ignition help

[proslow]

so im back and i have alot of stuff done on the car. its almost ready to run but im haveing a probelm with the ignition on it. i can turn the key on to "run" and the fuel pump doesnt turn on but when i go to crank the motor over it turns on???? also the motor wont turn over when you crank it with the key. how ever when you jump the starter relay it will crank???? also the sterio doesnt work which worked b4. but i have power windows and locks and they work like they should with the key on. like normal any ideas? i thought it was the starter relay but ive put 2 in and its not it. but im not getting power to the other side of the relay or the little red/blue wire on the relay. any help???? i need this going by friday its a 92 motor and computer.