Dude, almost every single post of yours that I see is either complaining about women, your old girlfriend, being alone etc etc etc. I think the root of your problem is that you can't be alone, or least it completely seems that way, (sorry if I'm way off).
I think the number one turnoff I've ever experienced is someone that is wayyyyyy too interested. Trust me, I don't play the ooo-he-likes-me-too-much games but if someone is scary-interested, it really puts me off. I just wanted someone that thought I was really neat, and wanted to get to know me better. We loooooove you guys to be interested, but a pushover, no...
Also, if any of these guys are jerks, they will talk about how you were sweating her all night, and you could consider it blown already. Women basically want what men want...a person that is good to them, but not a doormat. Not too wussy, but also not afraid to be human. I think maybe if you worried about other things besides chicks, you'd probably be a much happier person. I too, used to think that line about finding the person you love when you arent looking was COMPLETE bullsh!t, but sure enough, I met the man of my dreams when it was the last thing on my mind
