Talked to a guy that knows his stuff, he said i can save 250$ if i pull the trans myself, plus he told me the sound im hearing is a "cluster" and possibly, most likely a bad "bearing", also said he will do a bench job and let me watch him do the whole job

and he said it wont be to expensive, considering thats all it might need, i have faith in this guy. thnx for the help guys, and hope you other guys sharing my frustration get things squared away.
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90 lx coupe: 175k miles, steeda water pump pully, hurst shifter, Mac cold air fenderwell, accel supercoil, ADS chip, aluminum D/S, Black magic fan, 3.27grs.
Best time: 13.9116(on 225/60/15 firehawks)
Best mph: 98.17
Best 60': 1.9607
next mods: subframes, mac h-pipe