Brother, I've been in an 'off and on' relationship for over 7 1/2 years. Crap or get off the pot?? I don't think so! I have given this girl 2 rings and the first was over $3500 and she said she thought I gave it to her just so I wouldn't lose her(2 1/2 yrs ago) so I took the ring back and started shopping a stroker(HEEH). Last summer I bought her a solitaire and she made me wait(I found out she knew I was going to pop the question again) over 3 hrs(she said she would be right over) while she was drinking some beers with her friend after work. Know what she said when she got it?? "How much did you pay for this?" I told her.. "I think you can do better than this for that kinda money". Another ring got returned.. She analyzed that f'n ring under a light from ALL angles. She wants to get married and I told her if I EVER ask her AGAIN it will be with a $35 band! Every time we went looking at big 4 bedroom houses and I thought this was the right time, she would say something that just made me think.. I really don't know about this..
I'm 33 and still waiting for the right girl, I'm not getting married because I feel I have to.. It has to be the right girl. A girl who wants to go to the mustang events with me, drink with me, put up with me, has the same 'drive' as me, one who will get up when I wake in 4 in the morning and decide its time to go out for breakfast.. All I'm saying is... You get what you settle for...
PS I agree with Foxbody, you guys are being way over sensitive to what 89 Cobra Lx posted. I don't think I've met a guy yet that doesn't kid about getting tied down. There are people I meet daily that have been married over 30-40(maybe more)yrs that still make comments like that and thier women think its funny.
PSS Mustangbelle306, I really like the way you look at life. I agree 100%! Do you have a sister??
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