Men Suck!
 

Okay need to vent not all men suck but I want to hear some input on this!!! Men have to be the biggest cowards!!! Why is it when they have a bad day or whatever they can't just say hey I had a bad so I need sometime alone??? Nope instead they would rather treat you like total crap and not let you know what was wrong!!! And why can't guys ever talk to a girl what are they so freakin afraid of??!!?? Men are always b*tchin that girls never say what is on their minds and play little games... I think that is the other way around!!!! I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!???


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Sorry had to vent!
Karen

i dont suck.

I know Jason I said all men dont suck MOST men on this site is pretty cool!

See Ya,
Karen;)

<< I need a guy that isnt such a freakin chicken that can stand up and say wtf is going on and wtf is the matter!!! Are there any men like that out there???!!!!??? >>

Yep, but they're gay :D

J/K ... you sound wayyyy to much like my wife ! Is that you hun ? lol

LOL yup it is probably a girl thing lol or is that the way men try and explain it???!!!!

See Ya,
Karen;)

In case you haven't already figured it out....

We're men... We DON"T like to talk.... We don't want to COMMUNICATE, we don't get in touch with our emotions, and we sure as heck don't find our "inner child"....

My advice as someone who's been married 12 years:
Give him a beer, the latest copy of Muscle Mustangs and Fast Fords, the remote control and leave him alone for a couple of hours.

By that time I guarantee he will have forgotten about whatever he was pissed about if it didn't have anything to do with you....

Remember ladies, the keys to men:
Food, beer, sex, cars, and a little quiet time....

Remember that and you've got us figured out....

I always tell my wife the lowdown of my bad days. In return she tells me her days adventures at work and how the kids tortured her. It is not a guy thing, I have met women that act like that too. It is just nature of some folk. I guess I am just in touch with my sensitive side. Don't laugh :D

Maybe its because women are soo wrapped up in asking you what color they should color thier hair(for instance) that they really either can't relate to your problems or don't really want to hear it, to start with.. err.... I'm sure not ALL women are like that... :D

Just kidding with you Shelby.. HEEH!;)

I have to agree with Hammer on the "Food, Beer, Sex and Cars". If I want quiet time I either pull an Al Bundy (mag in the can) or pretend I fell asleep. :D

Yeah guys but what I am saying is why do they have to treat you like crap because of their day?? I mean I don't really expect men to talk about their problems but they could say Hey had a bad day just let me be ... But they dont they act like a*s holes how come?:confused:

I go out in the garage and port heads

You know the difference between a crazed Doberman and a woman with PMS ???

Lipstick :D

LMAO@hotrod ummmmmmmmm no !!;)

I don't suck either... I'm the "perfect guy"... Really, I am! :)

i dont suck....

i talk with my gf all the time...shes knows how i feel and i know how she feels....hell i even used to help out other girls with their problems...but most guys dont talk, youre right....

I'm sorry you had to take the brunt of that sweetheart.

Men don't care who or what is "in the way" when they are having a bad day. They will beat up on anything around them, cars, walls small woodland creatures. Unfortunatly, most of the time guys have a bad day and come home to a woman.

I have an 80lb heavy bag and a pair of shorts in my garage. There are days I don't go in the house until I've used them both. That way I can leave some of my anger (one of the four emotions men understand) out there and be a little bit nicer.

The other part of the problem is that men are supposed to be strong. When things go wrong for us we have to deal with it. That's our job. More often than not, it makes us seem grumpy to those around us.

The guys that can comminicate, there is usually something wrong with them.

:)
 

Hey Karen,
One thing to keep in mind, and this is only from my own expierience, is that sometimes it takes a little time for some guys to feel 'comfortable' baring thier souls, or to be open about thier feelings. Especially if it is someone who is not like that and has never been used to someone actually wanting them to open up and caring about what is going on.
This takes time for some, and some more time than others....I myself have no problem expressing myself, but alot of men have like a 'wall' to keep behind. And sometimes it just takes time to break down that barrier. It just kinda happens.. But still at times, there is that moment that they dont say anything for fear that the wrong thing will come out or it will be hurtful because of thier mood. Of corse, it is better in that instance if they dont say anything at all, then to say hurtful things, but everyone deals w/ bad days differently. Usually after the initial crappiness of the day is gone, they will come around...
I know that does not make it any easier, especially if you tend to be an emotional person and open yourself. But, this too, will pass. (hate those cliches'). Hang in there...It just takes a little time!!!! :D Best of luck to ya! ;) Christine

Men suck, hell I thought that was the chicks job.
 

Sorry couldn't resist that one Shelby, I think Hammer hit the nail on the head though. There's no reason for him to be an a$shole to you though. Hell just tell him it's better to be pissed off then pissed on.:D What works for me when I'm pissed or had a bad is to have a few and watch the fast and the furious( slow and sexually curious would have been a better title). Hell after watching 30 minutes of ricers acting cool I feel way better about my self. :D

DH

Thanks a lot Christine heehee only a girl could say it that good!!! Guys take notes!! And Deuce I know about mens tempers, most dont hit those objects...just their g/f's around here anyway!!!

See Ya,
Karen

Yo Welcome!
 

Glad I could be of assistance!!! :D Now, I gotta start thinking about bed. I've been getting 'sick' since yesterday, and I feel like hell...:(
If ya need anything dont hesitate to holler at me! :)
Have a good evening....:cool:
TNT

That's unaccpetable. I'm driving out to St. Louis to see some friends next summer. Just make me a list, and I'll take care of anybody you need.;)

LOL it is a long list deuce!!!;) Night Christine thanks everyone for the response!!!!!!!!

See Ya,
Karen