Help, Please, Making my decision this weekend!!

[SCOTTLT79]

Hey guys,
This is a bit long but please help me if you have the time, (and the heart. )
Its coming down to decision time. I'm doing my exhaust from headers back. I've done my research on prices and quality.
Just please tell me what you think and if I f@#ked up on my choices and matches, please let me know so I don't screw up my car.
Here are my choices(I think)

H-pipe: BBK Off Road(but there is also the BBK X)
Cat-Back: Magna Flow 3.5"Tips

This is the tough one; Headers:
I've priced BBK, MAC, Ford Racing, and Hedman. What do you guys think? (or any other brand)

I need to know a good match. And I would like good sound(but no flowmasters)
I've priced a lot but if you are going to recommend something, please try to stay close to the price range of what I've listed.

And on a side note, I was thinking about getting pulleys but I dont' know much about them so if you can throw in your .02, it would be appreciated.

Thanks a lot guys
Scott