pass me when there on. Ricer Hater's Club - Member #4

07-02-2002, 04:50 PM	#12
explicitone Registered Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: racine ,wi Posts: 691	just let you guys know I dont have the dog my friend( a real friend ) has the dog I dont like dogs at all (a dog bit me in the face when I was 5 or 6 ) __________________ RUN IT STAIGHT AND RUN IT HARD ________ Novi 2000 60' 1.46 1/4 10.67 mph 126.5 _________ Last edited by explicitone; 07-02-2002 at 05:25 PM..

07-03-2002, 01:25 AM	#16
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	i have 2 best friend's i trust to the end, other than that, just friend's, but i keep my distance, one of my so called best friend's -years ago stole my wife from me, after riding around & asking me questions about me & her, next thing i know the mo fo moved in with her behind my back, now 23 years later, he wants to call me all the time, i have no time for him, f---- him, ok i feel better now. __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

07-03-2002, 01:46 AM	#17
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	Good, good. Same time next week? Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

07-03-2002, 01:55 AM	#18
Crazy Horse GT Registered Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Sale Creek, TN. C. S. A. Posts: 4,652	not you focker, heheheh, you were a punk kid then, bwahahaha, __________________ 95 gt vert, lot's of stuff, it aint slow. 04 sonic blue v - six my beater 89 rs camaro iroc turbo hood, other stuff, my wifes ride 84 lx stang cammed up 289 hi po, etc 65 falcon, maybe by the year 2020. black 00gt, gone but never forgotten. R H C- member # 1 o.b.c. da prez- member # 1 if your under 40 dont ask. goodbye for now odie,r.i.p. 11-27-03

07-03-2002, 02:08 AM	#19
PKRWUD Junior Member Join Date: Mar 1999 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 8,981	I was speaking as your therapist. Take care, -Chris __________________ Webmaster: Rice Haters Club Jim Porter Racing Peckerwoods Pit Stop Support Your Local RED & WHITE!

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