im lost, cant find the leak, please help!

[fiveohpatrol]

i posted about this a couple weeks ago and went through what was suggested and i still couldnt find exatly where the leak is coming from, coolant builds up underneath the lower radiator hose and some how gets sprayed everywhere underneath the engine, but when it sits overnight it wont puddle up much underneath the car, nor will the level go way down, im thinking that its somehow coming from the bottom of the water pump and hitting the harmonic balancer and thats whats making it spray everywhere, i took off the lower hose to make sure that it wasnt rotted and it looks brand new so thats not the culprit, this is really making me mad and i dont want to start changing things until i know for sure what the problem is, also theres alot of other greasy residue all over underneath the motor and the power steering pump area, theres also a layer of grese/oil on the oilpan that is kinda concerning me is this just normal buildup or what? i hate all this not knowing where its coming from, give me a long tube header install anyday before all this crap, thanks guys

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88 Notchback 5.0, 3.73's, pulleys, BBK headers, off-road H-pipe, flowmasters, subframe connectors, 65mm TB, shift kit, March ram air kit, motorsport wires, MSD coil, upper and lower control arms, 155lph fuel pump, cheap 2800 stall, Crane Adj.FPR, best time- 13.99@99.75, not yet tested times after 1.7RR install