[TXinPA]

if you have any doubts about getting married at all, don't do it. divorce is a terrable thing to go through. if she wants you to be something you are not, then it might be better to wait a while, and see if you need to move on. keep in mind what the marrage vows are, in fact, think them over really well.

if you do marry her, give me her address so i can send her a sympathy card. hehe